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Hey.
I was wondering..
i wear thongs with skirts. lIke sorta short skirts. lIke jean ones from abercrombie. Do you think thats slutty? If it is ill just wear like boy shorts. Because I dont want to be a slut or give off the wrong message. Any opinions? Thanks!

well this is just my opinon, i dont think its wise to wear a thong with it just incase it does fly up you you happen to not be crossing your legs. youll be in deep shit. the goody goodies that i know would think its slutty...i just think its not wise so id say go with the boyshorts or little lowrise bikinis.

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What is fingering?
And what does it feel like?

hey i think its rude to deny you an answer if the question is serious (it took me a while to figure it out for myself) but if its not, dont turn this site into a big joke. well anyway, this has been answered several times in the time ive been here so you can pretty much look in someones column and see if they happen to have it.
basically, its when i guy uses his finger to pleasure a girl by rubbing her clitoris or going into her vagina. its the opposite of giving a guy a hand job which is having another person masturbate for you if that makes any sense.

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hey i want to whiten my teeeth but i want to know what the best way is like crest white strips, simply white, oral b whitening strips, etc?? I RATE

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crest white stips are great!! ive used them twice and theyre pretty simple and they work.

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what does baller mean. like im a beller baby! lol

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=baller

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okay well im 13-f and i got my belly button pierced when i wasz 12. and for my 14th i wanna get my tongue done. because i really want to i guess lol... my mom and my sister has it so i want to. But my mom wants me to wait till im 16 to get it done. i dont get it at ALL because i was 12 when i got my belly button and my sister said it doesnt hurt at ALL. UGH this makes me so mad. i want to convince her into getting it for my 14th or even 15th birthday. PUHLESZ help me!!! i rate 5'sz!

and i already tried telling her that i already got my belly button and it isnt that much of a difference. so that isnt gunna work.

be happy with what you have! i wish my parents would have let me get my belly botton done at 12! i think your mom is going to make you wait whether you give her a good reason or not so just dont fight it. someday youll get it!

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Why are people so quickly to state that something is RACIST?? COME ON in a time of distruction we shouldnt be blaming other people but helping each other. NOT stealing guns, loitering places, shooting each other and raping girls. USE YOUR BRAINS if you shoot the rescue choppers down cause they want to take sickly, elders,and childern before they take you away then there not going to want to come back. Its pretty said when cops commit sucide so they dont have deal with people and are afraid of dying.
grrrr.. im sorry for the miss spelling and grammer errors but this erks me very much

haha i agree. some people think anything said or done is "racist" and i really dont think thats right. "i dont hate you b/c your mexican/african american/asian....i hate you cuz you effing stole my cookie!!" but owell best bet is to not say anything that could and will be taken offensively. some people are just ready to feel sorry for themselves.

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okay im 16 and just got my bellybutton pierced like last week. theres is this girl bianca and i basicly coacher her into the school and like made her cool and hot and all of that sort of stuff. and like she has been bragging that she got her belly ring when she was in summer of 8th grade and its like.. okay get over it. but she is turing into a totall bitch about it and i really dont want to be friends with a girl like that. do you guys think its okay to get your bellybutton pierced at 13/14. i tried telling her to stop bragging and no one cares because no one really does except for her, is there any way to get some sence into her to make her stop being annoying?

yeah i guess its ok b/c a lot of girls that age have it done. honestly, leave it alone. if she goes "yeah well i think its so cool" be like yeah thats right..soo cool. and then leave it alone. feeding her the "i dont think its right" line will only get her more mad so just let her think what she wants, it wont affect your life on how you interpret her piercing. like when people tell me they lost their virginity at 13, i dont tell them off and tell them how dumb they are. you just kinda go with it and be like "ohkay great for you." goodluck!

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wel... i just started my period... in the beginning of the summer (im 13) and ive been useing pads......well ther a pain in the ass!!! so0o i wanna start usin tampons but..... i donno.....i cant imagine shoving a string with a lot of coton strips up u! lol so should i be scared?? cuz... i donno wat 2 du.....! help..pleez lmao

thanx yall

me!

no no no!! dont be scared! if you use pearl, its plastic and you just relax, get it in you (its not as mig as you think, trust me!) then gently pull out the applicator. it shouldnt hurt if you put in right so have a mirror handy just in case. goodluck!

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i just got a male chihuahua and i need some good names

im thinking "taco" or "salsa"

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At the end of the movie "Dirty Dancing" it plays an awesome dance song. "Had the time of my life, no I've never felt this way before, yes I swear," or something like that is how it goes. Can someone please tell me what's the name of it, who sings it, and where I can find lyrics for it? Free five for a decent answer to any of my questions.
Thanks so much!

"I've Had The Time Of My Life" by Bill Medley

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ok so heres the deal, there is this guy in some of my classes and iive known him for a couple of years weve just never been friends really, and for two night in a row now ive had this wierd dream with him in it, whats this all about??

and i didnt know what category to put this in

maybe you like him or are somehow attracted to him or simply want to get to know him better. it really depends what you were doing.

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What are some important discoveries in the field of biology?

discovery of a plant and animal cell.
thats all i can think of right now.

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Why are people so obsessed with being trendy? Why does everyone feel the need to wear the latest clothes, or listen to the latest music(Rap usually). What happened to people being individuals, and being happy with who they are? This isnt really a good question, but it gets on my nerves how people act sometimes.

yeah i see what you mean but the people i know the "trend" is to be "your geeky self". it weird b/c ppl will go out of their way not to look "cool" and i dont like that so im my "fashionable" self and wear whatever the hell i feel like wearing. all my friends would agree with you tho and they critisize me for rolling my uniform sleves or wearing eyeliner. its really a matter of opionion.

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ok. my friend is making me so mad. she lost her cheereleading uniform and since the last place she was at was at my house, she keeps saying she left it here. so i looked and looked all over the place and it WASNT here and i never saw it ever. so like every couple days she blows up and starts these BIG fights all about her uniform. its so annoying because i seriously DONT have her uniform. what do i do?!

tell her that she can go look for her own damn uniform! (ok sorry ive had stuff like this happen and im pissed lol) ok i think she needs to get a ife because no one is gonna like her if she blames people for her irresponsibility. she really shouldnt be starting fights about either...i feel sorry for you having to put up with it. anyway, why would you want her cheerleading uniform? thats the most random thing ever! tell her that yours (if you have your own) is a defferent size or somthing? show her the closet if thats what it takes. goodluck!

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When people say "Hope I helped!", that is so freaking annoying. Is anyone with me?

i can see how it could get annoying but i know i do it because i really care that the person gets the info they need, know what i mean? also what other way do you close the thought? "bye" is retarded. so i just do it, sorry it bothers you.

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how long before yur period do u usually have cramps??

some people its 1-2 weeks before it and some people 3 days before and 1 day during. it varies.

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ok well in the music industry, i've noticed there's not a lot of asians..like chinese or japanese or anything at ALL. like there's plenty of blacks, and some hispanics, and even some indians...but no like chinese or anything. it's not that there's not a lot in america, there is..but how come they're not in the music business?? is this racism or what??? sorry but i find it sort of odd, what do you guys think??

i really dont think its racism. i know a boat load of asians and most of which are under their parents control and have high academic expectations set on them. a lot of asians are in classical music...youve got yo yo ma and several others. you bring up and interesting question tho. i think asians rock.

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Ok my mom doesnt like thongs adn wont let me wear one and none of my friends do, but other people in my grade do. And i cant drive so i cant drive myself to the store to get one. Does anyone have a way i can buy one adn not let my mom know i amm buying it. And i cant go get one with my friends because they hate people who wear them! i rate high!

oh i see what you mean, none of my friends wear thongs because theyre goodie goodies (and dont get what VPL stands for). you should really talk to your mom about it...my mom was all for it since i asked her and didnt sneak them. be like, its not because my friends are wearing them b/c none of them do, id just like to try one to see if theyre more comfortable/less visible panty line ...whatever the case may be. hope that helps!

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Is it weird to wear a shirt you got on sale, for the first day of school? It's just a t-shirt that says american eagle three times on it.

nope its not weird. its how you wear it that matters and some people dont even wear new clothes on the first day. its just a thing that stores try to make people do so they start buying more.

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what stores have cute maternity clothes?

target has the liz lange clothes that are really cute.

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