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over a bellyring?
okay im 16 and just got my bellybutton pierced like last week. theres is this girl bianca and i basicly coacher her into the school and like made her cool and hot and all of that sort of stuff. and like she has been bragging that she got her belly ring when she was in summer of 8th grade and its like.. okay get over it. but she is turing into a totall bitch about it and i really dont want to be friends with a girl like that. do you guys think its okay to get your bellybutton pierced at 13/14. i tried telling her to stop bragging and no one cares because no one really does except for her, is there any way to get some sence into her to make her stop being annoying?
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Well, I think you should be the responsible adult here, because um, you are sixteen so you really shouldnt care what the hell she does. I mean, you're like alot older than her, so why should you care? Just tell her "Good For You" and then just stay away from her. I know a friend who got her bellybutton pierced. Yeah, everyone thinks its so cool, but that really deppends on what kind of person you are.
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It sounds as though the girl has nothing really to
talk about at all with any of you or in common. Why does this topic keep coming up with her? Odds are
she is talking about it to you because she knows it is the only thing you have in common or to keep
a group of friends who are turning out to be annoyed.
What should you do? Trest her with respect and tact and say, "You told me several times let's talk about something else." That said in front of everyone will get her to stop and focus on other stuff and maybe a whispered "Be yourself and listen for a good opportunity. You talk a little too much." will get it across.
As far as her being a bitch--annoying yes--bitch no she does not have the best in social or communication skills and probably has no clue she is annoying you--none--this is normal behavior to her. Bragging all that will die when you tactfully pull her aside and explain how this looks to everyone.
It is not your job to knock sense into anyone. Life if you deserve it will reach out and bite you or kick your ass itself. Do not worry there--except that maybe the kick in the butt is
designed for you both to see something the other needs.
Bellybutton rings are nice on cute women who are
20-30. I kind of feel swqueamish with kids. They hurt like hell from what I heard going in and perhaps in a few years they will be out of fashion. Get them if you want but ask yourself was this worth the pain? Am I any older or cooler? and you will know if it is right for you.
Getting something like this is requires adult though and maturity on your part. It should never be viewed
as something easy as brushing your teeth. It will
hurt and in the end will anyone care? I mean comeon girls do this to get someone to care--a guy--so if he does not and others do not what's the use in getting it done?
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yeah i guess its ok b/c a lot of girls that age have it done. honestly, leave it alone. if she goes "yeah well i think its so cool" be like yeah thats right..soo cool. and then leave it alone. feeding her the "i dont think its right" line will only get her more mad so just let her think what she wants, it wont affect your life on how you interpret her piercing. like when people tell me they lost their virginity at 13, i dont tell them off and tell them how dumb they are. you just kinda go with it and be like "ohkay great for you." goodluck! <3
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Haha...its not nice to swear like that reply you sent me.. fckk? what kind of spelling is that? besides you asked for advice and i gave you some..you dont have to go ballistic or anything...sheesh...
Fine real advice, okay...?
if you dont want to be friends with her dont hang out with her or just confront her face to face...tell her what you feel.
I dont think you should ever get a belly button peircing as much as a toungue pierceing...but you vcould really use less profanitty!
Dont swear-!!!!!
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Well yes it is okay for you to get your bellybotton peirced at 13 cause i'm 13 and i got mine peirced.Some people just say its not really that good becuase your still growing but it won't hurt to. But just talk to her and tell her that know one is really worried. Talk to your friends to becuase like you can tell them to just like ignore her about sayin and braggin that she got it peirced and then after mabey she'll relize that know one cares and she'll probably stop.
~Kristy~
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uhm well i got mine when i wasz 12.... so i dont really think itsz wrong at all. As for making her stop braging... either start braging about yoursz and get annoying about it ** not to every1 else.. just to her** and maybe she will think to herself, "hey this IS kinda annoying.. maybe im being that way..god im an annoying bitch" .. well maybe not the last part haha. but if she doesnt.. then just try your hardest to ignore her. ik itsz hard to but whut she wants is attention..and if no1 gives it to her... then maybe she will stop. well hope i helped. drop by the inbox nd tell me how everything went =). xoxo♥alese
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