I have a boyfriend named Banard. He farts.. IN PUBLIC! I love him and his farts, but not in public! I mean, I don't wanna be called names, because of him. And, my parents thinks it's soo unexceptable that he farts in public. How should I talk to him about this? What do I do?!?!? HELLPP MEE! PLEASE!
Signed,
Fartness Confused
this might sound stupid but this is how i always say something i dont like about somebody to em.. A doctor told me about it but ever since then ive used it.. its like a sandwich..
okay well the top part of the bread you tell your boyfriend something good like **Banard i love you you mean alot to me**
Then the middle nasty part you tell him like**i would really appreciate it if you didnt fart in public it kinda is embarassing** or something similar
then the bottom of the sandwich tell him something good about himself that you like again.. that way you say something good and get out what you want to say to him.. ♥ Dez
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hey♥ i have been with Tim off and on since february vacation but at the end up may we started actually getting close and can talk about anything now. we have been goin out and we hangout alot ( we`ve already had sex, so dont critisize) but today i noticed he asked me something that i was sort of worried about before. me and him were sitting at dunkin donuts and he was like " do you seriously love me" and he was the first guy i have ever said it to and i said of course i do, alot and i told him he has no idea what he means to me, then i asked why? and he was like i love you and like you alot, and sometimes i think you dont and your randomly gunna not like me and break up with me. it was so weird! like i dont understand why hed say that, should i be worried? then we were across the street outside and he was gunna go in and get something but these guys came out of a store and sat in there car and tim waited till they left to go in the store because he thought they would talk to me and id do somethin.. id never do that.. whats some ways i can show him how much i love and care?♥ thanksss!
Well tellin him is always good.. maybe tell him more often.. but dont tell him so much that it drives him crazy.. by the way im not here to critisize you thats your business.. well talk to him about this tell him how you feel about him not trusting you and tell him why you want him to trust you.. i mean thats what you can start out with.. ♥ Dez sorry if i didnt help you out to much but thats what i would do hun..
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Ok... i see my boyfriend every day for at least 3 hours or so... well he works during the week...
is it weird that i miss him all day?
people tell me i'm too dependent on him but i just love him
and i miss him
your not weird dont worry.. ♥ Dez
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All my friends masturbate and stuff, but not me. I'm sort of scared because i dont really no about it. I have a few questions.
1-Is it bad for your health
2-will it effect your period
3-will it make sex worse in the long run
4- how do u really masturbate
so confused and so left out. please answer all questions fully and i'll rate high, much love(and confusion) PLEASE HELP!
**1 No its not bad for your health there isnt nothing wrong with masturbating..
**2 no it will not mess with your period
**3 and no it will not make sex worse in the long run
**4 you finger yourself or you can touch your clit.. ♥ Dez
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Well my boyfriend wants to have sex with me...but im like i dont know how to explain it but i dont like showing my lower part of my body and no matter what i try to do it still kinda uhm smells a little bit..i shower 2 times a day and it still doesnt help...i dont want to ask my mom either because that's jsut too embarrassing and im aafriad he might hate me after he does it and sees it and you know....
-stuckNconfused
Hun i thought alot of these same things.. i was so embarassed of my body.. and i even told my boyfriend that i felt funny about my body and how he might think of me.. and he told me he knows im clean and that nothing is wrong with me and he told me he'd respect it if i wasnt ready.. but like he also said he loved me and dont want me uncomfortable so i think if he loves you and everything then he wouldnt care.. and by the way i think probably every girl has a smell down there and its normal.. its not pose to smell like roses hun.. you have no worries just wait til your ready and maybe try talkin to him about it ♥ Dez
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well all of my friends wear special underwear, thongs, and i dont like them ,but i dont wanna tell them that, they'll call me granny, but im also not allowed to wear them, and when i do i feel uncomfortable and guilty thinking wut would my parents think if they know im wearing them, HELP ME!
alot of my friends dont wear thongs.. they dont wear granny panties eith they wear those panties that look like bikini bottoms.. ♥ Dez
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okay i want my ears double peirced (i already have them once) but i swim a lot with my friends and i was wondering since you have to keep it in for 6 weeks can i swim with the earrings in?
Yes you can swim with ear rings in i do all the time.. i would make sure you have lil ear rings in tho so your hair dont pull on em while you swim.. ♥ Dez
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17/f
Alright, i feel silly asking this question but sometimes i feel weird that my boyfriend is a bit shorter then me. I love him very much and he loves me back even more and a feel like this could last for a long time. Should i talk to him about this (but i guess its not like this is going to change it) or what should i do? Am i stupid for feeling like this?
Lol its okay.. my aunt is taller then my uncle but you dont realize it.. why should his height matter you love him and his shortness lol.. dont worry about it and i wouldnt talk to him about it unless you feel comfortable about it.. and yes its true if you talk to him about it.. its deff not going to change.. ♥ Dez
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18/m
My next door neighbor is this beautiful, green eyed angel to me. We spend all our time together, late nights till 5 and 6 in the morning just cutting up and looking at the stars. We share everything in common, even the lil things we love each other for. Ive known her about 4 months now and we have gotten very close, romantic settings, kissing hugging etc. Now heres the punch line .. shes 24 and married and she has her own kid.
I mean ive raised kids all my life and this is no big deal to me but I dunno what to do .. leave her to her life or start a relationship when shes divorced
Well if she's divorcing then i would think its okay.. if you dont have a problem with her having a kid and wouldnt mind being in this childs life i dont see the problem.. and her being 24 isnt a big deal your not illegal for her and age is just a number.. ask her what she wants.. then decide from there.. ♥ Dez
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hey i am 13 and im an ice skater. i want a new screen name but i cant think of anything. i want it to have to do with ice skating, if anyone has any ideas please answer !! thank you so much
Ic3An9el..
IcePrincess..
IceAngel..
IceAnqel..
QueenOfIce..
IceSk8Baby..
Iluv2Sk8..
QT_on_Ice..
IceyQT..
IceyCutie..
Beauty_On_Ice..
Sk8RBaby..
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what are some flirty sweet names to call a guy besides sexy or baby???
Boo bee Boo lol.. pick something about their personality and call em by that.. like sweetie.. hun.. boo.. ♥ Dez
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My discharge has turned brown for the past 3 days... i suppose to get my period in about a week. Is this spotting or should i worry?
fyi... i typically dicharge heavily between all my periods and it usually is white... the change in color just freaked me out because it's never happened before.
16/f and my period is usually regular
um i think its your period not discharge.. ♥ Dez
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Hi, I shave my lower area but somehow it always get irritaed with bumps and everything. Is there any other way not to get these? Please help.
Those are razor bumps hun.. buy maybe a new razor use shaving cream or soap when you shave down there.. but shave down wards firsts get the hair all off and then shave up wards.. if your hair is real long down there try trimming it first so its easier.. when you get done shving put baby oil,baby lotion or some kind of lotion down there.. if you continue to get bumps try shaving with conditionor or with lotion.. ♥ Dez
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In scotland/uk what's the lega l age to get a tattoo??
If there's anyone on glasgow or Edinburgh who can suggest any good places to get it done it would b much appreciated. Oha and how much am i looking at??
All help appreciated
Anthony
okay you have to be 18 years of age to get a tattoo.. i mean it could be different in different place.. and it depends on how big and how much ink the tatto will need.. usually they are like 50 bucks and up.. i spend one fifty for one tatto i got which is pretty small and i spend 300 for one that isnt that big either.. they are pretty expensive.. ♥ Dez
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I am 13 and I'm a female. A few of my guy friends seem to act real nice around me, but when they're around each other, they say bad things about me. I'd like to know if I can trust them.
if they talk bad about you their not your friends hun.. make new friends and forget them assholes.. ♥ Dez
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i'm gonna get my hair colored again pretty soon. my hair color is brown and i have blonde highlights but they're already grown out. should i get highlights again or dye it another color do something differnt? i'm tan & i have brown eyes if that matters. i rate thanks a bunch
stay with the blonde highlights.. maybe get like two different color blondes to make it look more natural.. ♥ Dez
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I'm 13 and i'm looking for a way to earn some cash, and babysitting seems the best way, trouble is i dont really know anyone i could babysit! does anyone have any ideas on how i could find some customers??
put fliers up.. get your parents to ask their friends or any family members if they need a baby sitter anytime.. ♥ Dez
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ok i know this is bad but i just told my dad to burn in hell and hes REALLY MAD what do i do
how about sayin sorry.. ♥ Dez
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can you get pregnant on your period?
Nope.. ♥ Dez
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I like someone but I am not sure if he likes me or if i should ask him out?
Ask him if he likes you.. you'll never know unless you ask hun.. ♥ Dez
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