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hey im fat and short and cant find any jeans to fit me right, i have tons of jeans but theyre all too baggy in the back part of my leg like behind the knee and stuff. anyone have any suggestions on where i can get jeans to fit MY body type easily? i wear like size 16 in WOMEN and im 5'3. so tell me thanks.

hey if your a bit curvy, you might not want to wear jeans that are tight especially if they dont even out at the bottom with flare or it will add some bulk. try torrid.

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What are some healthy snacks you can replace with junk food to not eat just a bunch of swets- but somethign actually nutricious! Lol please don't send me to a website to look b/c i hate it when they do that...
Thanks in advance- I rate high!

nature valley granola bars are good, low fat quacker chewys fill you up and compared to junk food, they arent fattening. (im saying this b/c i told a kid that once and they gave me a one saying theyre fattening when no, they really arent.) stay motivated!

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Two questions about pre-marriagal sex... first one, am I spelling it right? I just like to know how to spell things, sorry to waste your time. Second one, before Advicenators, I was always under the impression that pre-marriagal sex was just for the screwed-in-the-head potheads and the sluts/whores. But now I'm looking at these questions, and seriously folks, it's just insane how many people are saying "I've been with my b/f three months and we had sex last night, is that too little time?" or something like that. Are my thoughts on pre-marriagal sex wrong? Note: Smartasses get 1s and will be reported. Give me real advice.

I too found oout some interesting things about pre marital sex when i first came on this site. i knew people did it, but sometimes it seems that the topic comes up too casually and sometimes disgusting..."my friend is 14 and pregnant.." or "i gave this guy head and he still wont go out with me..." sad life some of these kids are living but who are we to judge. everyone believes different things and as long as people like you dont get pressure by these people, we can save the world from being completely infected with HIV, AIDS, STD etc. stay true!

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Hey everyone.
I want a new screen name but I can't think of any. I want it to be the title of a song or something that has to do with a song. I wanted it to be BEAUTiFULxDiSASTER but it's too long.I also like American Eagle. Please help if you have any ideas. Thanks!

AE ANYTIME

^anytime is a kelly clarckson song fyi. let me know what songs you like!

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this year are long dresses or short dresses in style for homecoming?
thanks bunches!

i heard tea length is in this year.

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if someone u know has diabeties and u accidently/purposly drink out of their cup that they drank out of, what could happen if anything?no smartass answers nd btw, this aint for me

you can get mono from anyone but no diabeties isnt contagious.

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hey guys.
Im having trouble with my homework. I have to make a graph with a "break symbol" & I have no clue what that is. I searched through my math text book for a definition or example & I couldnt find one!
Does anyone know? Thanks! I give 5's!

i think the brak symbol goes above the 0 and all the way across to show that you want to skip some number then start on a higher one and go by different intervals especially if the numbers are high but exact. hope that helps!

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what are for ways to greet someone in spanish. i already have hola

"hola" "como estas" "bienvenidos" "que pasa" "buenos dias"

let me know if you want something more advanced...im fluent in spanish fyi.

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is it actually possible for your cherry to pop without having full blown sex? because the real story was my friend had to go to the gyno. and she tried some things but never had sex with a guy, as in a home run, and if so, does the gyno. say anything to parents? i rate high.

yes, a lot of different things can pop her cherry. and no, the gyno cant say anything (even if shes been with 10 guys) to her parents.

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A friend of mine (14) is pregnant and I want to know what kinds of things she can/can't do. Like, what foods are best/bad? And what activities should she avoid? Anything that would be a tip to help me be supportive. Thanks!

oh boy. well this website has tips/guides/sources for just about any topic you can think of. www.about.com ... be supportive but she should really learn to do some things by herself now that shes gonna have to take care of a child.

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is it posibble that you can be on your period but still be pregnant??

ive heard cases where the girl got her period every month she was pregnant so yeah, its possible but probably rare.

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okay well i just got my haircut and i hate it.. i told this lady not short and no bangs and she made itshort with bangs and i hate it!! but all my friends are like its so cute and the guy i like told me it looks great, but i was just wonderin... do guys like it better if a girl wears her hair up or down??

leave it down especially if the guy you like told you he liked it! lol guess its not that bad after all is it? you can put it up at times too, you dont have to do the same thing everyday.

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okay well for the past 2 weeks of school ive dressed up really nice... and ive looked classy. well im kinda tired of gettina ll dressed up, so what are some ways to make myself look cute, but not too dressy?? also, i want to wear a sweatshirt tomrow and jeans, but do guys look down on girls who dont get all dressed up, or do they not care?? please help!! i need some ideas

guys really dont care that much and the ones that do are either really dumb and not worth the effort or gay. comfy is ok!

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i am redecorating my room and i don't have that much money for it. does anybody know where i can find some decorating things. ex. bed comforters, curtains, lamps, desks, exc.

wal mart, target, some grocerie stores, design outlets, tx maxx. goodluck!

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why is it bad for guys to drink mountain dew?

my guy friend just told me that he heard it lowers sperm count. hmm. suddenly doesnt look too apetizing.

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What age is normal for girls to start masturbating or wanting to or getting horny?

it varies...whenever it comes, it comes.

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I`ve only had my period twice ( I got it about 3 months ago ) My mom bought me some tampons, but I thought you were supposed to wait like a year to use them. I hate wearing pads but i don`t know how to use a tampon. If you could tell me how or when I should start I`ll rate high.

well if you open the box, it tells you everything you need to know. and no, you dont have to wait as long as you dont put in a super jumbo tampon when your just starting. your moms a woman, im sure shed be more than willing to help you out.

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Does anyone know of any good web sites for book over views? I have to do my essays on Monday and I read the books at the beginning of summer so I want to brush up on all the details. Please don’t say spark notes it doesn’t have either book. Thank you. And yes I do rate.

www.cliffnotes.com

its saved my life more than just a few times.

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I slept over my friends house the other night and I slept in one of the two beds she has in her room. so that was okay and then a couple of days later she told me that she went to 3rd base with this guy i know in that bed. so I was wondering if I can catch anything from just sleeping in that bed

well, no you cant get anything from sleeping on it but thats pretty sick and you might wanna sleep on the ground or not sleep over...id be pretty grossed out.

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ok well i want to get my boyfriend a dog tag for his birthday but i dont know what to put it on it.. any ideas?? and can someone tell me how much they are? and where can i get them at the mall?? thanks

you can get them in the stands at the mall or at a flea market and you should get something like a pic of you 2 on the front then some cute message on the back.

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