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So let's say I smoke weed/barely a whole cigarette every 3-4 months. Let's also say I sing, and practice it religiously. After I do smoke I go on a regime-healing rampage (voice exercises everyday, jogging, tons of water and tea, --I'm going to start doing this all the time as well) I also play clarinet(which builds strength in the voice). So in the long run, since I'm doing this in moderation (meaning, I'm really limiting myself and constantly making sure my voice get's better after I do smoke) Is it okay to smoke every once in awhile? I'm 18, enjoy occasional partying and wouldn't get into any other drugs nor buy any on my own. Thankyou!

Smoking is bad for your health. There's no other way to put it. Can you get really sick from it? Yes. Can you not get sick at all? Yes. Even though there are tons of studies down about the effects of smoking weed and the toll it has on your brain, no one really knows for sure because some people get sick and some don't. If you are going to keep smoking that's up to you but remember it is illegal and you'll have a hefty fine if you don't have a medical marijuana license. However, doing those other healthy lifestyle changes doesn't mean it will help. You still smoke it but it probably can't hurt trying.

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my boyfriend.. lies bad. just about everything,and he lies about uu




If you don't trust him, you shouldn't be with him.

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I don't know if I'm expecting "too much" from my roommate but I wish she could be more considerate about what she does and says. My biggest problem with her right now is the inordinate amount of noise she makes when I'm trying to sleep. I don't get much sleep at night because I'm up late studying and up early going to classes. When I take a valuable nap in the middle of the day, she claims she didn't realize and/or didn't see me. During those times and when I go to sleep before her/sleep in after she wakes up, she is so inconsiderate and loud. Some examples include leaving the door to the common room open - my suitemates are obnoxiously loud and it lets in a hefty amount of light and noise, bumps into my bed (it shakes it enough to startle me), closes her drawers and closet with too much energy, throws her granola box to the side after she's done crunching them in her open mouth, has phone conversations in the room, turns on music or the light, brushes her teeth in the room with her electric toothbrush, etc. I have already asked her to be careful when I'm sleeping because she wakes me up...in vain.

What's more aggravating is that she tells ME to be quiet when she's getting her precious 9 hours of sleep. First of all, she signed up to be in a morning suite when she's not willing to get up any tie before 9am. I have 8am classes almost everyday so I have changed my routine a lot just to make my mornings as quiet as possible - laying out my outfit in the mornings, packing my bags at night, using my phone alarm instead of my alarm clock, changing my lamp lightbulb to a dimmer one, etc. But she STILL tells me to be quiet because I wake her up when in reality she rarely wakes up except when she is sleeping really lightly. I am quiet as a mouse in the morning but I have no motivation to do so.

Just 4 hours ago, at 3am, she knocked the top half of my desk (it's a detached shelf like component) in her sleep. She says "Sorry, haha" and goes RIGHT back to sleep while I spend an hour putting it back up and picking up everything that fell and lying awake in my bed, super annoyed.

She also has a tendency to demean the college we go to. She says that this was her back up and she should've gotten into an Ivy League but doesn't know why she didn't. She says everyone here is such a slack with no motivation to do well. She talks about transferring, how she's so shocked at how low of a standard the school and kids have, etc. First of all, this school she is talking about is UVA - #2 public college in the US. Second of all, does she not realize that she's not doing so hot academically here yet she says UVA kids are stupid and she should've gone to an Ivy? Third of all, does she not realize how annoying and insulting that is?

I only have 2 months left before the semester ends, but I am at my wit's end and on the verge of just screaming my head off at her. What should I do? What should I say?

You need to discuss it with her very calmly or it could turn into an argument. What's the most important thing to you in regards to this situation? Explain to her what that is. For example, if you just want quality sleep then tell her you aren't getting that. Ignore her annoying qualities. Are you rooming with her next year? If you are then you should get a new roommate assignment. If you speak to her and it just isn't getting any better, then talk to your RA about it. You might be able to move or have her moved for the remainder of the semester.

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what is the fastest way to fade blue jeans?

http://www.ehow.com/how_4870032_fade-blue-jeans.html

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older dog peeing in house at 3

Sometimes older dogs never really learned how to pee outside. Did it always had incidents in the house? If so, you should probably get it checked out to see if it has bladder issues. If not, you could get a trainer to come and help. If that is not in your budget, the vet might have some tricks you can try.

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I want to know what happen when you report a drunk driver, but maybe he/she wasn't drunk. But the thing that I really want to know is what happen when you report a drunk driver, what do the cops do, or what are the consequences. and another thing that want to know is what happen if there was a mistake when a person report a drunk driver but didn't see him really well, so maybe she made a mistake. Can you answer me this question please?

It depends on the driver. If you falsely report someone, you probably won't get into any trouble. Driving recklessly is a crime. It's better to report then not.

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i found my grandfather Bib Overalls from when he was a kid. They are for a 4 or 5 year old and he was born in 1912, so I estimated them to be 1916 or 1917 kids Bib Overalls levi Strauss jeans. They have the old buttons from that era and also the rivets that are from the early 1900's. I would like to find similar picturs so I can see if anyone else has them and I also want to know how rare they are. If you have a starting price for an auction that would be great as well. Thank you. You can contact me via
sharkysorganicshaveice@hotmail.com

Thanks Again,

james

Your best option is posting them on ebay and craigslist to see what kind of hits you'd get. You don't have to sell them of course but you'd see what you'd get for them.

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I have my first yeast infection, and i bought Monistat 7. i was wondering if it made the itching and burning worse for anyone else besides me?

If it made it worse, stop taking it and see a doctor. Sometimes medications can cause reactions.

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First I know it's under music but that's the closest I could find but anyways I have been reading all these books and I keep think they might come true to me. Like I read a lot of romance books and I keep think that's whats going to happen to me and in a small part of my mind I know it never will. What should I do I really hate this??????

You should take a break from reading romance novels. Try adventure or mystery.

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I am 13(m)and my hair is really coarse/thick and curly. Right now I straighten it every morning and its just getting to be too much work. I have no idea what do with it, any suggestions?

Buzz cut. I'm female and I know plenty of girls who prefer guys with short hair.

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I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months. We're both 22 and have a lot in common, and the beginning looks promissing for a successful long term relationship. The compatibility, his behavior, his mix of almost everything I want from a man, him finding what a lot of what he looks for in a woman with me... Though early, it seems like this could potentially blossom with time into something beautiful. So far, we bring out the best in each other, we push each other to do better, and we function like a team in many aspects. I honestly think this relationship makes both of us happier and better persons.

We haven't had sex yet, though we got to the stage of doing everything else, including sleeping together in the same bed without clohes on. I am not a virgin, but sex is a serious topic for me. I don't take it lightly, and I only want to think of having it in the context of a long term, loving relationship possibly heading towards marriage. I have had two serios relationships previously, which both ended at their own times due to compatibility reasons. After my second relationship I had told myself that I will only have sex again with a man that I am compatible enough to head into marriage. That doesn't mean waiting until marriage itself, but having a relationship with a good enough shape for that, if it makes sense. I don't want to get married now, but I see myself there in 2-3 years.

There is a strong attraction between me and my bf, which is why we got as far as we did. Despite the physical connection so far, I deffinetely don't feel ready to take it to the final end and have the sexusal intercourse, with all the risks and vulnerability it implies. I need more time for the relationship to develop and ...well to see how much of a long term it can get.

Last night he told me, while we were on his bed,that "That's it. This has to happen soon", because he "can't wait much longer". That "It's been already more than 3 months", and that "he's already showed me" he loves me and he's interested in more than just a sex fling with me.

I felt hurt by his words, and taken aback, because up to this point he acted very patient and encouraging, telling me things like "I can take as much time I need". I am curious ,was this something said in the sexual tension of the moment, or if it goes deeper and should worry me as to his feelings and intentions. I also don't want him to suspect any other reasons why I don't want to have sex with him, and on the other hand I don't know how to tell him everything on my mind without scarring him off.

I am sorry about the long post, but I am a bit confused about what I should do in my interaction with him. What I am not confused about is that I don't want to go all the way yet... So I guess I am asking for some feedback and for views of how people would handle this situation. Thank you

You can't be upset about being pressured to have sex when you slept in bed with him naked. If you didn't want to be pressured, you shouldn't have done that. However, that does not mean you should just have sex with him. If you aren't ready, then tell him you aren't ready and deal with the break up. You shouldn't ever have sex when you aren't ready.

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Here's the summary:
Ashton, Bree, Chaston, and Dalia were best friends until Dalia disappeared and was killed four months later. Off they go back to the school where she was murdered, and where they're friendship started. But there is still a killer on the loose, still people that want to join the exclusive dorm they're part off, Eva still trying to become friends with them, and the girls are still breaking (maybe killing) hearts.

So how should I start? I mean I already have some ideas but I would like your opinions.
1) Start at Dalia's funeral
2) Start at the part where Dalia and her old boyfriend Kaleb are having a fight on whether or not he loves her. Then she tells him she's a vampire (she really is).
3) Start where they are reflecting on Dalia's murder and talking about secrets.

I know this sounds like Pretty Little Liars. . .it won't be like that. Promise. :)

BQ: Which title is better?
A,B,C, E
Alpha-Dead Soup
Everything is Wrong
Mints
Ace and Hearts
Ace

I think the second beginning would be the most intriguing to audiences. For some reason people like vampire novels. For the title it's hard to decide since we don't know much about the book. They all seem pretty interesting but you should pick which goes along with the book better and will stand out to the reader.

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How do i do a balloon car for science? And how could I get an "A", what are the best ways of doing it, and what are the equipments.

Any Advice??

Google it.

It will be much easier.

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about how much would a monthly motel rate be for places like florida or south carolina?

Motels are around $40-$50 a night so that range is not possible unless you get a deal of some kind but you'll have to talk to the manager. It's expensive.

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What happened to Yahoo Personals? I went to update my old profile and check on one I had saved from a long time ago, but the whole site is just GONE!

Can anyone explain why it is closed own?

I will rate!

They closed it down awhile ago. Not sure why that is. They have Yahoo profiles but it isn't really the same thing. You might want to email them about it.

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How can I stop being so clingy? I need to get over this. I don't know if it's because I can't trust guys or what. But I seem to always want attention from a guy I'm not with, a guy a like. When they give me attention I take it for granted and actually get annoyed when they talk to me all the time. I can understand myself. Women like me are confusing haha.

It seems like you just want a boyfriend. That's normal. Don't try clinging to guys though. It will give you the opposite. They'll run. Enjoy your time with them but don't be so needy. If they really like you, they'll stick around.

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thanx!

A marine life vet works on marine animals. Google the job title and you'll find information.

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im 18/f hes 19/m

Last night i went out to a club to see one of my favourite bands, i had organised to meet up with a guy thats my best friend, that i also have very very strong feelings for. He says he likes someone but i'm too afraid to ask who...so anyways as i was catching the train on the way there he texted me saying his phones about to die, and to text me where ill be at all times through the night so he could try and see me. I texted him the details, then he said he probably wont be able to get into the club due to the amount of people attending to see the band playing, and that the tickets would run out by the time he got there. He then turned his phone off saying he'll only use it for emergency incase something happens. I then told myself, that if there was such thing as fate, that somehow we'd see each other tonight.

anyways i went to the club with my other friends, enjoying the night. I thought i would text him so next time he turned on his phone he'd know how much i was wishing he was there. just as i was about to press the send button he calls me. He tells me he's outside so of course i race out to go see him, he hugged me, held onto me and ran his fingers back and forth across the skin on my shoulder. He was drunk, and soon enough his friends came over (after finding out he ran ahead of them to get to the club sooner). He introduced me to them, then told me that judging by the line he doubts they will be able to get in... the band i originally went to see, was playing the time i talked to this guy, and as my fave song by them i came all that way to hear, began to play, i gave him one more cuddle before going back in. as i pulled away he said "i owe you this" and kissed me.

that was our first kiss, we've talked about wanting to kiss each other before, but not wanting to mess everything up. I was excited when he used the last of his phone battery to text me to say he managed to get in. so i went and found him, he immediately cuddled me, and everywhere we walked he held my hand. We even just spent ten minutes holding each other, his head resting on top of mine, my head on his chest, and our arms around each other. We looked like a couple, and it felt so natural and perfect. Then he introduced me to his other friends, and we started dancing. I started to get jealous when this one girl was constantly dancing with him. I could tell she was into him as well and i didn't want to compete, thinking it wasn't possible that i would possibly have things work out for me.

Its just he has another best friend thats a girl that i met last night, and they were dancing together, and i got pretty jealous. He saw her again tonight and now im confused as to whether or not he likes me :S

The best thing to do is straight out ask him. No one on a website is going to be able to tell you if he likes you or not. If he was with another girl in that way, not sure why you'd want to pursue him. Are you able to trust him? If not, move on. Jealous is very normal. Does he get jealous if you're with another guy? If he does then he might like you back.

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is it normal or fair that your parents wont let you date when you are 17 years old? i have a boyfriend and he's in college now i don't know if i can even call him my boyfriend because my parents refuse to let me go out with him besides that i'm not allowed to go out anywhere not even with friends because they are so controlling i really like this guy and i'm afraid that he will drift away because i never see him what do i do in this situation?
thanks in advance

They're just being protective of you. Maybe if you brought him to your house and let your parents get to know him, they will be more willing to let you go out with him.

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So here's my question... im a girl and im 16, but for some reason i am very nervous about doing things with this guy i like in school. We always talk about doing stuff and having sex. I asked this question before and i got an answer saying watch some porn videos... well i did and im still nervous because they are pro. How do I boost my seflesteem so i can actually do what i say i want to do? And im not looking for an answer that says do what's conftorable or if youre not ready dont do it. Im not looking for those answers. I want to do stuff with him but im scared, how do i become unscared?

You have to realize why it is you're scared. You said you didn't want these answers but you're probably scared because you aren't ready. However, it's your decision and if you still want to do it that's on you. Just remember you can't undo sex. Try talking to him about it. Talk about what he wants to do and what you want to do. If you're shy around him, not sure why you'd want to have sex with him. Be smart and at least use protection.

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