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There's this boy that I've known about 3 years. We used to not get along AT ALL but when I started taking the bus again, he started talking to me more and more and now whenever my friend gets off, he comes and sits across from me and talks to me. He also suggested we see a movie together but I don't know if he means JUST AS FRiENDS. People say he likes me but I'm not sure. I know I like him because my heart is always racing when I think of him and I dream about him and I know I have a crush but I'm unsure about the signals he's saying. Does the movies ALWAYS signal a date? Also, I can never really talk to him about "us" because there are all these other kids listening. =(

-Crushin'

Well 3 years is a long time, so I think he does mean for something to start, like a closer friendship, or possibly a relationship.
Since you're such good friends, maybe you could offer him your phone number? Or you take his? Then you can talk about WHATEVER!:)

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I like this one guy in my class. I talk to him alot and we get along well. The thing is, first, he is a grade older then me (sophmore) and second, we are two way different people. He's really smart and kind of nerdy, I guess you could say. Also, hes more into a real relationship and doesn't seem like a shallow,"want to get some" guy. I, on the other hand have never had a real relationship because I always end up finding a shallow guy and I give it all away. I really want a true relationship and I have never liked a guy like him before, I guess my question is, how do I get a guy like him, what's he looking for in a girl, and does every guy just look for sex?

Good news! Every guy is not looking for sex.:)I think you should grab him. He's a good deal. How to get him...be yourself! He's most likely looking for someone w/goals, since he's smart; and someone who wants a real relationship, like you! Let him know you like him and why. He should be flattered and appreciate it. You should become closer too. Hope i helped.

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hey um im in 7th grade and i have never made out before, the guy that im going out with thinks i have, but i haven't, and hes tried to make his move a couple of times, i've been going behind my parents back, im not aloud to have a boyfriend let alone frech kiss a guy. My parentes are strict, they wont even let him call me, but he does anyway, lol im scared that i'll like screw up and he would think im a bad kisser. I would have no idea what to do, help me out

Don't wanna sound like Dear Abby but; you shouldn't be scared, dear. if he's a good boyfriend, he won't care if you're not all that good; he should just teach you.
But about that parents thing...
He should respect the fact that your parents don't want guys calling you.

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i started to go out with this guy 3 weeks and i feel very strongly about him. we were such good friends before we went out. i feel like everything has changed between like 3 or 4 friends of mine and i've done everything i can and everything i could do and said. i just dont know what to do anymore.. i hate it and i dont know if anything is going on and i dont always know why im crying. im scarred of being hurt i hear that im going to get hurt and that im going to get cheated on. please give me something..

If you're having this feeling, you should call this off. Before you do really get hurt. But your feelings most likely have grown since you're "officially" his. Especially if you hate it, don't put yourself through it anymore... let him go if he's hurting you emotionally.
hope i helped in any way.:)

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My math teacher is really cool, he is really youn
and he's friends with alot the students. I talk to him alot before class, after class, during advisory, and in class.
The other day I was talking to him before class started and I was wearing semi-new pants. I had the plastic thing that keeps the tag on them,on the side of my thigh really close to my ass. It's really small and clear but he noticed it and took it off for me. I'm wondering if this is innapropriate.
He never really makes me feel uncomfortable but it does seem odd that he noticed something that.
Do you think that this is innapropriate?

well, the male teacher i have for science would have told me it was there, but if you talka lot, perhaps he's gotten comfortable with you(in a good way) and trusts you.
but then again, what was he looking at?hmmmm...
I don't wanna accuse him so quickly...
don't worry. just keep an eye out on him. if it happens again, you know what to do. if you don't you know who to ask:P hope i eased your fears..:)

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ya my friend all of a sudden ignores me and barely talks to me anymore..and she ditched me and ditches me in the halls..and forgets bout me..and we use to be bffs till xmas break..and then she talked behind my back..what should i do..

Sorry:(, but if she talked behind your back and seems to be moving on now, then there's no doubt that it's your turn to leave too. Maybe she caught a "growth spurt" and is growing apart from you- and talked behind your back, so you could get the message. dont worry. hope i helped.

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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 4 months, and all we have done is make out. I told him before that i want to do more n he says that he feels the same way. But he never has done nething about it. im ready to have sex like i really love him but i dont know waht to do. Please helpp

-- me

Hey, well, you're ready, but what if he's really not? He may say he is,but i think you should talk more w/him about this.
Boys usually would jump at this chance, and he's not, so something could really be wrong. Try to make a move on him maybe... if he refuses, ask him why because you've been ready.
hope i helped any:)

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i am totally clueless right now i really like this guy let's name him kyle and my bff let's call her amanda used to have a crush on him too, and kyle knew we both liked him...and now amanda has a bf and i think kyle is totally crushed i mean he barely even talks to me anymore...it gets wosre because i asked him out the other day and he said he had to go to work, and ever since he's been ignorin me....what do i do i mean i still really like him alot and i don't know what to say to him.....

when someone's heart is crushed, all you can do is watch or offer them a shoulder. i doubt if he wants a g/f now...
but let him know that you're there for him and you might become close friends..
hope i helped any!

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they guy i like told me that he likes this girl named Kelsea. Kelsea is a slut and she stuffs her bra and flirts 24/7 with guys AND girls... how can i get him to like me and not her?

oh god...does he see this? as for getting him to like you and not her, that's god's work there. but you can make him see who she really is and what she does.... he's bound to look somewheres else. and thats when you step into his field of vision...
hope it works!:D good luck!

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ok well i had a dream and here it is fro all you dream interpretors...:
ok so theres this guy i made out with once and he was sitting next to another guy thats nice (but i dont like him) and i gave this other guy a hicky... but i dont like this guy socould it be that im trying to make the other one jealous? hmm... i rate 5s

hmmm... good one.I don't think you were trying to make him jealous unless he has done something to make you jealous before. the meaning really depends on whats going on in your life, and what these guys really mean to you. hope i helped any:)

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Okay....me and my x have been broken up and not talking for about 7 months now....i called him on his b-day and pranked him a few times recently...should i call him and start chatting with him and then be like remember me....I'm your ex and try to get a friendship back up or should i just leave him alone??

caution:call at your own risk.
if it was hard to get over him when you broke up, i think calling him would just unleash your feelings for him again.
if you left each other alone, and he hasn't called you, not to be rude, but why are you "crawling back" to him? if he hasn't called, then he most likely isn't worried about you, especially if he broke up with you.
in the end, it's truly your descision. good luck!

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well i have like this guy almost about a year and i think he knows all ready. well my friend has him for 6th period and he talks to him for me and its cool but the thing is that i am shy and yesterday my frined ask him if he had a g/f and he said no and then he ask him what will he say if i ask him out and he said i don't know and yesterday i wrote hom a letter and in the letter i ask him out and today i didn't go to school and i was wondering should i give him the letter!?

That would really be a good idea, especially since you're shy. That way, you could write whatever you feel, and it's nothing like freezing up if you tried to talk to him face to face. Go for it girl! Good luck!

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i started likeing on of my friends and he's 17. Im only 13. He's really sweet and he REALLY isnt a bad person. when im around him, when i talked to him, even if i hear his voice i just smile the biggest smile. I talk to him almost every night on the phone and we text each other constintly through out the day. he said he likes me and i like him also. Some of my guy friends said that they dont want me to get hurt. they dont know him. They said that 13 and 17 is a very big age diffrence, but i really like him alot. He just makes me happy and for awhile i haven't been happy. Do you think that i should continue to like him? and do you think that if he was to ask me out should i go out with him? please tell me what to do im so confused

even though he makes you happy, i believe you should just be close friends. and even though age seems like nothing but a number, he could go to jail.
and your friends are right. they know how boys can think, and no matter how friendly a boy seems, you never know what he's planning. nothing can stop you from liking him, though. just keep an eye open for him. hope i helped any.

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i have a friend who used to be very down to earth and friends with everyone. now she is "popular". Just because of that, she thinks she is better than everyone else, and everyone agrees. she is snobby too, like saying stuff like "omg i hate fat people, old people, smelly people, and people that dont like me." the problem is, i love being friends with her!! she is so much fun to hang out with when there are not other people there. with other people, she seems to think she needs to act like that. when i ask her why she is so mean to me, she says "you are mean to me because you think you are so much better!!!" what should i do?!?!

well, all you can really do is warn her that her being "popular" will not last forever. don't leave her because it does sound like she's a good friend, and we all overdo our 15 min of fame sometimes...
but warn her and when she falls, be there to catch her and say"i told you so!"(not to be mean)
hope everything works out!

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hey i'm in college and i'm really shy. i can't seem to make friends with anyone in class. i have friends in my dorm and im comfortable with them, but i see people in my class that i would want to be friends with, but i can't seem to get myself to talk to anyone. i like crawl inside myself and no matter what i can't say anything. especially to guys (im female). i've been trying real hard to open up, but i just can't seem to do that. any advice on how to start opening up and becoming more comfortable with myself and be able to talk to people without being scared that they won't like me? i know im in college and shoud be over that already, and i am for the most part, its just when im surrounded by people i dont know it makes it really hard. thanks in advance to anyone who answers this

i know it seems hard, but you have to think: why am i so afraid of these people?
most people like others who are kinda outgoing and not afraid to voice their opinions.
you don't have to be afraid that they won't like you... you went to college for a reason and i'm pretty sure you didn't go there to care whether someone likes you or not.
but for the most part, relax. there's nothing to worry about.

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ok well i have had a huge crush on this guy, let's call him bob, for awhile now. i have told him this-anonymously- but i can't get myself to talk to him. i tend to be shy around guys, but i'm definitely not hideous looking either. i don't know what to do. any advice??

if you don't wanna freeze up and pass out when he comes close and talks to you, maybe this will work:( it worked for me)
breathe, and remind yourself there's nothing to be afraid of. He can't do you anything that would kill you. and if he does, you'll get over it. trust me. hope it works!

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i have this friend who is so selfish. she told me that if i went out with his guy named matt that shed hate me more then her friend olivia. i really like her as a frind..but i want your opinion..thanx

sorry, but she's not your friend if she tries to control you or whatever. you need to ditch her, and then find some other girls.(by then, you boyfriend matt will be cheering you on!:P)
Hope i helped any!

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I think about sex all the time.....but i know if it came down to doing it i wouldnt do it...I dont want to have sex but i think about it all tha time....im plannin on waitin until marriage...but wat do these thoughts mean?

Even though you think about it a lot, and you know you don't wanna do it, you are most likely just curious about it. Hope i helped.

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should i have sex wit my boy friend i am 18 years old should i

no one can tell you the right time to do something like that. it is totally up to you. think long and hard about it.
but: if you have you question yourself about it, and not to be preachy, but that's usually a sign that deep down, you might not be ready.
hope i helped any!:)

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hey ok..please help me on this...ok..there is this guy right?? yeah he is my neighbor and he is 2 years older than me. But i dont see why?? i mean he said that it would be weird if we went out or did anything because we are neighbors...i dont get it. what should i do?? i mean i hang out with him when my friend is over but he flirts with her. (kind of) i might be imagining it. but i think about him ALL THE TIME. i cry alot too i just need help BIG TIME...WHAT DO I DO>?!?!?!?
thanks
confused girl
I NEED HELP!

you know how if you do something w/ someone and the next day you feel kinda embarrassed about it?
i think that's how he feels now. let him know you agree with his decision, but tell him you at least deserve a try. if he still rejects you, forget about him.

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