Hey lovies! =) I'm Julie and I'm 15, which makes me a sophomore at the lovely Branford High School. I'm in Model Congress, Concert Choir, and the Young Republicans Club. Besides being a student, I've been a dancer and acrobat for 13 years! It's basically my life. I love my friends to death and would be nothing without them! ♥ Well, I've been on Advicenators for over a year now so I know what I'm doing and you can trust me. I'm here to give you honest and helpful advice...So just leave me any questions you have in my inbox! =)
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i just burned myself on the oven rack in my oven. its blistering now, will i have a scar? it was 450 degrees to let you know...any advice? (link)
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Umm...put some ice on your burn right now! And then, put some medication on it! You may have a scar, but after you put on the medication put on scar-free ointment =)
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i have these kids i babysit for, and i mean theyre okay and everything, but they dont listen!! i dont know what to do, i even take out my cell phone and pretend to call their moms! theres a 8 year old A.D.H.D. boy, a 4 year old girl, and an infant. i get paid 4$ an hour...does that seem like enough for what i have to deal with? (link)
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I think you should talk to their parents' and tell them that you're having difficulties baby-sitting for the three young children. I mean, how could anyone watch a 4-year-old, 8-year-old, and infant? Maybe you could ask a friend to help you out too, if the parents approve. Also, ask them for a raise and tell them your reasons - usually baby-sitters get $5.00 and above! =)
If you need more advice, just drop it in my inbox!
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does anyone know how to get music on your xanga? if you can tell me ill give you a 5 (link)
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I had a site on Xanga, and it took me forever but this is where I ultimately found what I needed to know: http://help.xanga.com/isitpossibletoplaymusic.htm
Have fun! =)
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Sometimes my boobs get really sore and tender and they hurt alot..I know they get that way during ur period, but sometimes it randomly hurts..whats that mean? (link)
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It could be that your breasts are growing! If not, they just usually are sore and tender during your period.
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my backround sux, its all white, how to i make something in the backround?
thx (link)
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Go to http://advicenators.com/backgrounds.php and copy the code that you want that corresponds with the background and paste it into your Column Settings where it says "Page Background Image".
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Alright, well under my questions, it has a question I did not ask! It is someones question under my user name and no one knows my password. Why did this happen and what can I do about it? (link)
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This site has many technical difficulties since there's so many people on it allday and at the same time! It's okay - no one knows your password and the asked question was probably a glitch in the system! =)
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Hello, i just broke up with my boyfriend not to long ago about some thing stupid, but i still like him and i wanna go out with him again...i cant seem to talk to him though because i broke up with him but we talked once after 2 weeks of our break up and i sounded stupid what should i do??????.............
Nikki (link)
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You shouldn't go straight to him and be like "I want to go back out with you", but instead, take things slowly, since you already broke his heart. Start talking and being friends again so that gets your relationship back on track. Just take things slow and tell me how you're doing after a week or two and I'll give you more advice =)
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heyy .. i like this guy alot , buhh how do u know if there just tryin to get shyt frum and use u? some of themm seem like they want a realtionship to0 buhh they juss all confusing.. i dunt kno! andd how do u kno if they want a commitmentt? [ i kno most dont buhh?! ]* ill ratee ya xo (link)
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If a guy tells you he really wants to go out with you, when it comes to the time where he wants to "do stuff" just say that you feel like you're not ready. If he dumps you within two weeks, then you know he was just in it to get shit from you. Sorry!
But, if he stays with you until you say you're ready, then he's in it because he really likes you and wants to be with you! =)
Rate me please!
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I am on someone elses user name. Is advicenators expierencing aome techniquel difficulties?
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They might be, that happened to me before and I was just signed in as: ! It was really weird, hopefully it's all fixed now, though! =)
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hey! i asked this one guy out(13,f) and he said no but he still wants to be friends. we hang out all the time and he TOTALLY flirts with me and i do the same! he has to know how i fell, he would be a complete dork not to, but i think he feels the same, but he said no?! how do figure out what he's thinkn'? (link)
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Maybe this guy just isn't ready, and wants to get to know you better - that's why he's flirting. Also, guys are totally immature and he might just be playing with your head!
Keep things low, and wait until he makes some moves that signals that he wants to take your friendly relationship to a whole new level. Until then, go to football games at the highschool or to the movies (this is what I tell everyone)!
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Okay, sorry if this is a little long, but please read it. There is this kid I met at the beginning of this school year. He's in some of my classes and I talk to him online. I like him, but I'm not sure if he likes me. He talks to me a lot online, and he looks at me in class. He also waves to me sometimes. I just met him too, so it's not like we are close friends. So what do you think about this? Thanks! (link)
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I think that you two are definitly flirting, and that there are signals coming from both sides that you two are into each other! The waving and staring means that he definitly has a crush on you!
I wouldn't recommend confronting him and spilling your heart out to him right this second, but maybe make some subtle movements like inviting him to the movies or meet up at a football game or something.
Tell me how it turns out!
xoxo Julie
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i think i am being stalked. i get weird emails from somone named "zoner" and when i walk home from skool theres someone close behind me but after i turn around a few times they go away. what should i do? (link)
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You need to contact an adult that you feel comfortable with and tell them IMMEDIATELY about this "stalker". They could help you and maybe even drive you home from school from now on. If you think that it's a person from school, contact a teacher or faculty member that you trust as soon as possible!
Don't wait for something bad to happen to convince you that you need to tell somebody!
Good luck! =)
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I sometimes get pimples around my mouth. Just little ones but they annoy the hell out of me and are ugly. Do you know of any good products that would help? (link)
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Try using Clearisil Acne Medication - Vanishing Cream. It comes in a little tube...just put a little on each zit a few times a day and they'll dry up and go away! =)
Also, you might keep getting these annoying pimples because your hands/fingers are always near your mouth. Try not touching your face and you should be pimple-free!
Hope I helped you! If you need some more advice you know where to get it! =)
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I really like this guy and he said that he won't really know if he likes me until he gets to know me better, but when I talk to him online he says that we should get together sometime and says that we should do stuff. I'm not like that, but I guess he seems to think so. We haven't really talked in person, but we have a class together. What should I do? (link)
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If he keeps insisting that you two should get together and "do stuff" then just plain out tell him that you're not ready to "do stuff" but that you still want to hang out with him and get to know him better =)
If he doesn't like what you're saying, then it's clear that he's obviously only into you because he thinks that he's going to get some form of sexual pleasure out of it!
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I dread going to school everyday. I hate it this year and its not my 1st year of highschool. I hate mosta my classes and the people in them...i can never get motovated to go and plus my school sucks big time. My parents always say "well having my job is worse" but my school sucks pretty hard. I hate it and sumtimes i even wish it would burn down lol. Is there sumthin that i can do to not dread it so much? (link)
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Try thinking about the positive things left in school - you don't have that many years left, lunch time is the best time to socialize, and the hours/ days do go by pretty quickly! =)
If you still aren't satisfied with your local highschool and really want a change to get you more motivated in going to school, talk to your parents or counsler about changing schools or how to change the one you're at to your liking!
I'm so sorry if I confused you, tell me if you need more advice! =)
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Hey, on my Advice Column it says i've been rated 6 time, and my average is 4.83, but when i take a look in feedback i've been rated 16 time, and i calculated my average to be about 4.9. What's happening there? Is advicenators just stuffing up or is it me doing something wrong? (link)
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Advicenators is probably having technical difficulties, check back tomorrow and it should be all fixed =)
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does anyone know cute sites to get stuff on like backrounds or pictures?glittery stuff or such as? (link)
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I love this site - http://carrielynnesworld.com/main.html
Have fun! =)
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Hey! im moving into a new house in september. my room there is much smaller than my current room so i will have to change all of my stuff! I was wondering if you knew any sites that gave cute, creative, classy, unique, crazy, or pretty ideas on decorating rooms. I am 14, soon to be 15..and obviously a girl. I am kinda a 'do my own thing...be different' kinda girl. I want a room like nobody elses. Do you know of any ideas for decorating it? Or any sites that could help me out? Please respond quick..i am moving september 20th! (link)
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I say use some bright colors - pink, orange, green, etc. A good site is probably www.pbteen.com or www.interiordec.about.com/od/dormdecor
Hope those work for you! Have fun in your new house =)
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How long does a girl have her period? like how many days? (link)
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Usually about a week, or sometimes just 3-5 days.
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hey well i'm really nervous about the first time i have sex. im nervous about becoming pregnant, like if the condom breaks. so i was wondering if its wrong/weird for the guy to wear 2 condoms (one on top of the other)... is that really pathetic? i know im supposed to use lube but i'm still scared so could i make him wear 2 just in case? (link)
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Having the guy wear two condoms is completely unnecessary! One is enough, and protects you from all of those STD's! =)
Wear two condoms if you're really nervous, but I'm not sure if that helps more than one already does!
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