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okay so i have this really really moody friend and i call her my "best friend" but she doesnt think that about me. infact she doesnt even want to be my friend. but i have done everything for her, i have protected her from rumors, i have fixed her relationship with her boyfriend multiple times, i have comforted her and givin her advice a whole lot, i have always been there for her when she had no one else to turn too. and to add to that she doesnt trust me alone with her boyfriend EVEN though hes ONLY my good friend. i mean i have helped them with their relationship. and the worst part is though i still want to be there for her and be her best friend. and i have no idea what to do?
The last advice said it all, but I would just like to add one thing. Don't you take it personally that she acts the way she does. It sounds like she has a really low self esteem, which is why she doesn't trust you around her boyfriend. Whatever it is, she has some issues, and the worst part of it is that usually people who have issues attract the one person who really cares about other people (that would be you) and takes and takes and takes. Then, when you finally have begun to think you don't want to be her friend anymore, all of a sudden she has some problem where she really really needs your help, and she sucks you right back in. Don't let your kindness be taken for weakness.
Okay, I know you get these a whole lot! And I will tell you as a columnist for years here I have seen them pop up daily. Well my situation is a bit unique; bare with me.
So, I last had sex like last week. Usually my period is regular (I start every 34 days), and I last started mid-april (week of 13th). Well I receieved no period when I should of started last week.
So I looked and looked and looked over the internet about when to test. Some websites told me to wait another month; other said wait until your missed period. It has been a short time between sex and a scheduled period which confuses me.
I am getting weird symptoms.. nausea, fatigue, bloating, and irritability. Sometimes on some random times I start cramping real bad.
Stress couldn't be much of a factor.. I have a little stress but everyone has stress. I am happy for the most part.
So any help here on what I should do? Thanks.
If the only time you had sex was last week it is unlikely that a test will be able to pick up the hormones present in pregnancy. If you had sex at other times during the month, most pregnancy tests are effective on the first day of your missed period. If you haven't started your period in another 2 weeks I would take the test then. Are your breasts swollen and tender? That is usually the first sign. The nausea is another symptom. The fatigue, bloating and irritability could all just be PMS. Just give it another couple of weeks.
I just found out, that my BESTFRIEND is bi.
I mean, i thought she was for the longest time, and i did ask her, but she got super mad at me and said no. But, she told this girl she was hot/cute and she was embarrassed because she told her. And then she asked her if she would kiss her. But i dont know. I mean, i kinda want to forget about it. But when i see her, it reminds me again. I dont want to ask her, again though. But then i do. I mean, what should i say to her?
you are going to have to tell your friend that this other girl is going around saying these things. Even if you decide you don't want to hang around her anymore, you at least should let her know the rumors are going around. Before you talk to her, take some time to figure out how you really feel about this situation. You don't want to be wishy-washy and be OK with it one minute and then against it the next.
Don't take it personal that your friend hasn't felt ready to share it with you, yet. She probably hasn't even really wanted to admit it herself.
If you really love your friend through Hell and high water than the best thing you can do for her is to be accepting. There are going to be so many times in your life when you have to deal with false backstabbing friends, and if she is a true friend to you it really doesn't matter who she is attracted to.
I think the best way to approach it is to tell her what you have heard and approach it like you are OK with the whole thing (that is, if you are OK with the whole thing) but you don't like the fact that she is picking the wrong girls to hit on. Obviously this girl that she did hit on told other people behind her back.
Tell your friend that you can't understand all of the confusion she must be going through, but if she wants, you're willing to lend an ear.
If you really just want to forget about it, the best thing to do is to tell our friend that you are having a difficult time processing all of this information and you just need time.
Do you think she would stand by you if you were the one with the issue? If she would you should give it a try. You are going to have to deal with homosexuality at some point in your life. Her feelings are nothing personal against you, and she is probably beating herself up about it alot more than you ever could. It is hard, because you think back over all of those conversations you had about members of the opposite sex-was she just lying to you this whole time? How about all of those intimate moments you had where your mind was in one place and now you are wondering where her mind was. Was she taking all of that stuff way differently than you?
No matter what-even if you decide you don't want to talk to her about it or be her friend anymore, don't feed in to the gossip. If you hear people talking about her just stay out of it.
When a girl orgasims what does the cum look like? Is it like discharge or more watery?
thanks in advance.
It is the sperm that gives a man's it's milky color. Women's is clear.
for about two months now my boyfriend and i have been fighting a lot. well, not really fighting, like throwing things at eachother or screaming. its more of where one of us gets annoyed with the other and we just sit there, silently being pissed. eventually one of us breaks the ice, most of the time its him. im a lot more hardheaded.
and most of the time, its me being mad at him. im a very depressed person, and he'll always ask me whats wrong or if im ok. it gets really really annoying and thats when the cold shoulder starts up. even when nothing is wrong with me, or im kinda quiet, he'll keep asking over and over and over if im ok!! and then ill start being mean and he'll get pissed, and its a really vicious cycle and im tired of it.
well, tonight i was feeling really sick, and he asked me if i was ok and i told him i felt sick. and 10 minutes later, he asks me if something is wrong. again, i tell him i feel sick. then he asks me a third time and i sort of yell "I FEEL SICK". then im pissed at him and i guess he just blows it. he was in a really bad mood and cussing and screaming at everyone, except me. i had no idea this was going on until his mom told me he was being pissy and asked me if we were in a fight. i went up and asked him what his problem was and he said he didnt have a problem. then i told him that was a load of bullcrap, and he said something smartass, pissed me off, and so i walked home. his mom and brother picked me up on the side of the road and drove me most of the way, but this is getting rediculous.
how can i stop these hateful fights?? i dont want to lose him, but i honestly dont know if hes willing to try anymore or not. even his mom tried to convince me to dump him, but hes not a bad person. hes a wonderful boyfriend, its just sometimes we get annoyed with eachother. most of the time, we're like those sickening couples on those teen drama movies. we both have such short tempers and i dont know how to make it work.
I'll tell you one of the big problems-his mom is way too involved in your relationship.
Problem number two is that you guys have been together long enough for the honeymoon period to be over, and you're not sure you like it.
Problem number three is that you want your boyfriend to be a mind reader.
Problem number four is that you are angry at yourself because you're not really sure if there is something better out there.
Problem number 5 is that you are taking your anger out on your boyfriend, and the more he takes it the less you respect him.
Problem number six-sometimes you just want him to be somebody completely different.
Your a normal girl-complete with all of the drama and confusion. You are going to keep pushing your boyfriend away until he goes and then chase him back. You recognize the cycle, you're not happy, but you're not sure if it's him or you. I'll tell you who it is-it's him and you-with his mother in the mix, to boot.
Don't worry over it so much. An argument is just an argument-everyone has them.
If you are happy more than 50% of the time stay with him. If you are miserable more than 50% leave him.
25/F/US
Three years ago, I met a man. Our relationship was brief but very intense... I don't entertain any delusions regarding love; I didn't know him long enough to feel such a thing. But, when I'm honest with myself, I have to admit that no man I have met since can rival him. I've never been more attracted to a person, on so many different levels, or felt myself connect with a person emotionally and mentally so quickly, so easily.
During the past few years... I've tried to move on. I've dated. I've fallen in and out love. At one point, I was even engaged to be married. I can go for months without thinking of him at all... But once he runs across my mind, he's hard to push back out again. And I can't push him out without a tremendous amount of effort, without missing him terribly.
I want for nothing more than for this to stop. Recently, I've been thinking of him and it's driving me absolutely CRAZY.
Please help me make peace with his memory. I've tried addressing the feelings of anger, rejection, sorrow, regret... I've even thought that maybe HE isn't really the problem. Maybe the problem is just that I'm lonely and remembering a better time.
They say, whoever 'they' is, that the first step of the healing process is to acknowledge the problem. I've acknowledged the problem. I've acknowledged a combination of problems.
What now?
This man-he is they guy you "go to" in your mind whenever you start the pity party in your head. You say months go by when you don't think of him, I'll be willing to bet when you do think of him it is when you are feeling particularly lonely/vulnerable/hoodwinked/whatever. His face is just the image you have put to that feeling you have.
To be honest with you-I think it's all pretty normal. We all have that guy (mine's name is Mark), just like we all have those feelings. Here's the good news. Somewhere, without you even realizing it, some guy you have completely forgotten about is thinking about you. You were the perfect girl to him, and even after all of these years he hasn't gotten over you.
im a 18 y/o guy been with a 16 year old girl for 2 yeers .. i love her .. i was her first she was my first .. for everything pretty much ... but like i have cheated on her a couple timnes and she cheated on me once ... she dont knwo i cheated on her and i feel bad but ia int tellin her .. shed literally kill me ... and liek my fam likes her (and there strict italian crazy speakin italioan and shit) wich really makes me want to be with her but im a pretty good lookin guy and she is alrigth but i knwo i can do better and i always look at other girls in the mall etc etc etc and she catches me ... liek i dont even hide it no more ... and i love her but i wish she looked like some one else i dont know what to do .... its not that shes ugly shes just not the supermodel lookingg irls im used too ... thanx alot
Sometimes it is harder on the person who did the cheating because they are the ones who have to live with the guilt. You will let her get away with things she shouldn't because you feel guilty. Don't just stay with her just becasue you don't want her to be with anyone else. If I were you I wouldn't tell the girlfriend about the cheating-you will only be confessing to make yourself feel better. If you aren't sure you want to be with her-figure out what you want first. If you decide you really love her and want to make it work then you should tell her. There's no point in hurting her by telling her you have been with someone else and then adding insult to injury by dumping her. It will drive her crazy and mess with her self esteem with no purpose.
when i have sex it hurts, not when my part puts his penis in, but when he goes in deeper? he says he feels like there is sumthing inside blocking it, what is that, and why does it hurt? ps i have only had sex once
Well, a big part of it is that sex is new, but it could also be because of position (from the back it always goes in a little deeper). If you decide to do it again, tell your partner to take it easy because you are just getting into this and your vagina is delicate. He is probably hitting up against your cervix. If you are on top it will give the both of you a good idea about depth and rhythem. Another thing...the vagina expands and gets longer when it is stimulated. If the two of you tried a little more foreplay it will probably help alot. I can't be sure, but it sounds like the person you had sex with is willing to learn the ropes with you, so just be honest with him. Tell him what is good and what isn't. Don't fake that you like it if it is really hurting becasue he will think he's doing the right thing when it is totally wrong. Every person is different, so it is just gonna take a little time to know what it is you like.
16/f
ok sooo... im starting to think theres something wrong with me. i have a very hard time showing emotions. no one would ever really be able to tell because i am always acting so happy and loud and hyper. but this is kind of an over animated version of me.
i kind of act like im really emotional but really im not, i just act how i have seen other people act but i do it 10X more. im truthful 2 my ex boyfriend about how i dont care about much and he said maybe i am emotionally detatched or something. i know i definately dont know myself at all either.
we'll be like watching a movie about 3 year olds in romania that weigh 2 pounds and are beaten n stuff n it wont phase me whatsoever. everyone else in my class was crying and i just sat with a shocked look on my face because thats what i see other people do. like at times i dont know what emotion im supposed to be feeling. but i didnt care at all. this happens alot and i hardly ever talk to my parents and even though they yell at me about how i ignore them n stuff, it still doesnt phase me at all. sometimes im irratable and sometimes im really happy. but at other times i dont care at all and i have a hard time showing remorse. i dont really know whats wrong with me and no one except my ex understands how i feel and how i just dont care.
anyone know whats wrong with me?
A lot of times when people have traumatic events happen in their lives they kind of shut down. It's like you can't feel happy or sad, you just feel numb.
Maybe something has happened that has affected you more than you realize-the death of a grandparent, divorce, or something. The way it always seems to work is the one thing you don't want to think about is the one thing that is keeping you down.
This numb feeling can be your brains self-protection device. It keeps you from being overly sad, but then it also keeps you from being overly happy. These kind of things can last up to two years. Hopefully, one day, you will slowly get back into the swing of things.
Remeber-your brain is the most powerful thing you have, and you can get through anything. You are already one step ahead of the game by realizing what is going on. To top it all off, you have all those out of control 16 year old hormones getting your system out of whack.
It is good you have someone to talk to, and even better that you are smart enough to see what is going on. A lot of people just pretend everything is perfect.
You are not alone. This is a really common thing that happens to just about everyone who has to deal with life. Just know that what you are feeling (or not feeling) is normal.
I have been with this guy for a few months and we've friends for a few years. Our relationship is different from most people our age,we don't play games and we both know that we'll always be together. I really love him but a lot of things have been happening lately that I'm worried about. Tell me what you think;
He gets mad really easily and says that he's not good enough for me and he's an idiot and all that.
When he gets upset he really hurts me, he'll just leave without saying goodbye and he won't come over.
He always thinks that I don't care about him as much as he cares about me and that he shows me how much he loves me but I act like I don't love him.
HELP! Has anyone ever been with a guy that does these things?
Yes, and I hate to tell you, but it's only gonna suck worse. He is depressed with a low self esteem. He will always think you are cheating on him, whether you are or not. He wont want to hang around your family because he will think they all don't like him. He will tell you he needs you to be happy, but it really sucks having to try to make the person your with happy all the time. If you are happy he will try to bring you down. He will get jealous if you are happy. It will all be about him. You will be walking around on eggshells. When it is good, there is nothing better, but it is hardly ever good. Listen to Cheryl Crow-If it Makes you Happy.
what do you think about cousins dating?
Not a good idea. The attraction may be there because you are close, or lonely, or you may like the risk of the whole cousin thing, but it will be a huge mistake. Your family will be pissed. If it doesn't work it will suck. If it does work it will suck.
so, i like this boy at my church. he told me through a note and a phone call that he likes me to. now, the problem is everytime i go to youth group his best friend, his girlfriend and my crush are there hanging out becuase they all attend the same school. lately she, being my crush's best friends girlfriend, has been all over my crush and like completely ignoring her boyfriend. like, she would giggle and touch his arm alot, she would laugh at his dumb jokes. im falling for him because he's an all aroudna amzing guy, like he calls me beautiful and gorgeous, he just has such a way with words that i always get butterflies, but this pest is ruining EVERYTHING! idk what to do. did my crush lie to me about having feelings for me? is his best friends girlfriend playing my crush's friend? is this girl using her "boyfriend" to get to my crush? please help i am done crying over this.
There could be a few reasons for her behavior-
1st-She could just be a bitch trying to get you jealous.
2nd-Girls always start liking a guy when they see another girl like him. You could be best friends with a guy for ten years and then all of a sudden he gets a girlfriend and you're jealous. That happens all the time.
It sounds like the guy you like is in an uncomfortable spot, he can't be rude to her, but she is disrespecting his friend.
If I were you, I would let her keep acting like the idiot she is making herself out to be. Be nice and polite, don't cause any waves, and let those two guys figure out they would rather not have her around. If you cause a confrontation you will be giving her exactly what she wants-your jealousy. If you ignore her it is like saying, "you aren't even worth the worry."
well i have been having a really tough time lately.
My mum late last year had a brain heamorrage and almost died.
My parents are divorced. and my sister was reacently in hospital.
and i have been bullied all my life , PLUS i just started year 7.
Any ideas of how to handle this? P.S im 13 from australia. Abiee xx
First, you have to remember that nothing is forever. I cannot give you answers to all of your problems, because all of the advice in the world won't change the things you have no control over. Some of the best people I know with the most beautiful hearts are people who have been through some really tough lumps in life. Those people are the true friends, and the backbones of their surroundings. The best you can do is keep your chin up. And in 20 years, when you run into that bully who seemed so cool in the seventh grade you will get a good chuckle.
i'm not really asking too much for advice, but more of an opinion and what you think. so heres my story (17f&17m):
i dated this guy for 8 months and we broke up the last week of april...he said he doesn't have the same feelings for me. however, we went to prom together and i was laying on this guy cause i wasn't feeling good and he was off doing his own thing...and he got upset at me for that...we both decided that itd be best for us not to talk until summer starts (which is in like a month from now) then he wants to start hanging out again as friends and he said "if its meant to be, it'll be". we started going out during the summer of last year and i was thinking of doing something cute when we hang out to realize why he fell for me last summer. i really love this kid and he treats me right. so what do you think i should do with this whole situation..is there anything that can boost our chances of getting back together?
oh and should i text him first when school ends? and how long should i wait? or should i let him text me?
It is difficult for me to give you advice because I'm not sure why this guy wants to slow things down. I get the feeling that he may be protecting his feelings because he has trouble trusting you.
Here's the thing, if you really like this guy and he treats you right, you might want to make a commitment in your mind to wait for him. He might want to wait until the summer so he can see what you do in the meantime. If I were you, I would make sure I didn't flirt with any other boys. Don't give this guy any questions in his mind about who you want to be with.
Deep down inside you know why his feelings have changed. If you think it is because you had so much fun last summer and then everything changed, you can't recreate the person you used to be, but you can try to emphasize the positives. Have fun, be that sweet girl he fell for, but set limits, too. If he wants to see other people while you sit around bored and lonely, don't go for it.
Just one more thing. Search your soul and figure out why you want him back. If you find that it is only because he broke up with you and your ego can't handle the rejection, get over it; you will only end up wanting to break it off once you get him back.
Oh yeah, one more thing-try backing off for a little while. It is pretty easy for him to feel confident if he knows you are pining away for him, waiting until you can talk to him in the summer. If he doesn't have a valid reason for breaking it off with you, and you get the feeling he is enjoying the attention he is getting from you with no real plans of getting back, it might actually get him to notice you once you back off. Guys are just like us girls in that way-they always want what they can't have and they don't want to lose what they've got.
me and my friend both like the same guy.... she dosnt know i like him but i know she i like him. she always talks about how much she think she loves him. me and him have been going out secretly. she just thinks we're friends. she told me scince we're such good friends if i could ask him out for her. i dont want to hurt her feeling, i feel guilty i'm dating her crush. she's been my bffl ever scince i knew her,and he said he likes both of us..... what should i do?
The first thing-He said he likes both of you. He is playing you. If this guy isn't serious enough to at least say he likes you and only you, he certainly isn't worth hurting your friend over.
Second- I'm not saying you should tell your friend, or not-that decision is up to you, but keep in mind the longer this goes on, the more trust you are going to lose. She will think back to all of the things she told you about him and feel like you totally walked all over her.
Third- This is a situation you are going to face for the rest of your life. Women always get kind of caught up in eachother's relationships, you know, you watch your friends boyfriend be so sweet to her and you start wishing you had a guy like that. Or your situation, here you are, listening to your friend gush all of this great stuff about the guy, you can't help but start to notice.
Technically, right now, it isn't like you are stealing her man because they are not together, so you shouldn't feel too bad, but it sounds like it is really bothering you.
Here is the big question. Why are you not telling your friend what is going on? Is it because he doesn't want her to know, or you don't want her to know? The fact that he told you he likes you both should be a huge red flag. You should do some soul searching and figure out what it is you really like about him, and if it turns out you are just the competitive type, like almost every other girl in the world, break it off. If you tell him you don't want to see him like that any more because you care about your friend it will accomplish two things. First, it will put you over the top for the girl he really likes-guys always want what they can't have. And it will let him know it is impossible to play you-you are way too good for that.
Alright, so last summer I went out with this guy, and hes like a druggie, well i liked him. and he said he'd stop smoking for me. Well then he shows up to hang out with me high. This made me mad, sort of like telling me i'm worthless to him. Well, I wouldn't have been mad if he hadn't had said he wouldn't smoke for me. Well, we broke up like a week later over this and a bunch of other stuff. Well my friend hangs out with his friends and oneday he was there. She asked about me, and she asked him if he liked me, and he smiled and looked away, and later talked about getting back together with me. Well I reallyyy don't like the fact that he smokes. and I do like him, because hes really hot and funny and sweet. Well he started talking to me agian. And I know that if I want to go back out with him then we will. Its pretty much up to me. But I don't know what to do. I think I like him. But he smokes, and he clearly won't be able to stop. what should i do?!
One of the first rules of dating: people don't change! The good news is you can't take it personally. You say that he kept smoking so it made you feel worthless, but the truth is, it has nothing to do with you. An addiction is a powerful force, and even though you are trying to get him to do the right thing, he will only lie to you about it or blame you for trying to tell him what to do.
This is the thing, you either have to accept the fact he smokes, or let him go, but if you start off the relationship trying to change a person it will only lead to heartbreak. You are never going to find someone perfect, so you have to decide how important certain issues are, and if you can't live with it, let him go. Every person in this world just wants someone who will accept them faults and all, and though you might think you are leading him in the right direction, what you are really saying is "you're not good enough for me unless you change." This guy is looking for a girlfriend, not a mother.
I just ended a 6 and a half month relationship with my girlfriend. I am 18 years old and a freshman is college, she is 21 years old who is not currently in school and has faternal twins the age of two. Obviously there is a good reason why i broke up with her. It has only been a week since we broke up and it is so hard. I love her and she loves me. What do i do? do i listen to society, my family and friends, the brothers of my fraternity? or my heart. do i look at my future or what. My heart is torn between choosing to date a girl i really love or what society tells me to do. She is a package deal which im not too excited for because no 18 year old freshman in college wants 2 kids. Also, she is still married to the other man but very close to getting a divorce. I really need some advice. Do i listen to my heart or society?
Your heart is chasing after what it shouldn't have and doesn't really want. It is not society that sees the problem, the problem is, she is not the girl for you, and everyone who cares about you has told you this, only you don't want to hear it.
If you had your own kids it would be one thing, but you will end up regretting the decisions you make if you do not listen to those older and wiser than you.
Be honest with yourself. Is part of this because you feel somewhat responsable to her? Do not let the side of you that wants to be the chivelrous man rule your head.
Or maybe it could be that being around her makes you feel wonderful about yourself. She needs you so badly, she wants you so badly, she has a bruised ego and her thankfulness is just what you need.
Maybe it is the competition with the husband. Let me guess, he treated her like shit and you have changed her life.
You are not so happy about her kids, so she is saying she is a package deal, but keeping them out of the picture as much as possible. In the future, you won't be so lucky. At some point it will get serious, and those kids will be around all of the time and it will be you paying for the babysitter when you finally get some free time.
Don't ever EVER be fooled by allowing her to take care of the birth control prevention (that is, unless you are secretly trying to seek out a woman who you think will bear your children). Once that happens, put yourself in the position of the ex-husband, only worse because you won't be her first love and you wont be her last. She is only 21, so you can be sure another man will be raising your kid, but you will be paying for it.
You are a college student. Don't look for a way out behind the skirts of a woman and don't think for one second you are ready for the responsability.
Think of her kids. You say you are in love with her, but do you want to sleep in the same bed with her children? do you like to hug them? the way they smell? Do you like their personalities?
I was a teenaged mother of 5 sons, my oldest is 21. This is what I would tell them if they were in the same situation.
I've been really depressed lately, because I have less friends than I did last year, and I feel really ugly/
my family is broke, so I cant afford and clothes that are cute, and every one tells me Im bad at dressinggg :( cause my only clothes are from the beginning of the year.
And I just feel really REALLY ugly and everything! I need help :( Im so depressed about how I look, and my teeth, and hair, and makeup and clothes (mostly)
Most people don't appreciate the good ol' Salvation Army. On Wednesdays all of the clothes are 1/2 off. I know you think a thrift shop doesnt have anything good, but you'd be surprised. I go to college and don't have a lot of money, either, and I buy my clothes at the Salvation Army and they are just as good as everyone else's. A lot of rich people buy a new wardrobe every season and donate their clothes. All of my clothes are Abercrombie, and other name brands.
There is this guy I like and we grew up together from diapers. We were best friends. Then we grew apart. Well, now he is back in my life. We go to church together and I caught him staring at me.(that happens a lot) One day I asked him point blank if he liked me and he said he couldn't answer that because he has a girlfriend and it wouldn't be fair to her. What does this mean? Does he like me or is that his polite way of saying go away? Help!!
He probably does like you, but beware because he sounds a little like a player. By him telling you that it wouldn't be fair to his girlfriend, he is letting you know he likes you and impressing you at the same time because you will think "wow, what a great guy, he's loyal to his girlfriend." This may just be a ploy. You will have to use your detective skills to find out if he's just a player.
1. Does he act the same when she is around?
2. Does he flirt with you, do you think he would cheat on her with you?
I'm not saying he's definately a jerk, but just don't fall for that whole, "It wouldn't be fair to my girlfriend," routine. He may just be testing the waters to see if you would be down to be the other girl. In which case, the answer should definately be "no."
It could also be that he likes you, but he's not sure if you like him and he doesn't want to break up with his girlfriend for nothing. The best thing for you to do is to play it cool. Try not to pay him much attention, and let him know that you aren't the kind of girl who wants a guy who belongs to someone else-you need your man to give you all of his attention. He will know that you respect yourself and don't settle for less than you deserve, and it will make him like you all the more. Guys always want a girl who knows how to play it cool.
i absolutely LOVE it when an awkward moment comes along.
unfortunately, my friends and i are too close to ever have anything be awkward.
so what are some things i can say to ANYONE that would make a situation akward!
please hurry, and give lots of examples!
thanks!
Go into a public restroom that has stalls you can reach under.
Bring a chocolate bar with you.
Hold chocolate bar in hand until it melts a little.
Wait for someone to enter stall next to you.
Reach under stall with chocolate covered hand and ask to borrow some tiolet paper.