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(Rating: 5) thank you so much
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(Rating: 5) Wow! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! I totally get it! Your awesome at explaining things. Thank you soo much! :)
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(Rating: 4) Thanks. I hope I don't find out what kind of a mom I'll be for a long time.
(Rating: 3) I understand where you're coming from. But the reason why you received a 3 is because my friends and I have both noticed that he never really tells me anything. He hates it whenever I ask him to do something, or to talk things out. And I actually put 100% into the relationship, when he doesn't put much in. My sister says he's used to the fact that I do all of the work, and he's not doing anything so I would have to sometimes act like I stopped trying. Therefore; he actually starts talking to me.
(Rating: 5) Thank you for clearing that up for me. I was in a bad place when I asked this. This really helped me not make a bad mistake. Thank you!
(Rating: 5) LOL! Thank you! I was going to have sex with him because I thought he liked me a LOT! ;) Now I know better, thanks to you!
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much. This is some seriously solid advice. I like your point of view. It's completely different from the way I have been looking at the situation up until this point. :)
(Rating: 5) Thankyou! Yeah, I guess I'm a little more mature than most teenagers in this type of situation. I just felt so bad for my mother. So far the lady claimed that this "third car" left before the cops came...and that her "neck hurts a little bit"...yeah right. I love how she mentions all of this after the fact. I really hope I never cause an accident again because this lady (who is a 48 year old, btw; so I thought she'd be more mature about this) is just causing me more stress. But thankyou for your kind answer!
(Rating: 5) Brilliant! I want to give your advice a 10! I'm going to leave a related question in your inbox if that's okay. Thanks :).
(Rating: 5) Hey thank you ! But I had shorts on does that count?
(Rating: 5) I never thought of this to be honest, but you do have a really good point. He appears to be genuinely upset when I get mad at him for talking about it, but now I think about it he also likes attention too. I will definitely try this. Thank you for your help.
(Rating: 5) Thank you SO much!
(Rating: 4) I do drink enough liquids. I take a bottle of water with me to every class.
(Rating: 5) thanks, but while we were hanging out he was talking about how he wanted to hang out again and stuff. i just dont understand
(Rating: 4) Thank you for the advice but I don't get hurt to easily, I just move on. The drugs maybe the addiction but she still has to take full responsibility for it.
(Rating: 5) Thank you so much, you make a lot of sense. I do think this new guy is better for me. :) I feel much better now.
(Rating: 5) THANK YOU!
(Rating: 5) well I did it, and everybody who said not to hear was right. It just about completely destroyed my life, my self-worth and my personality. I rated you a five because I know you meant well, but let me tell you one thing if you ever have the opportunity to do this... don't.
(Rating: 5) you were completely right, and this situation changed my entire life. I am just now coming back to this site after all this time and I wanted to thank you!
(Rating: 5) Thank you do much, I will do that. I sortah figured I'd have to stay -.-, sucks but...well I need school, and it's time I take things seriously! Thank you very much, you helped a lot, and you're right...he hasn't always used a condom...heh, wow. Yeah I'm gonna lay off guys until I get things at school back up at the top. Thank you once more.
(Rating: 5) thank you that was most helpful..he tried to kill himself last night,iv put some updates up on the question..this has gone waaay too far
(Rating: 1) hey um thanks for the advice.. but i know football well enough to know that is NOT the way to tackle.. AT ALL... so therefore... bad rating.
(Rating: 5) I understand what you're saying.Thanks for your advice. It sure helped me.
(Rating: 5) that was really moving, thank you so much
(Rating: 5) its ben like that for over a year n its so hard, i know im good for not smokein but the two reasons i wana is for art and to be comforted because i used to hallucinate and miss it so much
(Rating: 5) Thanks.
(Rating: 5) Thank you, sorry I know that it has been a while. And my ex moved FAR away. Everything is great, my boyfriend has been with me since then too. Thanks so much
(Rating: 5) I would have rated you higher if I could. Really REALLY great advice.
(Rating: 5) thankyou
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(Rating: 5) When you put it like that it makes alot of sense thank you! =)
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(Rating: 5) Thank you :)
(Rating: 5) Thank you for your quick response. I was saddened to hear about your loss but comforted to hear you have coped so well. My husband and I have been talking about this a great deal and he is looking forward to hearing the feedback I get from advicenators. If we do decide to have another, I want to wait until my daughter is a little closer to 2. By then, perhaps I will feel more strongly one way or the other. Thanks again.
(Rating: 5) Thanks. I did establish that I wasn't gonna steal him or anything, but if I get back in touch with him then I'll definitely consider throwing in the whole how it wasn't fair part... because, really, it WASN'T.. he was the one who wanted to know who I liked, but I coulda just said, "No."
(Rating: 5) sweet :D thanks a bunch
(Rating: 5) thanks. :)
(Rating: 5) Thanks, I appreciate it =].
(Rating: 5) thanks alot
(Rating: 5) Thanks. I will do that.
(Rating: 5) Thanks :)
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(Rating: 5) You're right, thank you!
(Rating: 5) wow thanks! thats great help, honestly!
(Rating: 4) ahha thatnks, but that doesn't really create an akward moment, just a funny one.
(Rating: 5) thanks, your advice was the best of them all :)
(Rating: 5) Thankyou very much it sounds alot like me
(Rating: 5) Thanks so much for your help. I broke up with him last night and I'm so relieved. He wasn't even angry and after we get over everything in a few weeks we're still gonna be friends.
(Rating: 5) mmk. thanks. :)
(Rating: 5) Uh thanks I epecially liked the control tip, you know, sitting on his lap. Didn't really liked the breathing thing but thanks anyways
(Rating: 5) thank you that really helped
(Rating: 5) School is good. I have good grades, never skip, or anything like that :) I only have a year and a half left of high school.. its just the people in this school that start to get to me. But hmm a year and a half sounds like a long time.. and yet so short. I am definately going to go to college, and I already have had a job for almost three years, rent shouldnt be too bad :)
(Rating: 5) Ok...a little weird but thanks.
(Rating: 5) thanks well he deleted me off his friends list. I like him because hes a good actor and love his work but it turns out hes a jerk who doesn't want to solve anymore and wants to be a jerk cuz all I wanted was to solve this, you know, but he deleted me without any reason and blocked me from all contact including emails and all and I havent done anything wrong. all I want to do is get this solved. and I told a friend this too. but we are trying to solve this and hope t gets worked out. for details let me know. :)
(Rating: 5) Hot topic ahhh! I dont think they'd hire me. Haha, i don't look like themm
(Rating: 5) Wow thank you that gave me a whole new perspective.
(Rating: 5) thanks
(Rating: 5) YOU. HELPED. SO. MUCH. THANK YOU SO MUCH!
(Rating: 5) What did you do to gain weight?
(Rating: 5) dang!! thanks i tried it [[the tugging part lol]] and he liked it and ddnt come before i wanted him to...8]]
(Rating: 4) Next thing I rarely talk about him and how great he is because most people actually don't like him so I'm nice to him and then my friend and I ended up telling him I liked him about a month ago 2 weeks before Christmas which is where he said sorry I'm taken but if I wasn't I would definetly ask you out But then this month a week ago I heard he wants to ask someone else out and then I heard it was my friend who doesn't like him at all. (Oh and by the way my friend hasn't been giving me any messages latley from him.) And now all I can do is think should I get him to know me when his friends aren't around or should I wait for him to say something to me even if he never will. And one more thing should I keep tabs on who he likes to see what I can do to impress him or just be a little less insane. (because normally guys don't like me because I'm way to hyper)
(Rating: 5) Thank you for answering my question, I appreciate it. You have pointed out some details that I haven't thought much about before.
(Rating: 5) Thankyou..its not that i like him...no its just Im really nice and I dont know how to tell him to back off... but ur right...I wasnt really jelous...but it was kind off like...ok if you're after her then leave me alone....thanx for ur time
(Rating: 5) Thanks for that But I found out the girl he likes doesn't like him and if I said he knows I like him then I'll say this Some days he'll use my friend as a messenger and tell her how sorry he is for liking other people and not me So do you think I should try to get him to know the less crazy side of me and know who I am instead of hearing about the other crushes (whichcannotys me like crazy by the way) and how much he likes them Or should I flat out ask him out
(Rating: 5) thank you soo much for your input...
(Rating: 5) your advice was extremely practical. Not at all based on emotions, but reality. Thank you
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(Rating: 5) thanks alot that was pretty much what was on my mind all of today, he called in sick to work today so ill go see him and try and get myself back to how i used to feel when i was with him. and not get pissy at the slightest thing. thanks alot for your answer i really appreciate it alot
(Rating: 5) you are amazing,and so is your advice (: thank youu so much
(Rating: 5) ouch :/
(Rating: 5) Thank you
(Rating: 5) thanks alot. ive been researching bulimia, and im getting to know alot of stuff so i can help her, but it's hard. if it gets any worse, im telling her older brother so he can tell their mom. but thanks alot. you're awesome!
(Rating: 5) Thank you for the good advice
(Rating: 1) I would like to know if you are a licensed doctor in which you could give healthy advise to a troubled family. It seems that without a full view of the entire family situation it is lethal to give any kind of advise to someone you don't know. You my dear have made a bad situation worse. How dare you.
(Rating: 5) I have tested 3 times and says negative. Not sure what to do..
(Rating: 5) thanks a lot and thanks for taking time to write. you helped AAAA LOOOTT.. =]
(Rating: 5) thankss
(Rating: 5) thank you so much. very helpful.
(Rating: 5) thank you so much. I truly appreciate it. It's just so tough. My mom pretty much told me her and my dad are probably getting a divorce and he's moving out...and I'll be out of here soon for college, so I just hopes she gets what she wanted... she'll have my sister and dustin, along with a new baby... whew.. thank you again.
(Rating: 5) thank you, this really helps!
(Rating: 4) Thank you :) You are right because at first he didn't strike me as amazingly hot but over time I came to appreciate who he is.
(Rating: 3) His father has no legal rights what so ever.. he had the option to sign the birth certificate he told me he wanted a dna test, its not his baby blah blah. my son has my last name he has no legal rights until he goes to court.. and child support isnt the problem he told me to file for child support. He is just to lazy to try anything. and he wouldnt pay child support i understand my son may be upset about it but its not like i would hide it from him. i would let him know.
(Rating: 3) thanks. but i was really needing some story lines i guess.
(Rating: 5) Thank you for your advice I guess I made the wrong decision by changing my schedule so I could be with her as much as I could
(Rating: 5) ok good! :)
(Rating: 5) i mean yeah ; shes a qood friend. butt her crybabyness is annoyinq. lol.
(Rating: 5) thanks! This helps a lot! :)
(Rating: 5) oh my goodness! if I could rate you a finity! I would! you're advice was so amazing! thankyou soo much you really made me feel somewhat more confident!! I love your advice and I completely understand what your saying! thankyou so much!
(Rating: 5) Thank you :) You are probably right. It's just that I didn't want him to miss me too much because that would suck. but you're right I really do appreciate every time I see him.
(Rating: 5) yes your right, i need to lay off and let her do what ever shes gonna do. its not doing me any good or her. thanks alot
(Rating: 4) thanks, but besides him there were 4 guys and three girls including me there so it wouldn't of been awkward for him, I appreciate your advice though =]
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