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No Dad, Mums sick sisters in hospital.
well i have been having a really tough time lately.
My mum late last year had a brain heamorrage and almost died.
My parents are divorced. and my sister was reacently in hospital.
and i have been bullied all my life , PLUS i just started year 7.
Any ideas of how to handle this? P.S im 13 from australia. Abiee xx
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hey swthrt!
sweet hugs and lots of pinches to your cheeks.you have to accept that all the problems you mentioned come in many people's lives all over the world.i believe kids should never feel bad about divorces.both your parents are wonderful people,and that will never change.there are so many different reasons for a divorce and your parents had their reasons to go through it.dont worry about it.you are a fine young person,pray a lot more,for your mother's and sister's and your health.God is always there,so turn to him,and communicate directly with him.tell him that you dont want any more problems,tell him to watch over you and your family forever more.he will take care,just trust him!being bullied is very bad,but who cares? it is temporary,the person who bullies you,doesnt remember it after a few minutes,and you will feel bad for many days.just accept that its a weird world.you will be fine,you be a strong lady,okay?
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For such a young age you have been thorugh alot, but in all things you should give God thanks. When you think you have it bad, always remember that there is someone out there who has it alot worse than you do. There will come times in your life when you feel like just giving up, but just be strong and press on. There is a saying that goes, "what doesn't break you will make you". This means if your situation does not tear you apart or destroy you it will only make you stronger. When you feel alone and feel like the times are getting to tough, just get on your knees and talk to God, he has promised to never leave you nor forsake you. Sometimes God gives us tests, (sometimes called hard and difficult situations)they may seem hard and many times you will want to quit, but just stick it there and push your way through and remember that there is light at the end of the tunnel. As for the bullies in your life, I think you should avoid them as much as you can, but when you do meet paths, you should learn to stand up for yourself, don't allow people to run over you, stand up to them and show no fear, even if you are afraid. And pray for the bullies as well.
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First, you have to remember that nothing is forever. I cannot give you answers to all of your problems, because all of the advice in the world won't change the things you have no control over. Some of the best people I know with the most beautiful hearts are people who have been through some really tough lumps in life. Those people are the true friends, and the backbones of their surroundings. The best you can do is keep your chin up. And in 20 years, when you run into that bully who seemed so cool in the seventh grade you will get a good chuckle.
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