when i have sex it hurts, not when my part puts his penis in, but when he goes in deeper? he says he feels like there is sumthing inside blocking it, what is that, and why does it hurt? ps i have only had sex once
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? kristamikele answered Tuesday May 19 2009, 6:39 pm: Well, a big part of it is that sex is new, but it could also be because of position (from the back it always goes in a little deeper). If you decide to do it again, tell your partner to take it easy because you are just getting into this and your vagina is delicate. He is probably hitting up against your cervix. If you are on top it will give the both of you a good idea about depth and rhythem. Another thing...the vagina expands and gets longer when it is stimulated. If the two of you tried a little more foreplay it will probably help alot. I can't be sure, but it sounds like the person you had sex with is willing to learn the ropes with you, so just be honest with him. Tell him what is good and what isn't. Don't fake that you like it if it is really hurting becasue he will think he's doing the right thing when it is totally wrong. Every person is different, so it is just gonna take a little time to know what it is you like. [ kristamikele's advice column | Ask kristamikele A Question ]
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