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2 yeers
im a 18 y/o guy been with a 16 year old girl for 2 yeers .. i love her .. i was her first she was my first .. for everything pretty much ... but like i have cheated on her a couple timnes and she cheated on me once ... she dont knwo i cheated on her and i feel bad but ia int tellin her .. shed literally kill me ... and liek my fam likes her (and there strict italian crazy speakin italioan and shit) wich really makes me want to be with her but im a pretty good lookin guy and she is alrigth but i knwo i can do better and i always look at other girls in the mall etc etc etc and she catches me ... liek i dont even hide it no more ... and i love her but i wish she looked like some one else i dont know what to do .... its not that shes ugly shes just not the supermodel lookingg irls im used too ... thanx alot
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If you really did love her, no other girl would matter in the world to you. The fact that you've already cheated and look at other girls openly is a bad thing. If she catches you and doesn't say anything, it's either because:
a.) she trusts you that you're merely just looking, but clearly you've already broken that trust with her.
b.) she probably doesn't want to make a fuss about it, but deep down it probably does hurt her.
By the way you sound, she deserves a lot better and seeing as you've both cheated, what's the use in keeping this up?
If you're going to keep thinking and acting this way, then you both need to end this.
Also, you're in for a harsh reality check in time with your attitude.
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If you really loved her, you wouldn't be cheating on her and looking at other girls.
You don't deserve her. Dump her so she can be with someone who does. You sound like a piece of shit boyfriend.
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Sometimes it is harder on the person who did the cheating because they are the ones who have to live with the guilt. You will let her get away with things she shouldn't because you feel guilty. Don't just stay with her just becasue you don't want her to be with anyone else. If I were you I wouldn't tell the girlfriend about the cheating-you will only be confessing to make yourself feel better. If you aren't sure you want to be with her-figure out what you want first. If you decide you really love her and want to make it work then you should tell her. There's no point in hurting her by telling her you have been with someone else and then adding insult to injury by dumping her. It will drive her crazy and mess with her self esteem with no purpose.
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If you love her, then looks shouldnt matter to you.
If you want her to dress differently, buy her clothes and go with her to try them on. Dont make her buy the clothes with her money, but show her that you care enough to buy them for her. Buy her some makeup too.
But like I said before, if you really do love her like you say you do, that should be the least of your worries.
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Uhm, I'm glad you'Re happie with heR, but peRhaps if you find youRself looking at otheR giRls... you'Re not as happie with heR as you think you aRe?? I'm Really not shoRe what to tell you heRe! All I can suggest to you is to swallow youR pRide and love heR foR who she is, oR move on if you discoveR you'Re unhappie in the Relationship. And tRy looking at it fRom heR side.. she catches you looking at otheR giRls.. that has to be huRtful. You should pRobably talk to heR about this and see what she suggests! Goodluck! Feel fRee to stop by again if you have any moRe questions!
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