ok me n my friend got in trouble with the cops tonight and well both of our parents know now and were BEST FRIENDS i mean we've been there for each other everytime we could and we live in a pretti nice neighborhood with nice house and nice people and me n her we relate with alot of things and we were at the park burning stuff and a constable saw us and we tried running and well she caught us and now were both royally screwed in the ass and i still wanna see her shes my best friend and i cant loose her what do i do???
LiL_Tasha76 answered Saturday August 7 2004, 11:17 am: Okay..Lisen i have some of the similar Prombles..Tell your Parents that she is your best frined an call your friend tell who ever answers like Her mom or Dad and say a diff name if you aint allowd to talk to her an then talk to her about it an tell her how we need to get together and talk fam with fam......And about the whole talkin well another thing i had to do was SUCK UP..lol it was hard but im aloud to hang with ma frined again..Finally ...So if you could jus make plans to meet up with you your frined an her parents and jus talk about this ..then you should jus be fine...Hope i helped..Thankz
xO_sTePhIe_Ox answered Saturday August 7 2004, 11:14 am: Hello! Since your parents realize that you are such goods friends with this person, they will most likely let you hang out with her. Hopefully our parents will understand that you made a mistake. I hope I helped... drop one in the inbox if you'd like! <3 Steph [ xO_sTePhIe_Ox's advice column | Ask xO_sTePhIe_Ox A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Saturday August 7 2004, 8:46 am: well first you need to realize that what you did was totally WRONG. Once you come to that conclusion, you need to also realize that you have to talk to your parents sometime. Figure out a good day when no ones mad and they've somewhat cooled off from what you did. Dont go up to them if their in a bad mood. Find a time when you can sit both parents down. Explain how sorry you are and the fact that what you did wasn't smart and apologize for portraying a lack of maturity. Tell them you want to be a lot more responsible (AND MEAN IT!) and how you'll do some chores for them or anything to gain back their trust. Explain how important their trust is to you. Ask them if when you gain that trust back from them, you could maybe see your best friend again. Tell them you'll stay in the house or at her house when someone is around for a long while just so they can keep an eye on you guys but you can still see eachother. Tell them shes one of your bestest friends in the world and explain how you'd feel without her...
You have to understand that unfortunately when we dont do smart things in life... we have to reallly ease back into things. That's why its such a good idea to hang out with your friend under their care b/c it's pleasing to their interests... please dont do something like you did... b/c if you ever got in trouble again Im SURE you would loose everything and get a bad name (YUCK!)... but good luck talking to your parents. Think before you make your move...
Mackenzie answered Saturday August 7 2004, 7:46 am: You shouldn't have done that, to begin with. Now you know betteR foR next time. And if both of youR paRents know you'Re such gReat fRiends and have been foR so long, they'll pRobably undeRstand that kids will be kids, and they'll make mistakes! People leaRn by tRial and eRRoR. All I can suggest to you is to tRy and find some way to show that you've leaRned youR lesson and they shouldn't have to woRRie about the two of you getting in tRouble anymoRe! Goodluck; I hope things woRk out! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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