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I will rate 5s! Sorry its long. But 5s FOR ANYTHING! JUST PLWEASE HELP. ok so i wear daily contacts that you throw out every day .. wwhen i have sleepovers i just keep them in if i fall asleep and replace them in the morning - its always been fine. so on friday i did that & everything was good. during the day my left eye kind of felt irritated, but that has been ahppening a little bit lately with me and others because of spring/allergies and stuff. then when i took it out it KILLED. i couldnt open my eye it felt like there was something in it. then when i finally could open, it feels irritated and i keep crying like theres a hair or an eyelash or something in it.. so my questions is what could it be?

what is wrong with me??? is there something in my eye?? it wasn't ripped when i took it out.. is there a cahnce the one from friday could still be in there [but im positive i took it out & it doesn't look like there's a contact in my eye unless its hidden]. and whatever it is, how do i get it out??? or is it an infection? FIVES FOR ALL!

hey. i bet that you have nothing to worry about. your eye may just be a little irratated. have you been using a different kind of eyemakeup or anything of that nature? that could be the problem. also, you may just want to put in some eyedrops for irrated eyes. if you are really worried have your parents look at it cause they will be able to help. you can also go to the doctor and see if they can find out what the problem is. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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My boyfriend is going to another country to be with his family. We've been together for just 4 months and i don't know if our relationship's worth keeping or not.
Please help me!

P.S.
I'm fifteen years old, by the way.

hey. you are in a sticky situation here. but what i would do is just tell him that you dont think that a long distance relationship will work out, although you still want to continue being friends. you can get eachothers addresses and emails so you guys can keep in contact. just follow your heart. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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ok so i ahve a lot of zits and pimples on my face and i dont no at i should do i have already tried proactiv and alot of other stuuf wat should i do

hey. the thing that i would suggest is to eat healthy foods, drink LOTS of water: like 6-8 glasses a day, and dont wash your face too much because that can irrate the skin and make it worse. you could also schedule a dermatoligist appointment and they could give you some medication to help clear your skin up. also, you might want to go out in the sun for a while, im not talking about all day, but for about 15 minutes about twice a day. the sun will help clear it up, but make sure to wear a light sunscreen. well, i dong know if you are a boy or a girl, but if you are a girl, try not to wear makeup for a while so it wont clog your pores. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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there are these two guys. one of them seems really nice because i just met him but hes not as cute..but he has a pretty good personality. the other one of them i have liked for awhile and hes been nice to me but sometimes he'll get to be very shy if i'm with my friends and won't say a word...
who should i like?!
i don't know what to do... please help.

hey. its not really a matter of who you like, its who you feel more comfortable with and who you have a better time with. you can pick the not so hot guy with a nice personality or the hot guy with no personality. it would also depends on who likes you. just go with whoever makes you feel the happiest and im sure that either pick would be good. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥ ♥

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Hello!

Can someone tell my how too keep my eyeliner stay on all day? It always smudges and fades away after a few hours. Could you tell me a long-lasting product that doesnt smudge and stays black all day? Also, i put on my eyeliner like, not under my eye but above my lower lashes if you know what i mean. Thanks!

hey. you might want to try waterproof eyeliner. i use covergirl all day eyeliner, but you also may want to experiment with different products until you find one that works the best for you. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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OK, well i have a REALLY cute jean mini skirt from American Eagle. I think i know what what shhirt im gonna wear but i dont know whats a good color. I also need advice on how i should wear my hair. Can you help??

hey. i think that white always looks good with jeans. also, pink would look cute. also, it depends on what the skirt looks like, if it is dark blue, then light blue would look good, and if it is light blue, yellow or hot pink look good with that. how long is your hair. you can straighten it and put it in a half or full pony-tail or go for the curly look. whatever you think is best. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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I have straight hair. But I was thinking about getting my hair wavy to add some flavor. What is the style these days, wavy hair or straight? & When I say wavy I don't mean curly, I just mean a few waves. I'm brunette, female 14, and blue eyes. What would fit me better, wavy or straight hair? By the way, my hair is straight right now.

i think you would look so cute with short-meduim straight hair. i would even add a few light brown highlights. you ccould also pull of a wavy look too. i use garnier fuctis curl construct gell to add a few waves. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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My mom thinks I'm to young to date, ?I'm 13/f. How can I get her to think I'm responsible to date now? She said I have to wait until I'm 16!!!!!!

hey. a lot of people have this problem. the best thing to do is to talk it out. discuss rules that you can follow if you go out on a date. let her meet the guy and his parents first, be home by like 930, have a cell phone with you, etc. group dates are a great way to get started. try being more responsible like when it comes to school, homework, and cleaning. pull your grades up and finish your homework early, and when your parents tell you to clean something do it right away. this will prove to your mom that you are responsible thus proving that you can responsibly date. if this doesnt work, you should just ask her if she ever liked someone at her age and wanted to go out with them!! hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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How do I know if what my parents are doing to me is child abuse? They hit me really bad, but it never leaves a mark. They do throw stuff at me and yell and scream and hit me. They verbally abuse me and say God didn't know what he was thinking when he put me on this earth, and they tell me I'm never going to have a job, a husband, children, or friends and they say I'm going to go to jail. They say they love my sister more then me. They say it to my face. What would you recommend doing? Calling child abuse or reporting it. Is what they do to me considered child abuse?

hey. yes this is child abuse. no one should have stuff thrown at them and saying that God doesnt love them, especially when your parents are doing that. you have to report this to someone, whether it is a peer, friends parent, or a social worker at school. say all that has happened to you and they can help you from there. good luck. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

here is a site to help you:
http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/families/family_abuse.html

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Could someone explain to me who David Phelps is? Someone told me he is a singer but i've never heard of him so could someone please explain who this is? Thanks

hey. he is a christian singer.

http://www.wordrecords.com/davidphelps/

hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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Does anyone have any good fruit smoothie recipies? I want one that has strawberries in it. I am doing it for a demonstration speech in one of my classes and I need a good recipe to use.

Thank you!

hey. i LOVE smoothies. here are some recipies that you can try out:

http://www.homeschoolzone.com/m2m/recipes/smoothies.htm

http://www.cdkitchen.com/recipes/cat/217/0.shtml

good luck on your speech. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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today was our 8th grade trip to chicago. i was told that i wasnt alowed to go. so i couldnt go and all of my friends went and then they called me on my best friends cell phone and it sounded like they were having a blast.

hey. there is nothing wrong with you. why would you think that there was something wrong about you if you were sad about something? you knew that they were having a good time and you couldnt be with them. also, you were probally mad that they were with your crush. i was really sad when i couldnt go on a school trip with all of my friends. there is nothing to worry about, everyone cries over something! hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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is there any way ii can increase the size of my breasts without implants or pills? thanks i was just wondering becasue i have to wear a braless dress for this thing and im not so proud of wat i have

hey. i have this problem too. the best thing to do would to get these gelly like fake breasts that you can wear under a dress. they are usually clear or they can come in neurtal colors. they provide some extra paddage and maybe even some lift. i think that you can get them at a store like Victoria's Secret or any underwear store. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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i keep seeing people with these tan braided bracelets. why does everyone have them? do they mean something or something like that? thanks.

hey. you are probally seeing macrame or hemp bracelets. they are made of sort of a twine string and they are so much fun to make. they are pretty easy once you get the hang of it. you can get the supplies for it at any local craft store. i think this is what you are looking for, so here is a site to show you how to make them:

http://www.beadage.net/hemp/two_knots.shtml

hope this helps!! :) hearts; ♥ ♥

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im 12 and im too embarassed 2 ask my mom if i can start shaving my legs idk why but whenever i wanna go ask her i end up not doing it...its just to embarassing for me. yesterday at school at lunch time i was sitting by my friend and i put my foot on the chair (i was wearing capris) and she saw my leg and shes like do you shave? and im like yea but i was 2 tired last night to shave and shes like ok w/e and its not fair cuz every1 shaves except 4 me!!!!!!!!! any tips?!?!!!!? thanks!!!

hey. it was the same case for me when i was your age. i was so scared to ask my mom if i could start. i finally worked up the guts to ask her one night and we talked it over. she told me that if i shaved my legs, the hair would come back darker and thicker. i didnt care because i wanted to be able to shave like everyone else. just discusses with your mom on how you feel uncomfortable with your legs. she will probally thank you for being honest and she will understand. if you do start, there are a few things to know about shaving: shaving cream is amazing. soap can leave your legs dry. you should replace razor blades about once every 2-3 weeks depending on how much you use it. make sure you take your time because you dont want to cut yourself. i use a shick razor and skintamate shaving cream. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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i dont know what to do anymore i really care about this guy that i went out with for like 7 months.. and its hard to get over him and i liek jsut started to like yesterday and then in school hes like fliting with me like trying ot pull me back to him
i dunno what the fuck his problem is but i really need to get over him and i need to like.. learn how to resist him or whatever
any advice?

hey. it seems like this guy may still have feelings for you. if he is sending you signs like talking to you a lot or flirting, that may be the case. are you scared to get back together again because you are scared that you are going to get dumped again? the best thing would be to talk to him. just ask him if he still has feelings for you because that is the message you are getting, you may end up going back out! the best way that i get over a guy is to think that you are mad at them. or i just think to myself that he likes someone else and there would be no possible way for us to be together. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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hi im 13/f. i was wondering if anyone knew a good deodorant or antiperspirent. i sweat under my arms all the time even when its cold and its embarrasing in school can someone give me tips on what to do about it? ill rate high thanks in advance

hey. here is a site that you can check out. BAN aslo works well too.

http://www.underarm-wetness.com/

hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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what is a gynocologist, and what do they do???

hey. it is basicly just a womens doctor. here is a site to help claify:

http://www.puberty101.com/p_obgyn.shtml

hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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I'm trying to be friends with my ex, and we usually get online and can talk online like friens. But every once in a while he'll flip out on me and tell me how everything in our relationship was my fault, and its my fault we're not together....when he broke up with me. WE were talking online and he says something about it, and I told him how I felt about it, and then he got all defensive. I told him I was sorry, and he's just like ohwell... he's being so lame. And he has a new girlfriend. I don't understand what his problem is.

Any advice on just how to be friends without freaking out on eachother?


The X.

hey. that is stupid that he is telling you that the breakup was your fault. the next time he says something along those lines you should tell him that you cant contiune to be friends with him anymore if he keeps treating you like this. if he has a girlfriend right now then he should be worring about her and not with the past problems. i hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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where can i get a really cute layout. thats really simple. like a "skinny layout".

hey. www.whateverlife.com has really cute layouts. hope this helps!! :) ♥ ♥ ♥

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