I really like this guy and we have hung out acouple of times. We've done things but not sex or oral sex. We both want to do more then that but I want a real relationship also (we are not going out) Do you guys think doing alot of sexual things before going out could ruin the chances of a good relationship or possibly make them stronger? thanks :o)
I think you should wait until further into your relationship before you try anything sexual. There's nothing wrong with it but just be sure that you feel comfortable doing it. Hope my advice helps!
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Please help me with my relationship problem, my boyfriend is like absessed with tickling me, he thinks it's funny and cute. It's fun, but it gets annoying. When I tell him to stop, he just keeps doing it. I can't get away. What do I do?? No matter how much I ask, he won't stop.
Openly come out and tell him that you don't like it. I used to be in a similar situation. Threaten to break up if you have to. He has no right to touch you if you tall him no. Let me know what happen! Feel free to email me or ask me anthing! Hope my advice helps!
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I'm a 16 year old girl, and I don't shave my legs or armpits on any regular basis. I'll do them for special occassions or if I'm wearing a special outfit, but most of the time the hair just doesn't bother me so I don't bother removing it. I figure that it's my body, and my time and energy that I'm saving by not shaving, but sometimes I worry that guys won't be interested in me because of this and I've got to the age where I wish guys expressed more interest in me. Should I start shaving, or should I just wait for a guy who doesn't mind me being me?
I would shave if it is really noticeable but you dont have to shave at all if you dont want. As far as guys are concerned, they'll hardly even notice. Hope my advice helps!
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hi,
my girlfriend was late on her period by 2 days and then we had sexual intercourse. she is still late 5 days after we had sexual intercourse what does this mean? im sure the condom did not split and everything went fine but im still worried. was she most fertile then or least could you please tell me?
thanks,
rob
She might just have a irregular peoriod. But have her take one of those home pregnency tests just to be sure. Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens!
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Do boys like secret admirers???? my school is doing this this thing where u can give either chocolate or a flower to someone, and i dont know if i should do it.
Guys like stuff like that too. He would probably think it was sweet and nice of you to do something like that. Hope my advice helps!
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Is there a way to stop a pregnant woman from drinking? I don't understand why it's not against the law. It's aginst the law to supply alcohol to minors, but it's ok to posion your unborn child?
Actually while it isnt against the law, people can still take away the child if they think the mother is drinking to much. Hope my advice helps!
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Cheerleading is just over! I am pretty good but i want to get better. I can do a cartwheel, round off, all jumps, heal streach, split! But tryouts are in about 2 months and i want stuff to do. I have a few questions,
What are some new cool moves?
What should i do to teach my self a back walkover? I am afraid of going back!
What can i do to get my jumps higher? yes, I prep but that doesnt seem to be enough, is jumping while i prep a bad thing?
Should i do some running and such? Im skinny but for extra "strength" if you want to call it that!
((Please.... HELP!!!))
Ask any questions any time!
If you want to learn some new moves, there is a cheerleading video that you can buy off of the tv. I think its called Cheer! or something like that. It's a really helpful video. If you dont want to buy it though, try going to varsity.com. It's a really helpful site. Hope my advice helps!
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I really want one of those cool quizes people have in their profiles on aol instant messanger. I cannot figure out how to get one though. Could any of you help me?
Try going to buddy4u.com. You can make a profile and have quizes and subpages. Hope my advice helps!
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Since October last year, I haven't been having a proper lunch at school. At first it was because I just wasn't as hungry as I used to be and I didn't need to eat. Now, I do get hungry at lunch but I don't like bringing in a lunch from home and I hate queuing in the lunch hall to buy a school meal, I never have money to buy it anyway. My friends have started to comment on how thin I am getting, I have always had a slim build but now they say I am getting too thin. I can see what they mean, I am thinner but I haven't lost any weight at all. I don't think I am overweight or anything but they think I have an eating disorder. I know I don't, how can I get them to see that?
I think the only way to prove to them is to bring lunches to school so that they can see you eating. Hope my advice helps!
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See, ive liked this girl for a long time now, but i never got the urge to ask her out yet because i never get to see her much. just recently, i figured out she likes this other guy and shes probably the only girl ive ever liked in a while. yeah, sounds corny and sry for the longness, so now what should i do? it seems that i have nothing else to live for in this life and that im just wasitng space and air and food
I think you should take a chance and ask her out. If you eally like her, then I think you should go for it. If she and that other boy arent offically going out and all it is is just a crush, then there isnt anything wrong with asking her out. Hope my advice helps! Let me know what happens!
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okay so im a female 14 years old. Valentines day coming up and well the is few guys that like me but they arent what i really want. What i really want is uhh well im not very sure there is couple guys i want but one of them i like never hang out with and another one well i dont think i have any cahce with him at all cuz he doesnt even think im hott. What should i do? Who should be my valentine this year?
plz help me!
Try inviting one of them to go with you just as friends. That way you don't have to worry about peoples feeling or anything like that. If you dont really like these guys or vice versa you wont have to deal with trouble in a relationship like that. Hope my advice helps!
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I asked this guy out. He said no cuz he can't date till he's 16. So, is there a chance that he likes me, but just can't date. Or is it one of those lines? He flirts with me, and a few people think he likes me, and his sister told me she thinks he does.
It sounds like he likes you. If he flirts with you, it probably means he likes you. Try inviting him to a group date. That way he isn't technically going on a date. Then you can find out more about whether of not he likes you. Hope my advice helps!
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Im going to make this shrot I want to get him a cookie that says kiss kiss on it and i dont know if that is a good idea. I just want something that noone really does im not wierd or anything I just dont want the old hear is a box of chocolates happy valentines day i want a haha a cookie. funny. sort of memorable thing. But i still want it to be thoughtful. I was thinking a card, cookie, and a small box of chocolates. Dumb idea?
I think it is a very nice idea, but maybe try adding more stuff to your plan. Chocolate and cards are the type of git everyone gives. Try giving him a stuffed bear with a message with it or something sweet like that. Hope my advice helps!
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I don't know what to do!! i have till thursday to decide whether or not to play cello in 9th grade. Cuz registration is on thursday. My stand partner wants me to stay in so she wont be the only girl...but i hate practicing.. So i don't know what to do. Help me!
I think you should give the cello a try. If signups are only for a short time, at least try the cello before you decide to write it of. Hope my advice helps!
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my sister likes a guy and she doesn't know what to say to him. she talks about him constantly. and she never sees him anymore. should i tell her to move on and break her heart, or should i let her go on about him even though it bores me?
I think you should tell her to move on. There isnt really any point to moping about someone she doent see or talk to. Hope my avice helps!
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can lot of you can send me some good journals sties.. thanks
Try opendiary.com. Hope my advice helps!
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how do you tell a guy you arent interested without breaking his heart?
Just explain to him that you like him, but you think of him more as a friend. Hope my advice helps!
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Sorry for the lengthiness ahead of time.
OK here goes, I am a 16 year old curious teenage girl. I have recently gotten a boyfriend, and this is the first time since about beginning of september. However, I have two other infatuations. And I think about them on a regular basis.
So now I will explain in a little more detail about them:
My boyfriend, I just met him at a concert on January 29th. He is a total sweetheart and a complete cutie.
One of the other guys, I have been talking to him regularly and we flirt which is no biggie, however we do talk about hanging out and kissing or making out on a frequent basis as well. however, that is not just recent I was doing that long before I even met my boyfriend.
The second guy, I have been sleeping with on a regular basis since about the end of October, however I havn't since I got with my boyfriend, but I have also failed to tell him about my boyfriend. Except I don't want him to be devastated because I am dating someone else, he is the last person in the world that I want upset or mad at me. He is my best friend, my savior when I need it. However, we weren't in a relationship, didn't have labels, or any form of ties keeping us together. Except I am now seeing that I think I developed real, raw, strong feelings for him.
I don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt anyone. If you could help me out I would appreciate it so so much.
Thanks in advance for anyone who helps or even tries to. Because I know if I can get through this I can work through other problems that I have. So thanks again.
-Rachael
Hey Rachael! I think you need to come clean and tell them. If you don't want to openly come out and tell them, maybe try giving them a scenerio. Try saying something like "what would you do if i would get a boyfriend" or something similar to that. After you ask for their opinion, break the news to them gently. Let me know how everything turns out! Good luck! Hope my advice helps!
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I have a 1 yr old male neutered siberian husky that loves to play. I got another male 1and1/2yr old husky from the pound. i got him neutered and the two of them live in a fenced yard together. The problem is that the new husky is protective over me and his food, blanket etc. If I am not around, the two dogs play and have fun. When I am around, the new husky growls and has even bitten the other husky and tends to start a fight.
Will he overcome this attitude or is it just his personality and needs to find a new home with no other animals?
This is normal. He just needs time to get comfortable with his surroundings. He might even be feeling jealous of the other dog. If they have fun though, its a sigh that they are getting used to each other. Hope my advice helps!
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ok so i go out with this guy and lately i've been getting jealouse of other girls becuz he lik flirts with them rite in front of me and i feel like we dont even go out and i dont wanna brake up with him like right be for valentines becuz he has like this big thing planned...what should i do..o ya i like this other kid ( i have for a long time)HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!
// Jealouse \\
I think you need to just tell him how you feel. Tell him that you don't appreciate him flirting with other girls. He might not even realize that he is flirting. It's probably just innocent, but you still have the right to question it. Hope my advice helps!
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