Q: Ok me and my boyfriend have been having sex hes 17. my mom found naked pictures of me in my camera that i took of myself that no one else has seen but me, and now my moms putting me out to be this big slut. And shes treatening to take me to the doctor and if they see im not a virgin then shes gonna have my boyfriend Aressted. me and him have been together for 2 years. I love him sooo much annd idk what i would do without him PLEASE HELP!!

Q: I really want to make a Bible Study or club at my school; I am new but I know the school doesn't have one. I have been talking to some people and they said they would attend if I got made one. I feel like it's a way for me to bring people to God and Jesus. The only problem is I don'd know where to start. Do I talk to the principal first or do I get a small group together first? I am lost but determined. please give advice; it would be very appreciated. =)

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ok forget that umm what things can i do to avoid DRAMA in high school?

i had some drama in my middle schoold years and i want to avoid it so uhh i need advicce

i want answers from people with experience and people with no experience because they did the advice theyre about to tell me.




thankss

Q: well im too attached to my dad. i don't live with him i live with my mom, and it's really hard for me not to see him all the time. i'm a total daddy's girl, and i just don't know what to do anymore. i was just over there for 2 weeks and i had to come home today, and i've been crying my eyes out since i got out of the car because i miss him. i am almost 15 years old and im bawling my eyes out like a baby because i had to leave my dad. i want to live with him, but i dont know because my mom would probably be really upset, and i just dont know. i need help. why am i so attached, how do i stop crying? someone please let me know because i want to stop crying but i cant because i miss him so much already.

Q: Female 21.
I moved in oct to fl. I made friends fast and had been flirting with this guy for months. Finally I had to move and moved into a house with my new friends two brothers and ones girlfriend and two other guys. The brother(21) without a GF is the guy i had been flirting with for months. We finally hooked up (no drinking involved) He said he didnt want to date anyone but wanted to try new things since he never had a gf he was pretty innocent with alot of things and that was fun to me. I was ok with this. Then every now and then we would have sex(no drinking), months later he started having this other girl come over and hooked up with her. Since it was bothering me i new i was getting attached. So we disscussed this and i stated no more sex.He didnt really want to stop but he didnt want a commitment. It was fun but now it was over. Well now everytime i get drunk and come home from the bar i brush my teeth and he comes into our bathroom and i end up having sex then going to my room. Hes not nice he dosnt want me to sleep in his bed even though the other girls do. Sometimes i dont even remeber. But my roomies tell me they told me not to.Now I cant figure out how to stop having sex with him. I tell him i dont want to and i tell everyone in the house not to let me. but when i drink i come on to him and he dosent tell me no. Any advice?

Q: Okay, so I cheer. I believe it's a sport. What is your take. I do not see why people believe it's not. Like honestly, we throw people in the hair, flip around, etc. And we recieve no credit. I would like to know what people think, and why they think it. Please support your anwser: I will rate based on how well you support yourself.

Q: Ok im trying to find the name of this rap song. I dont know any of the lyrics. All i know is that there is this guy in the back round making this Uhh, ooo, owww, ohh, sound or something like that. Its a popular song. PLEASE HELP ME ITS DRIVING ME CRRRAZY

Q: I feel as if I am selfish. My Babe was suppose to sleep over my house on Thursday. I called her to make sure it was still on and she was on her way to corning. That's were her cousins live. i was like, why are you going to corning when we made a plan. I haven't seen her in two weeks, cause i was on vacation. So I really miss her alot. I was kind of acting like a jerk because i was so upset with her. I regret it and zi told her I was sorry., But I am just wondering two questions.

#1 was i being selfish?
#2 what if happens again, what should i do?

Q: well i have read the advise of most people of this topic and it may be relavent to some , i got no freinds to talk to the only person i love hates me ,i m 28 and i think id have the smallest funeral next to never being found,going to hell aint proven ,i have had a drug propblym scence i been 11 ,i have failed at about every aspect of life ,seems the more i try to help people the more i get hurt ,i wish i was mean .i have money and it means nothing ,the people who pretend to be close to me are fake i seem to like them less and less ,the girl in my live lately dont like me doing heroin but on the other hand shes always drunk,i guess im afraid to die ,on the other hand its all i want ,i got nothing to look foward to and the past has been a nightmare ,so in that scence the future seems to be more of the same ,i bought a motorcycle in hopes it will kill me .not yet i guess this would seem to be just some other sob story maybe it is i try live with out drugs and its worse just more drug doctors give you and thay dont help thay are phoney too you can only sedate some one so much ,bottom line i got no one to hurt but myself so what is the point ,and please dont say god will save, i beleave he might be dead,i feel my end is coming soon

Q: okay, so for most of the summer me & this kid have been hanging out a lot w. mutual friends and every time he alwayss flirts with me hardcore, cuddles with me, puts his arm around me and acts like he likes me. he's a flirty person but still..it felt like more because of how much chemistry we had. even our friends say so and think we look soo cute toghether..then last night we hung out and it was totally different. he was nice to everyone BUT me &acted like he hated me! he even flirted with my friend right in fronttt of me..& avoided me like i was a disease or something! :[ i don't understand how it could go from one extreme to the next. except that a lot of people found out i like him..and i think maybe someone told him..now i have no idea what to do..its so awkward but we dont know eachother well enough for me to talk to him about it..thatd just be weird. what do i do? i have to keep hanging out with him because hes still friends with my friends and whatnot. i just hate that its awkward now. i tried to be nice to him, but he acted creeped out and wouldnt even make eye contact with me. im sooo confused at what to do here.

Q: I was wondering... what exactly are the signs of a boy liking you?

Q: me and my ex of almost 2 years broke up about 2 months ago.. we talk once n awhile.. & i REALLY miss him.. about 2 weeks ago i told him that i really miss him and what not and he said he just doesnt think it can work. we dont really talk much, but i miss him SOOOO much. i think i love him.. how do i win him back. what should i do to show him how much i care instead of soundding so annoying & needy? please help..

Q: his names anthony
i used to see him around school i used wish i was his girl. then 1 day me n my friend went ditching with him and he liked her not me i was crushed so later that day we picked up his brother that liked me. anthony kept trying to hook up with my friend but she didnt like him and i hooked up with his brother wich made everthing flip. a few weeks later me n him didnt talk much then he dropped out and went to another school. i didnt see him again until this summer 3 weekends ago. he looked so good omg i loved it but anyway let me go on with my story... i was at the drive in with one of my other friends angel and we saw him so we went to go talk to him. she told me she hooked up with him before and after that we went to a party at his house. and that night me and him were talking really good and he was telling me he liked me and wanted to get to no me more...so then i gave him my number and the next weekend he called wanting to hang out so we did then we hooked up finally!!! we arent a couple we just hook up but after that he would call me evry night wanting to see me again so we have been spending alot of time together. my friends tell me hes a player but last night he told me he liked me alot and that he wants me to be more than a hook up...


i havent been in a relationship since 6 months ago and he hasnt either. im a player myself but what if he wants to be an item? or is he triking me? should i believe him? or deny him? i dont wanna get hurt again but i really like him

help me please

Q: i want to use a tampon. But im scared to DEATH!! lol im kind of a person that if you look at me, i looks like i do. So i cant really ask my friends for help. And id rather kind of leave my mom out of this for the first time because i like to do things on my own so i can learn. So how do i do this. Because yes, iv tryed before but it hurt so bad and then i couldnt find the hole...So wheres the hole. How do i make it not work. And what kind should i use.
Thanks =]

Q: This is sort of a rare question. You see my father died in August of last year, and now it's just me and my older brother living in the house for now. My mom moved, and I am the only daughter of my dads, therefore half of the house is mine. Anyways at first I was paying all the bills up until 4 months ago. Now I only give so much and my brother is paying mostly everything. The thing is he has ALOT of friends that come over all hours of the day and night. shower,eat,party etc. And I feel it has gotten out of hand because he's a nice guy and they take advantage of that. I was not comfortable in my own house. So I asked him if he could tone it down. Do I have that right? He agreed but I feel like I have some nerve. I just don't want to lose the house or end up in jail. I am 39 and hes 46. Still very popular

Q: Ok so this isn't my problem, it's actually my best friend's. She confided all of this to me yesterday and was in need of some advice. I tried to help her out as best as I could, but I couldn't say too much because i've never really experienced anything like this. That's where you guys come in. So here is her dilemma: (I apologize, as per usual it's gonna be ridiculously long.)



Ok so my friend, Jane, has been having problems with her boyfriend Dave. She met him through work (which will later play into a large part of the problem) and at first she really liked him. But at the time she wasn't really looking for a relationship (she had previously been having issues with another guy who she worked with and hooked up with). But Dave started showing signs that he liked her and eventually asked her out on a date. The whole time he was a complete gentleman and even ended the night with a simple kiss on the cheek. They spent weeks just going on dates and talking and getting to know each other before they became official. At first she was smitten - they had so much in common and she got along so well with him, and that lasted for quite some time. However, it still was only the start of the relationship. As time went on, he ended up meeting most of her family and friends, and they all loved him. (And I as a friend agree - he's one of the greatest guys I've ever met and I couldn't have been more happy for her.) But now as the relationship starts to get on, the problems begin to arise:

- First off, they work together. And he's one of her supervisors. A.k.a. If some people they work with find out...big "UH-OH". They could both lose their jobs. [Which would be problematic for both, him being that it's his career, and her for the fact that it's an internship in connection with her school, and it's directly related to her major and what she wants to do in life.) But so far they've had no problems in keeping their relationship a secret. However, as of late she's starting to feel like she's missing out on something...which will tie in with the next issue...

- Friends. Dave dislikes many of the people that they work with. So that causes a problem for Jane on two levels: 1.) She can't go out with certain people from work whom she'd like to hang out with because if Dave wants to spend time with her as well, she can't bring him because they can't be seen together. and 2.) Even if they are people who she doesn't have to hide her relationship from, Dave doesn't like them. Now she could just simply divide her time up and hang out with them and then hang out with him another time, but again that goes into another issue...

- He wants to spend WAY too much time with her. He's crazy about her and loves her and they spend a lot of time together. But whenever she wants her distance and a night out with the girls, he gets upset and feels as if she doesn't want to be with him, which in turn makes her feel bad. And angry at him at the same time.


Now that you know all the little nuances, it's time for the MAJOR problem at hand (that ties them all in). There's an age difference between the two of them, she's 20 and he's 26. Now age really ain't nothin but a number, and it's not that big of a gap, but it is starting to come into play in this case. Since she's only 20, she wants to live her life and experience college and have fun. Him being 26 and pretty much settled in life, has different ideas about that. She has a very energetic and magnetic personality. She likes to command attention from everyone (but not in an obnoxious, annoying way) and she loves making new friends and having lots of different people around her. She usally makes many friends at work, but because of Dave she hasn't really been able to do that (because of the two situations mentioned above). So when she sees her friends and people from work hanging out outside of the job, she feels as if she's missing out. Also, she's going to be graduating early [in like, less than a year] so with that in mind, and with most of her friends being older and graduating this coming year, she wants to spend as much time with them as possible and have as many experiences as she can before college is over. However, she feels held back because of Dave and it's driving her crazy. That's coupled with the fact that he's really in love with her. To the point that he's stated that he wants to marry her and spend his life with her. Now that's the FARTHEST thing from her mind right now and she's definitely not ready to get married at any time soon, nor does she think about it. Also, as of now she lives in Rhode Island (that's where she goes to school and works) but her hometown is New York. So when she's done with school, she's definitley coming back to New York. He's been thinking of also coming to NY to pursue a teaching career. This bothers her because she doesn't know if he's doing that to just follow her or because he actually wants to teach there, and she doesn't want him making life decisions like that based on her alone. She's tried talking to him about some of these things, but he usually just gets very upset and doesn't really understand her reasoning. And she gets upset talking to him about it because she really cares about him, and she doesn't want to hurt him, but she feels like no matter what she says will.

About a little over a year ago she was dating this other guy, Julio, who became somewhat possessive and didn't really like her hanging out with her friends too often. So he broke up with her after 6 months because of it. She's been dating Dave now for 5 months and she's worried that it might have the same fate, being that it's nearing the same amount of time and such. But she really doesn't want it to end and cares about him deeply -- but everything he's been doing has been pushing her away. Also despite this she's been trying to make time to see her friends and hang out with them up in RI, but they keep bitching about her saying that she doesn't invest enough time in them and that she's "changed", then when she makes an effort they blow her off (which is an entirely different problem...but it doesn't help her situation.) Also because of this, she's been finding herself attracted to other guys, but not in a sexual way. For example, she's developed this sort of "crush" on Ted, one of her higher-ups at work. She knows nothing will come of it (her being in a relationship and him being married) and she doesn't think of him "like that" at all, but she's just attracted to his personality and the kind of person he is, and she just admires him. It's nothing that will damage her relationship, but she feels it has a lot to do with Dave and the way he's been acting. Plus Ted does this thing with all his co-workers where he'll invite them over to his house and make dinner for them and they'll have a nice fancy dinner with him and his wife (he's a chef). He invited Jane a while ago, and she was going to go, and even told Dave in advance, but the day before she was going Dave flipped out on her about it. She still went, but it really upset her. And lately every little argument sets her off and they end up screaming at each other. Another big part is that his last girlfriend was in a committed relationship with him, but then ended it abruptly as college ended to go back to her homestate, which left him pretty devastated. I thought this might have something to do with the way he's acting in this relationship.

This has been taking a toll on her emotionally and physically, and she just wants some peace.


Sooo after this long rambling entry, the question is: What should she say to Dave? How can she let him know how she feels without hurting him or upsetting him? She doesn't want to end the relationship (again, aside from the fights here and there he treats her like a princess and is one of the sweetest guys she's ever met or been with) because she cares about him deeply, but how does she let him know that and also at the same time tell him that she needs her time away from him and to live her life? What else can she do?

Any advice would be appreciated, I really just want to see my friend happy. It hurts me to see her upset and hurting like this :(.





Thanks so much =)

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