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DOCTORS!! help asap bf might go to jail
Ok me and my boyfriend have been having sex hes 17. my mom found naked pictures of me in my camera that i took of myself that no one else has seen but me, and now my moms putting me out to be this big slut. And shes treatening to take me to the doctor and if they see im not a virgin then shes gonna have my boyfriend Aressted. me and him have been together for 2 years. I love him sooo much annd idk what i would do without him PLEASE HELP!!
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Okie calm down, your mother isn't allowed to do that, even if she takes you to the doctor the doctors are not allowed to tell your mom if you are a virgin or not, and no tampons doesn't make you lose your virginity
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Well first of all your mom can't take you to the doctor to get your virginity checked. She is talking about seeing if your hynem is broken or not. Nobody can really tell because a tampon can brake it. Tell your mom you took the pictures and nobody has seen them. If she asks why you took them say you were curious about your body. Tell your mom you are not a slut and it hurts you that she said that. Ask your mom not to have your boyfriend arrested. If it makes her happy brake up with him. It would be better to brake up with him and not press charges than to have him sent to jail. Sorry but maybe it will help.
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doctor wouldnt be allowed to tell your mom without your consent.
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Girls hymens can be broken by things
other than sex. However there may be
other ways to tell. Sperm for instance.
The fact is if your boyfriend is over the
age of consent for your state, and you are
under, your parents can get him in trouble.
17 year olds CAN be tried as adults.
Sex with a minor by law is defined as not only penetration, but masturbation or showing of any sexual body parts to a minor, including breasts.
The best thing to do would be confess and
hope to talk them out of pressing charges.
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um im pretty sure that they cant tell that your not a virgin or not people are always woried that they can but they cant so dont worry and just be like those pictures were for my eyes only i just wanted to see what i look like or something like that your trying to see everyday that you do crunches if its making a differecne so you take pictures of your self. he cant go to jail he would have to be 18 for that to happen
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Just tell your mom the truth about what you have been doing with him because i really don't think that he can go to jail because of that and his age. Hope this helps!
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I do not think your boyfriend CAN go to jail, because he's not 18 and it was consensual.
Anyways, talk to your mom. Stay calm, and act mature about it. Tell her that you made a mistake, and you regret doing it, but that's part of life. Everybody makes mistakes, and now you've learned from yous.
As for going to the doctor, tell her you don't think it's necessary. Just be honest and tell her that you aren't a virgin, but it's a personal decision that you made for YOURSELF.
Good luck!
-Laura. (16-f)
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Since your bf is not 18 yet, he might be sentenced with something less severe than engaging in sexual acts with a minor.
You already made the choice to have sex with your boyfriend and take pictures of yourself so to show your mom that you are adult enough to handle sex, you should handle the situation in a responsible and mature manner.
Own up to it. "Yes, I did it. Yes, there's pictures. No, I'm not a slut. I'm you're daughter."
And if he gets incarcerated, stand by your man!
cheers,
stargirl
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Tell your mom that every kid experiments. It's none of her business if you've been having sex or not. You aren't a slut, you're just having fun.
By going to the doctor to see if you aren't a virgin, does she mean to see if your hymen's broken? Cherry's 'pop' doing every day things, like riding a bike or excersizing.
Your boyfriend's not going to jail, that's retarded.
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