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My Babe
I feel as if I am selfish. My Babe was suppose to sleep over my house on Thursday. I called her to make sure it was still on and she was on her way to corning. That's were her cousins live. i was like, why are you going to corning when we made a plan. I haven't seen her in two weeks, cause i was on vacation. So I really miss her alot. I was kind of acting like a jerk because i was so upset with her. I regret it and zi told her I was sorry., But I am just wondering two questions.
#1 was i being selfish?
#2 what if happens again, what should i do?
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1. Yes and no. Yes, because cousins are her family, and no offense to you, but family may be her first priority. No, because she DID have a plan with you.
2. Talk to her about it. None of us here are her, so we can't tell you why she's doing this. Only she can.
-Laura. (16-f)
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No, I don't think that was selfish. That was just you missing her, which is to be expected if you haven't seen each other in a while. It was rude of her to do something else when you had already made plans.
If this happens again, remind her that she had made a commitment and should keep her promise. Also, make sure you act sad, rather than upset. Showing her that you are mad will cause a fight, but showing her that you are sad will make her think twice and have sympathy.
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No, i don't think you were being selfish, i just think you miss her a lot and want to see her. Also, you had a plan and you thought she was coming over so you were just a little confused on why she wasn't coming over.
If it happens again just tell her how bad you want to see her and you miss her a lot. She will understand. Hope this helps!
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Well no you weren't being selfish. Once someone makes plans they shouldn't go and visit cousins. So no don't worry about being selfish you weren't. Two, if it does happen again just tell her that you guys made plans together and that you think its selfish for her to go visit cousins when someone who loves her so much already made plans!
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