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Member Since: August 3, 2008
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Last Update: August 3, 2008
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14/f

lots of people have been telling me the my bf wants to take it to the next level..but i keep denying it to them....hes really sweet and really hot...when my friends and i got done with weights we asked if we could get a ride home from him and he said ok so we waited till he was done with weights in the car. It was 10 min to wear i texted him"hurry up plz" and i found out is phone was in his middle department thingy or whatever(the thing between the driver and passenger seat...so i open it and see a condom in there right next to his cellphone!!!what do i do?hes 16 (link)
I would say don't worry to much, if your not ready, then don't do it, its not the end of the world if you two don't have sex. If he is pressuring you, then you need to confront him.


I feel as if I am selfish. My Babe was suppose to sleep over my house on Thursday. I called her to make sure it was still on and she was on her way to corning. That's were her cousins live. i was like, why are you going to corning when we made a plan. I haven't seen her in two weeks, cause i was on vacation. So I really miss her alot. I was kind of acting like a jerk because i was so upset with her. I regret it and zi told her I was sorry., But I am just wondering two questions.

#1 was i being selfish?
#2 what if happens again, what should i do? (link)
Well no you weren't being selfish. Once someone makes plans they shouldn't go and visit cousins. So no don't worry about being selfish you weren't. Two, if it does happen again just tell her that you guys made plans together and that you think its selfish for her to go visit cousins when someone who loves her so much already made plans!




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