Member Since: August 4, 2008
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Last Update: August 5, 2008
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well my best friend sara moveda way this summer and it feels really weird not having someone to tlak to and hang out with 24-7 i really miss herr i cry every night wishing she still lived by me and well she now lives like 15 hours away and it's really hard (link)
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hey. i know how you feel! i just moved from ohio to africa. uganda to be precise. and i had to leave all my friends, my family, and my cat that i'd had since i was three. so i know what its like to loose your best friend. my best friend also live next to me. we were together all the time. the best thing to do is to keep in touch. e-mail call and IM are my favorite. its not the same but it does help. also hang out a lot with your other friends. theyll never take her place but they do help. and if you miss her really bad somedays theyll try their best to comfort you. but NEVER EVER EVER forget her! thats the worst thing you could do!
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This is the day after a disastrous holiday with her and we have come to a mutual decision that we don't want to see each other anymore. We always had a difficult relationship due to her ferocious temper and mood swings and my inability to deal with them. While I did love her I always ended up feeling inadequate around her, because according to her, I seemed to get so many things wrong. This came to a head during this holiday, which we went on after I had been away at uni for a year. I was apprehensive about spending a whole week in her company but went really to keep her happy. She had been sniping at me throughout the holiday, saying that I was ringing my boyfriend too much (once a day, she conveniently forgot the whole trip was based around her wanting to go and meet an ex of hers) We were supposed to go for 6 days and on the 4th we had a huge argument where she acted as though the fact that we couldn't find the hostel we should have been staying at was my fault even though we had been given faulty directions. After ringing home to get the correct phone number, I got correct directions, but she was still annoyed. I asked her what else she wanted me to do and we argued. This culminated in her screaming at me in the middle of the street and stalking off, leaving me in a city I didn't know, alone with no map and no phone (it had broken earlier) I was stuck in a phone box having a panic attack (which i am prone to) and had to ring home for help. I got to the hostel and it turned out she was there. She continued to shout at me, and I told her about how I was scared of her and her temper. I said I would go home the next day (earlier than planned) and she said she didn't want to see me again. Not only did this grate on me, as I felt I had more right to say this to her, I now feel very depressed. I hate her now, and I know that when I stop hating her I will still not want to see her but I can't help feeling sad and everything seems to remind me of her. How do I stop thinking about this awful week. (link)
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Hey! My name is Rachel. I know how ya feel. I used to fight with my old best friend A LOT!! And trust me, I used to think I that I'd hate her forever. But then I found out how much I missed her. I'd say the best thing to do right now is take a couple weeks and just be by yourself. It sounds like y'all need some time to chill. But after a few weeks if ya start to miss her, then just write her a note and tell her that ya wish to be friends with her again. Tell her that ya miss her. Now to stop thinkin of the week. Well don't stop thinkin of the week, just stop thinkin of the bad stuff. Think of the fun stuff y'all did. And if ya start to think of the bad stuff then distract yourself. Watch TV or take a walk or somethin. I know it's hard! But try this and let me know how it goes!
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