me and my ex of almost 2 years broke up about 2 months ago.. we talk once n awhile.. & i REALLY miss him.. about 2 weeks ago i told him that i really miss him and what not and he said he just doesnt think it can work. we dont really talk much, but i miss him SOOOO much. i think i love him.. how do i win him back. what should i do to show him how much i care instead of soundding so annoying & needy? please help..
person43 answered Wednesday July 30 2008, 6:26 am: Yes, you do have to realize that if he does not want you, give it space. Women are always more desirable when it seems like they cannot be had. If there is a chance that he would want to be with you again, he would most likely realize it if you gave him distance. You can use this time away from eachother to grow personally, get to know yourself well and build up confidence. Do things for YOU and think a lot about who you are and who you want to be. When this is all said and done you will probably find out whether you two are meant to be together or if it is time to move on. Just know too that there are many fish in the sea [ person43's advice column | Ask person43 A Question ]
justnextinlinex3 answered Wednesday July 30 2008, 3:29 am: Hun, if he doesn't want you.. he doesn't want you. I know it's painful when you truely like him, but he's obviously not the one for you. Let him go, girl. Or else, you'll be dragging onto this guy for awhile and missing all the good catches you could have.
Take a break from him, prove to him and yourself that you're better off and stop all the contact for awhile, then after a good amounth of time, and i'm talking weeks time, give him a call/text just saying hey. Talk back into yourselves, and see where it leads. Maybe he just needs his space. But you gotta do some letting go before life leads you anywhere. [ justnextinlinex3's advice column | Ask justnextinlinex3 A Question ]
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