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After break that lasted like a year, I'm back.


Um yeah, anyways.
My name is Amanda.
I am 16.
I will try to answer your questions to the best of my ability, but be warned, I am brutally honest.
So I might come off as being mean, but sometimes the truth hurts.
I'm not saying that to be mean, because I'm really a nice person.

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I probably will not respond if you type LyKe DiS or IN ALL CAPS or if y00 cnt spl if yur lyfe dpended on it.

Have a nice day! :D

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I am totally in love with my boyfriend. I want to be with him all the time, and usually we hang out on a daily basis. The thing is, I also want to hang out with my three really close friends. I think they are starting to get mad at me because I'm starting to hang out with him more than them. I want to be with them all, and it's awkward when all of us hang out together.. What should I do..? PS- please don't tell me to "balance it out" or anything, I've tried it, and everyone just gets mad!

Hmm..this is one sticky situation..Perhaps you can plan stuff like going to see a movie or something with your 3 close friends on the weekend and then spend the week with your boyfriend. Or maybe you can just take some time off of your boyfriend. Sure he may get mad but he has to understand that you have other friends than him. If he doesn't like it, get rid of him! I mean I'm sure he has a social life outside of spending time with you. Why can't you do the same??

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i got a boyfriend and i think my best friend likes him cuz she gets mad when i talk about him. Should i talk to her about it or just let it go. Cuz my boyfriend hates her and she thinks that him and every boy likes her. Should i talk to her or what should i do?¿

You need to talk to her and not make assumptions before you know the facts. Like my mom always says, "Don't ASSUME..it makes an ASS out of U and ME" ha see how ass u and me makes assume. Yeah just because she gets mad when you talk about him, doesn't nessisarily mean that she likes him. Maybe she sees something in him that she doesn't like that you don't see.

I hope this helped =D

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hi, one of the friends i hang round with is really moody. my other friend lashed out at her because she was like moody all the time. what can i do to stop her being moody all the time?!

I really don't think you can stop her from being moody..It's just something that happens.

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my mom is really overprotective. she doesnt like to let me go hang out with my friends. i guess she doesnt trust me, but i just dont know why. she seems to thimk that i will get kidnapped or something. but whenever i go out its always with a lot of people, but she still doesnt trust me. none of my friends parents are like that. how can i earn her respect and trust? oh yah im 13 and a girl

My really good friend was in a situation like this. She is an only child so her parents worry about her very much. After she turned 13 her parents still were overprotective, like your mom. What you need to do is sit down with your mom and say "Mom, I'm 13 now and I am mature and responsible enough to take care of myself without your supervision. And since I've become more mature and responsible, I think I deserve more rights as a teenager"

I hope this helped =D

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whaT DO you do if u hear your parents ummm..... doing it. they're like 48 and i think its wrong. They were both making sounds and i don't want to confront either one. please help me i dont no y but it bothers me.




ill rate high for good answers

Wow that is really gross lol..Umm if you don't want to directly confront them, when they are "doing it" ha that makes me laugh..sorry but yeah just yell SHUT UP and maybe they will get a clue lol

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is soda pop REALLY that bad for you? I'm on a diet and I get sick of water.. I like diet pop! My boyfriend says he will never drink it because its so bad... true? false?

Well if you are on a diet, even diet soda isn't good. Water, 100% fruit juice, milk, and other nutricios drinks like that are best when you are on a diet.

I hope this helped =D

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I have acne on my back and i was wondering is there any kind of product i can use to get rid of it? Thanks

Proactive should work =D But just to be safe, I would go see a dermatologist if I were you.

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i met this guy dj we went out for about 7months..we broke up 3times..i didnt do anything serious with him (but thats besides the point)when we went out i was really happy when i was with him..but the second time we broke up he went out with this girl Moriah...me and dj stoped talking when they went out because she would get mad and i didnt want to mess up there relationship..cause i guess im a nice person like that lol..but when they broke up we started to talk again..me and dj ended up hooking back up...but i always had this feeling that he still wanted to be with Moriah...dj and i went out for about a month...and in that month of time i met this guy brian..and i started to like him..i cheated on dj with him..i told dj about it and we broke up..and i hooked up with biran...dj hoked back up with moriah..so me and dj didnt really talk...me and brian been together for almost 9months now..and just a few days ago dj and i started talking again..and i think i like dj again i mean all my feeling for him are coming back to me..i still like brian..i think i have mixed feelings...what do i do??...
sorry if this is hard to understand..i tried to explain it the best i can..
---im a 15 female--

You just have to figure out who you have more feelings for. Personally, I would forget about DJ..I mean he's broken up with you 3 times already, what makes you think he won't do it again? Especially after going out with Brian for 9 months..why ruin a relationship like that for another guy who seems to be a playa?

I hope this helped =)

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what age/grade will your friends start to act more mature, and start being more than just someone to laugh with. you know, when will it be easier to find that one true friend, cause i'm pretty young, and i dont think anyone is that mature enough that they are the kind of friend that will give you a shoulder to lean on when your sad, or you can call anytime just 2 talk, you know that kind of stuff. does anyone know what age>

Well you start getting mature around 12 or 13(thats me though) But you can have that one true friend at whatever time in your life!

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Ok i just met this guy a little bit ago and i have just startd to have feelings for him but there are some problems he is 19 and i'm 15 and he doesnt know i like him but i want to tell him...and but i dont think he will be interestd cuz of the age what should i do??

Just be honest! If it doesn't work out then just move on! =)

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today my brother held my arm so tight i have a bruise, yesterday he hit me over the head with a phone, and the day before he repeaditly hit me with a key board. other times he punches and hits me, i tell my parents and they never do anything. yet when i do something to him i get in trouble immediatly. it isnt fair and it hurts me that he practically abuses me and that my parents dont care. what should i do?

Make your parents care!!! You have to show them proof of what your brother is doing! If that still doesn't work, go to a councelor and see what they can do. The police will probably be a last resort.

I hope this helped =)

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What are good hairstyles for people with bigger heads/foreheads?

Brush your hair and put your bangs down.

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a few days ago, my friend slept over at my house. she's worried about me because she thinks im starving myself!! i dont eat breakfast ; ususally have a pop tart or a bagel for lunch ; and mostly crackers for dinner. i dont think im starving myself.. but she does and my other friends are seeing it too. what do u think? im scared.. i dont want to be starved. please help .. ill rate high for good answers!!

The fact that you are eating makes it so you're not starving yourself. But in my opinion you are not eating enough. Especially the fact that you skip breakfast. You should eat a good breakfast because it gives you the energy for the day.(jeez I'm sounding like my mother lol) And you should have better lunches and dinners so you will have enough energy to do things.

I hope this helped =)

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I ounce went out with this girl, but then she dumped me. I still like this girl but i dont know if she even likes me the littlist, i cant figure out if i should ask her out or just get over her.

If she doesn't like you, just get over her. If she liked you, you would still be going out with her.

I hope this helped =)

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my cell phone was droped in the water and now i press a button and somethin else pops u like if i press menu it starts to dial a number if i press 3 it shows up the menu is amy where i can take it to fix it or should i jsut get a new 1 its a virgen moblie slider

Go to the place where you got the cell phone and get it replaced.

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OK I'm probably overreacting, but I've got my grade 7 piano exam tomorrow and I'm sooooo nervous! I don't know why, I mean I've done 6 before and I've done OK, but I really don't feel ready for this one! Can anyone suggest anything to calm me down before the exam, or anything that will make sure my fingers don't shake during the exam?? I need answers fast because it's TOMORROW!! ARGH!

Relax! Go to a quiet place and talk positivly to yourself. Say things like "I will do great on the piano exam" "I'm going to pass!" That will take your mind off messing up. After relaxing a little bit, practice. Especially if you don't feel ready. Get down whatever you need to know for the exam.

I hope this helped and good luck!

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i babysit 2 kids once a week for an hour (girlsages almost 5 and almost 3) They are lots of fun but we always play the same game (dogs) Im starting to get really bored with it but i dont no what else to play. i dont what to go buy craft stuff or anything i just want some new idea or something. They have low attention spans for the most part and they arent on the same skill/play level so it sometimes makes it hard. what do i do

Try reading them a book or something. Or get some crayons and a coloring book and let them color. That should pass some time. If you need any more babysitting tips, go to a local library. Usually libraries have tons of books\videos with very informational tips for babysitting.

I hope this helped.

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My dog has a hernia, will it go away itself or does it need surgery, can i do anything to get rid of it

Usually a hernia requires a surgery to fix it. And about the food having to do with it, you may want to ask the vet to be sure. Good luck to your dog.

I hope this helped.

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I told my best friend something that i didnt want anyone to find out, and she tells someone i dont think i can trust her ever again should i?

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If she is your best friend, then you should trust her enough to tell her secrets and trust her not to tell anyone. If she does tell people, then shes not really your best friend. Always make sure you totally trust someone before you tell them something personal.

I hope this helped XD

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I'm really worried about my girl friend her grandpa is in the hospital. Well she's sad and streesed out. I'm sad for her, but I don't know what to do for her. So my question is... What should I do for her? Or should I do anything at all?

Just be there for her when she needs you. Be her shoulder to cry on because I'm sure she will need one. Comfort her when she is stressed out. Insist to her that everything will be okay.

I hope this helped XD

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