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mixed feelings maybe?
i met this guy dj we went out for about 7months..we broke up 3times..i didnt do anything serious with him (but thats besides the point)when we went out i was really happy when i was with him..but the second time we broke up he went out with this girl Moriah...me and dj stoped talking when they went out because she would get mad and i didnt want to mess up there relationship..cause i guess im a nice person like that lol..but when they broke up we started to talk again..me and dj ended up hooking back up...but i always had this feeling that he still wanted to be with Moriah...dj and i went out for about a month...and in that month of time i met this guy brian..and i started to like him..i cheated on dj with him..i told dj about it and we broke up..and i hooked up with biran...dj hoked back up with moriah..so me and dj didnt really talk...me and brian been together for almost 9months now..and just a few days ago dj and i started talking again..and i think i like dj again i mean all my feeling for him are coming back to me..i still like brian..i think i have mixed feelings...what do i do??...
sorry if this is hard to understand..i tried to explain it the best i can..
---im a 15 female--
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You just have to figure out who you have more feelings for. Personally, I would forget about DJ..I mean he's broken up with you 3 times already, what makes you think he won't do it again? Especially after going out with Brian for 9 months..why ruin a relationship like that for another guy who seems to be a playa?
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say lil mama na fuck it guh stay with b...cause you makin it l0ok 2 him that ya can brake up any time n shit n do watcha do then get backwith each other.....so0 then he just gone b fuckin around n shit doing what he does so0 stay with b...na is c0ol guh u still young naw sayin??u aint gota go thew diz ok you no what fuck it fuckin b a playa just b happy n b with both of them niggaz....if you neva played some one...hey hey...hea is the time:):):). so0 yea,...lol
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Okay, if my answer doesn't make sence, just tell me in my inbox and I will reword it. Okay, here it goes.
Okay, so first you need to figure out which one has made you feel most comfortable, and happy. Now if you pick the other one you will have to deal with that, because I'm pritty sure that you and DJ are gettin tired of the switchin back and forth.
Second you have to do the aproach of the boy.(Tellin the boy what you chose.) Now, you don't want to hurt his feelins so, Walk up with a smile and say that you have been thinkin about it and you just want to be friends from now on.
Last but not least, you need to be happy. You can't always pick the right one, you just have to learn that it might happen. The thing you can do to have a better relasionship is:1. Always tell him how you feel, the only way you can have happyness is if you are truthful with each other.(No Secrets!!!)2. Never give up! Just because things might look hard and frusteratin, don't get down. Comunicate with your "partner", (If you want to be so formal as that!LOL!)you don't want any misunderstandins. 4.Try to keep your boyfriend happy. The number one rule of a relasionship is that if your boy/girlfrind is not happy, you're not happy.
I know that this was a long one, and I'm sorry for that, I just wanted to help. If it was too long, please tell me. I hope that I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. Don't forget to rate.
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hehe. hun you're only 15. you have your whole life time to be with boys. right now, i think you should take some time out and be with yourself. but if not, your gonna have to choose which boy you like more. which boy treats you better? you say you've been with dj 3 different times? well who's to say you two won't break up 10 more times? i hope i helped but you need to make your own decision
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