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Hes 19
Ok i just met this guy a little bit ago and i have just startd to have feelings for him but there are some problems he is 19 and i'm 15 and he doesnt know i like him but i want to tell him...and but i dont think he will be interestd cuz of the age what should i do??
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sry to say but id try to forget him cus thts a big age gap especially at your age. i mean tht can be considered sexual abuse cus hes older than 18 and your younger than 18 if you would for some odd reason report something. so try to date around your age group, hopefully 17 and younger. sry..i know its hard to stop liking a guy. and to tell him? yeah sure..but idk about an actual relationship, more like a crush or something. hope it all works out!
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Well what I would do is I would just ask him to hang out with you ; and if you're too nervous about that, maybe invite a few friends to lighten the mood =) Because there really is no age limit to love, but the limit between you two seems fine.. 4 years. I like someone right now who is 17..which is 3 years. But I really wouldn't suggest dating him just yet because it's illegal for an adult to date a minor ; but people do it all the time and it's your life. But next time you guys hang out just see if he flirts with you and if he holds your hands and stuff..just keep sending him signals that you liek him and see how he reacts to them.. and later in the evening just be like,"Hey.. I have something to tell you, but please don't let it affect our relationship if you don't feel the same.. I like you alot..I mean I know we have an age difference, but alot of people date eachother with age differences.." ( not exactly that but maybe something like it )..hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii
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I think you should tell him.. age rele shouldnt matter unless its like a huge amount and in your case its not.. i have a friend who just graduated high school and is engaged but she is engaged to someone about 6 years older than her..6 years difference not rele my thing but they are a great couple and i think you should let the guy kno how you feel and if the age thing bothers him then you can still be friends
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Well, I would let him know that you like him but I wouldnt sugguest dating them because technically it is "against the law" since he is considered an adult and you are still a minor. But do what you want, its your life! Just ask him if he wants to hang out, or if you're too nervous ask him if he wants to hang out with a group of friends.
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Just be honest! If it doesn't work out then just move on! =)
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Well I have the SAME problem Iam 12 and the boy that i really like is 16.......just be yourself...sometimes age can matter, and sometimes it dont in your case it doesnt alot of teens your age fall for older guys only because thry are more mature then guys your age!! So dont give up he still might like you no matte your age!!
**Dont give up**
ly Bryanna
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I don't know what state you live in, but I'm pretty sure 15 isn't the consensual age anywhere. A lot of people don't care about this, but it can lead to a lot of serious trouble, especially for him. Your mom might find out and charge him. Older guys always seem more attractive because they tend to be more mature than guys your own age.. but they're also more experienced. He might expect more than you're willing to do, just because he's used to getting it.
I think the age difference is the only thing that could hold him back from starting anything with you. Wait until you turn 16 and then it's legal (in most states, I think. Well.. it is here in Australia) because I doubt he'd start anything with you now (and if he did, I'd be concerned about what his motives were)
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well lil mama see wus up with o boi naw sayin? if dat cat feels that same then shit tell that nigga how u feel then yo age aint none but a fuckin numna shit im 17 n im with a 11 year old.....na j/p...lmao...fuck that but yea....just like wateva nwa sayin???try it
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it might scare him because it is ilegal & he could get in a lot of trouble for that! i know it's hard but i would keep your feelings to yourself for a few years or until you are POSITIVE that he likes you too.
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