my boyfriend and i currently broke up we were going out for about 3/4 months we broke up and he said he didn't want a gf. A few weeks l8er i guess he changed his mind he said he really liked this other gurl and that he didn't think that me and him would go out 4 a while. What can i do 2 get back at him? i already have a boyfriend but is there anything i can do? Like 2 get him 2 like me again? P.S. hes never online and he wont answer my e-mails! plez help
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MELiixMARiiE answered Saturday July 9 2005, 6:28 pm: Well the first thing I would do is it seems if you want to make your ex-boyfriend like you again, and you currently have a boyfriend.. I'd dump your boyfriend because that wouldn't be fair to him if you're dating him adn trying to get another guy to like you again. But maybe I would just stay with your boyfriend because it seems to me like he might not want to talk to you if he's not answering your emails.. =/..and not trying to sound mean here.. but maybe he blocked you? I don't think he did, but I'm just looking at all the options.. but anyways, if you seriously like the guy then I'd dump the boyfriend and go for him, cause who knows? Maybe he only TOLD you he really likes another girl to make you jealous..=) Hope I helped!!
samanthaxdanielle answered Saturday July 9 2005, 4:29 pm: Samantha says ; well.. if you have a boyfriend right now, break up with him. because it seems like you're more interested in your ex and that isnt fair to your current bf. So yeah do that and then to really just get back at him, you have to play dirty = maybe just go for his best friend and do stuff with him, and make sure your ex finds out! Thats pretty much all you can do.
Danielle says ; I dont think you should be really trying to get back at your ex and you have a bf and its not fair because you should be focusing on your new bf and if he finds out hes probably gonna think u just go out with him to make your ex jealous. Thats not right so i think you should stop trying to get him cause its not worth it if you are happy with your new bf.
sEkzIeStLoOzAoX answered Saturday July 9 2005, 4:04 pm: hunn, i know exactly what your going through my friend went through the same thing. i know it feels like you should get your revenge of satisfaction. but like the old saying revenge proves and solves nothing. if you have a boyfriend now and want reveng on your ex, he might think you want to get back with him? I don't think you do. but its guys! they're weird changing there minds all the time. just give it time. and hope he screws up him self =).
good luck<3 nicole [ sEkzIeStLoOzAoX's advice column | Ask sEkzIeStLoOzAoX A Question ]
Candyxoxnicholle answered Saturday July 9 2005, 12:18 pm: From my opinion if youre ex doesnt like you i wouldnt waste my time trying to make him jealous. The thing that always gets to guys is when you act like you dont care!..BUT if you do want to get back at him..Let him see you and youre new boyfriend together n act as if youre happy as ever! .. it always works ;-) [ Candyxoxnicholle's advice column | Ask Candyxoxnicholle A Question ]
fairfax answered Saturday July 9 2005, 10:10 am: This sounds crazy but the most effective way to make someone want you is to pretend they don't exist. Do not email him, ring him, SMS him, MSN him or try to be in the same place as him so that you can chat. If you happen to be somewhere that he is, talk to and flirt with OTHER boys (but subtly, DO NOT BE OBVIOUS) and you might notice that suddenly he starts paying you a lot of attention. The thing you have to remember is, boys like to do the chase themselves. If a girl is really obvious and clingy, they get bored and find someone else. You might not believe this, but try it. You'll be amazed how quickly he comes running when he thinks you don't want him any more. Good luck! :) [ fairfax's advice column | Ask fairfax A Question ]
XxonlyindreamsxX answered Saturday July 9 2005, 4:07 am: how can you currently break up? it's recently fucktard. and stop being a bitch by trying 2 get back at a guy who was smart enough to dump you in the first place. just let him be happy and go get a life. if he doesn't answer ur emails or anything... HINT HINT! he doesnt wanna talk to u! omg!! i know!! [ XxonlyindreamsxX's advice column | Ask XxonlyindreamsxX A Question ]
deathwillcome answered Saturday July 9 2005, 3:55 am: Don't do it! He dumped you claimin that he didn't want a relasionship and then chasnged his mind a little too fast if you ask me. It almost sounds like he broke up so that he could go out with someone else. Don't totaly go on what I say, mostly because I'm not him, so don't obvously know why he did what he did. What I would do is if you know where he lives, aproach him and ask him why he changed his mind soo fast. If he says that he didn't want to hurt your feelins, give him a break, that is hard for boys. they can't really break it off without hurtin us, that is a proven fact. I hope I helped you get through this, and remember, my inbox is always open. Don' forget to rate. [ deathwillcome's advice column | Ask deathwillcome A Question ]
sWat_SoUlJa_281 answered Saturday July 9 2005, 3:53 am: mane fuck that nigga o cake ass nigga he lieing n shit...dat nigga might of met her when ya was going out then told yo ass he aint want no female but just said that so0 ypu wouldent no he was dumpin yo ass 4that guh n shit.....mane fuck him dont get him back is just lil kid games n shit shit just b happy you with the nigga ypu with.... [ sWat_SoUlJa_281's advice column | Ask sWat_SoUlJa_281 A Question ]
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