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Hey Guys! It has been FOREVER! :(

But I'm back! (as of October 08) If you don't know or remember me my name is Ashley :) Currently 16 years old and a junior in highschool. I don't complain much and you'll always see a smile on my face.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't be shy with asking to my inbox. I'll do my best to answer any question with any subject :)

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http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutme.php?userboard_id=27150

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I can never find jeans that are right for me. I have large hips, but I'm short and I have small tighs and a small butt. My jeans are always too big or too small. Does anyone know a store where I can find jeans that would fit someone like me? Websites would be nice.

Hollister has really good jeans that will fit your body shape well. If you go during sales you can get some pretty cheap, less then $50.00 or around there. Good luck!
Ashley♥

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I'm 13 and I way 113 pounds. I am not bib but I am not super skinny. I am very muscular. I run atleast a mile atleast 3 times a week and i do sit ups and other excercises every night but I can't seem to lose weight. Is this a bad weight? and does anyone know any good ways to lose weight 5-10 pounds?
thanx i rate

Oh my gosh, dont even worry about it. 113 is like nothing if your only 13. Im 14 and thats around my wieght and I know Im not fat at all. Even though your not overweight, still excercise every night so you can stay healthy. Hope I helped!
Ashley♥

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where is the best place to get a cheap phone that is nice...thanx

First of all, for the person below me..ebay? Yea you could go there if you want to get a cheap, used phone and pay for shipping and crap. Or take my advice and go to the nearest company store (Verizon, Cingular, etc.) near you and ask a person who works there to help you find a nice phone that is not much money. They could tell you the qualities and such, and it will be a nice phone. Good luck!
Ashley♥

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hey i was just nairing my arms and i think i got a burn on them..is that even possible.

p,s= i only had it on my arms for like 4 minutes

You most likely had an allergic reaction, the same thing happened to my friend so she couldnt even use Nair anymore. Im no docter but it could of also just been because it was on your arm to long and your skin was sensitive to it. Try putting only a samply on again and see the right amount of time etc.
Ashley♥

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heyy.. well im really worried about my friend..hes like one of my bests friends, and he cut his wrist. when he told me i thought he was lying, but then he showed me, and he really did cut himself, i dont get it were only 12 i dont understand why he would want to do that..he told me not to tell anyone..even my best friends who i tell everything to, so i didnt. what can i do to help him ? i know he has really bad problems at home, do you think thats why ? he told me he stopped, but he has lied to me before so idk if i can believe him. i really have no clue what to do, and i definatly dont want to tell anyone, i just want to help keeping it between us. thanks ! ♥
p.s. he tells me he hates his life almost every day..

You should tell him that their are better problems to deal with his problems at home and hating life other than cutting his wrists. He could go to a school counsler, therapist, or any teacher, or adult at school and etc. He needs to get help so he doesnt seriously injure himself. Im not sure what else to tell you if your not willing to tell anyone but I am going to say that telling and adult IS the best thing to do. Believe me, if you guys are twelve then your not going to be sure how to handle the situation. Good luck and I hope this helps.
Ashley♥

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Ok if you really like someone, but they're going out with someone else but you know they like you, would it be stupid to wait for them? I really need to know what you think about this! Thank you so much!

XoXoJamie

Depends how long you plan to wait for this person. If you really love him and he loves you back then you should wait but dont wait and wait forever and let him use you, knowing you will. Good luck!
Ashley♥

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PLease help me fast. Today is my mommy's brithday and we don't know where to take her for dinner please could someone give me suggestion
I rate 5's
Love me

+Macironi Grill
+Apple Bees
+TGIF aka Fridays
+Mimis Cafe
+Woodranch BBQ
+Pauls Italian Villa

Take her to a nice place but not super expensive or whatever her favorite restaurant.

Ashley♥

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what type of cd do you need to copy your powerpoint presentation on ?

The same type of cd you would burn music onto, just a blank one.
Ashley♥

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ok i am going out with this boy we have been going out for about a year. and we have been talking about sex latly and i was just wondering do you think 15 is to young to have sex? and is it a good idea?

i really want to...

Honestly, no one can tell you if its the right time for you because no one knows but you. If you feel your old enough, and that this guy is important enough to give your virginity to then make sure to be safe because being pregnant at 15 would not be good. Good luck!
Ashley♥

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On myspace this guys I dont really know asked me to be his valentines. And i said yes. But i thought it was sort of just a flirt type of thing. But when I said yes he seemed surpised.
I know this is stupid but..what does being eachothers valentines mean? It doesnt mean going out does it? =[ uh oh. lol

It really depends on who your talking to. To him it could mean your going out, but to you obviously not. You just need to talk to him but in a nice way because he obviously likes you and you dont want to hurt his feelings. Good luck!
Ashley♥

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okay well i am 11/ girl- and my teacher had something sticking out of his pants. someone asked him why and he said it was called an erection. i still dont know what it means and im very confused. PLEASE HELP!!!

That is very wrong if your 11! That means he felt an attraction to whomever he was looking at and he felt sexual desire which makes his penis hard and stick straight up and that is what was sticking out of his pants. It is also digusting that he would tell the kid who asked him what it was. You need to tell a counsler or someone at your school because a grown man should not be getting erections from looking at little kids.
Ashley♥

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How can you tell if a guy really loves you or is just interested in sex? I rate high!

If they keep talking to you about sexual things, or make a move on you every ten minutes then they are looking for sex.

If he stares into your eyes, tells you your beautiful, and acts like he really does love you then he probably does.

Ashley♥

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ok i have pretty big feet;
they are not out of the ordinary but they are kinda big.
size 11 in womens.
i am 13 years old. and in 8th grade.
everyone and i mean everyone
makes fun of my feet;
i also have bunions;
and everyone makes fun.
even people that are not even in my friendship 'circle' is like wtf?!?!
i always wear UGGS to hide them and stuff
what should i do
i mean the joking is ok, too my face.
but ppl are doing behind my back
and it hurts.
help.
:(

Dont worry, your feet grow before anything else on your body and you will grow into them. For now, just go up to whoever is talking about you behind your back and say something like 'I might have bigger feet then most people but atleast Im not f*cked up enough to talk sh*t about people behind their back's. I will grow into mine but you will probably never change.' Or you could be nicer but honestly that usually doesnt work. You just have to stand up for yourself. If your confident and dont care what people think then they will stop with the joking.
Ashley♥

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The other night in bed with my bf, I fell asleep and had a dream in which I kissed one of my flatmates, and enjoyed it a lot - this guy is like a brother to me, and although he is attractive and 'my type' (I guess that's why we are friends), I have never considered him as anything more than a friend, and have never (and still don't) wished we could be anything more. As I said, he is like a brother. When I woke up I felt SO guilty.
What could this dream mean, and should I feel bad about it?

Think about it, you just had a dream about cheating and your feeling REALLY guilty. What does that tell you? Your very faithful and obviously would never cheat on him. As long as you dont want more from your other friend then you shouldnt feel guilty at all.
Ashley♥

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I got into a fight with a girl in my neighbor hood. Now i don't like to fight but when it comes down to if i have to fight im going to do my best. So when i did fight the girl i beat her up, but i don't like to brag. i'm not that kind of person. So in school i hang out with my cousin and 2 of my friends. One day i was getting out of school and i heard someone yell " you got f***ed up. When i looked i saw a boy who is friends with the girl i fought, so i figured he said it but i didn't jump to conclusions. I just kept walking. Then in school my friend came and told me that the boy is going around school telling people that i got beat up. But again i ignored it. So then the other day i checked my email and the boy sent me an email saying you got f***ed up and then he was laughing. What shoud I do about him??? I told my mother and she said we should make a police report but then i keep thinking about wat the boy would do.

This happened to me friend before, just go up to the girl at school in front of everyone and talk really loud so everyone will watch and then scare her. Tell her if her and her friend tell one more person that she won the fight then you'll kick her ass again in front of everyone. You might want to make it a little meaner then that though to actually scare her.
Ashley♥

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Oh you are very pretty. =) I added you as one of my favorites. ♥ Alma

But anyways my question is if I excersice and try that special K diet do you think I`ll lose weight? I'm not sure if that special K stuff really works.

Aww thanks. Id add you too but I dont know your name for your profile, lol.

Okay for the question, the K diet? I dont even know what that is. Can you tell me what it is and Ill tell you if it will most likely work or not. Sorry I couldnt answer =[

Ashley♥

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So, a bit of a random question here, but why do guys have nipples? :) lol, just something I've always wondered. Thanks!

Ive learned this before, its because when your an embryo, your not a girl or boy yet. So the body part (nipples) start to grow and then you either turn into a boy or girl and for boys, their chest gets the gene to not grow.
Ashley♥

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What do i get my boyfriend of 3 and a half months for valentines day? i can't get him chocolates or a teddy bear. help me!!!!
i can't really spend anything. Would a card be enough since it's usually the guy who buys the gift?

Make a sort of big card and put memories in it like photos, movie tickets, etc. Sort of like a scrap book. You dont have to spend any money unless you dont have some stuff like glue, siccors, or decorating items for the card such as glitter ribbons etc. Make sure to spend a lot of time and care on it so it shows and he knows that you love him enough to do that for him. Good luck!
Ashley♥

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what are some web sites i can go to for puberty...i know puberty101.com but what are some others?

http://www.teenpuberty.com

Ashley♥

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hey, what colors and like shades and stuff of eye shadow and liner do you think would look good with kind of blue/gray eyes..i just want one idea of something that would look really pretty because there is a school dance coming up !! ♥thanks !

Here is a website that will help you. Go to the bottom and pick your eye color, shade of skin you have, and hair color and it will give you the perfect colors for your eyeshadow.

http://ww4.lhj.com/lhj/story.jhtml?storyid=/templatedata/lhj/story/data/LHJeyeshadowclinic_05212001.xml

Ashley♥

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