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i have flour tortilla's , penut butter, juice, and regular butter please give me ideas im starving and im low on food! (link)
Easy: peanut butter tortillias! With juice on the side!


I have a best friend... he is so close to me. I go to his house A LOT and juss hang out. we joke around a lot. but im startin to get feelings for him. he is so hularous and very cute. i dont know what to do. i DONT want to like him but i do. and im afraid to tell him. if you could help me that would be great. im really confused. but i think i love him.???its crazy! hELLPPPPP!! thanks ♥ (link)
I'm in a similar situation, I'd just start a conversation (in IMs or emails, if you're shy) and then after a while, ask him if he likes you. If he does, yay ♥ if not, he'll probably go on about how he likes you so much as a friend, you're one of the coolest girls he's ever met, you're really cool, he want to stay friends with you, etc. Then, after he knows you like him, he'll realize in due time that he likes you as well!
Good luck, hope it works =D


for summer reading i have to write a 5 paragraph essay and in the first paragraph i have to include a thesis statement on the main topic..lol obviously(sp?) but i forget how to do a thesis statement so can someone please help me on what i have to include? thanks soo much! i rate high!

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*groan* What do the words "summer vacation" mean to you? In my opinion, it's code for "no school". But, since you asked, it's good to start out with a question. For example, if you're writing a Persuasive about why convertibles are better than SUVs, then you may start out with "Would you rather have the wind in your face, going 60 miles an hour down the highway in a nice shiny car, or just driving a big, clunky, ugly truck?". Also, "Have you ever thought about..." is a good start.


OK so... me and this guy went out and then he dumped me..then i asked him "why?" and he said "if i tell you it might break our friendship"(we are really good friends. I told he it would not but he says it would and if he did tell me it would just prove how big of a jerk he is..he said to ask he friends..i did but they all give me diffrent answers and i really wanna know why to see if we can fix it because it seems he kind of likes me still.but he life is confusing and depreseeing and i don't want to make it wore...so what should i do???please help thats sorry its SOOOO lone. (link)
=( Dumping hurts... If your heart is still in the relationship, then try to hang out a lot, and sort of hint that you still like him, or try to coax why he dumped you out.
Hope I helped!


I love my boyfriend sooo much! my boyfriend went to juvi last week and i absolutely HATE him! i hate him for leaving me like this! i feel so alone and lonely and i need him more then anything and hes not here! i miss him soo much and i wont b able to see him for another 3 weeks! i hate him soo much for doing this to me i just wanna slap him! (link)
Well, if he went to Juvi, then he probably wasn't the right guy. But if your heart's really in the relation ship, you could go and visit him, send him stuff, etc.


I was downloading a musci video thing fro, limewire and i was just about to watch it when these windows popped up saying like STOLEN. And all this stuff and it was really weird like i Stole it or something. Am I gonna be in trouble or something?? Cuz im kina scared. lol. Please help! xoxo (link)
Tisk, tisk. Limewire is the second-most illegal downloading site on the web, next to Kazaa. It basically takes every program, every file, every single little thing stored on your hard drive and shares them throughout the world! iTunes is legal because it's $1.00 per song, not free, and it's not a sharing program. Limewire, though, just takes everything without a cost. For example, you could buy K.O.T.O.R. II for $30, and then download Limewire, then people around the world are getting K.O.T.O.R. at no price to them! Delete it ASAP, because if you're 18 or older, you could be in serious trouble.


ok i got some freckals but not alot i meen not to notice able but i want a fast and easy way to get rid of them, any ideas wright back AsAp (link)
Sorry, dude, but freckles ain't a disease. If you're a girl, I suggest going into your makeup closet and pulling out a whole bunch of crap and covering your face with it. However, freckles are good for one thing: a school excuse; "Tom couldn't come to school today; he had a disease called freckles."


Hey, i NEED help. i really like this guy. but he has a girlfriend. but he made a move on me. i dont know what to do. i think i do have feelings for him. but i dont know what to do. Should I tell him how i feel? or should i just be close friends??????

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If he made a move and you have feelings for him, then I'd tell him. As a guy who doesn't get many girls, that's the best thing a girl could give me, putting aside a nice shiny, red convertible with ten thousand dollars in it. But I think he'll love it if you tell him, and good luck with it =D


hey im gunna get an ipod mini and i heard songs are $.99 each..do they have tax? lol and can you delete songs? like if i already used all the 1,000 songs but i wanna replace some of the songs can you do that? thx! (link)
Yes, I can help you here. Most songs are $.99, but the 20 minute ones can cost more. Some songs you can't get via iTunes. There is no tax, and every week you can get one song free---but you can't choose which one, it's just a freebie, usually an old song. Yes, you can delete songs, but that's a waste of cash. You can get songs for free off of your CDs. Believe me, it'll take a few years to fill up all 1,000 songs.


sigh, why does life suck so much? Literally, i've been backstabbed and bullied on when i was a kid in grade school, first year university now... I still can't learn to trust and am so paranoid around people. Um, i'm in a situation where I hate relationships, how troublesome they are, where I feel like I want to be with some girls but the feeling of being crushed... again ...prevents that so I stay alone, and remain alone just considering people as friends and being close. Sure it's a blast but the whole thing drives me insane. I don't know, like a lot of the girls i've actually had some feeling for, before it develops I always push them away, finding how who they like or encouraging them when they think they've found someone (if they're a good person) :/ ... though I laugh, smile, and joke about these things, I really don't want them to go and it always drives me insane. This is killing me so much and not to mention my friendship with a few people is failing horribly. Again I feel betrayed and destroyed, I just got backstabbed again which just KILLS. Yeah well what to do, how can I learn to trust again? This feeling is so heavy on my heart it makes me suffocate and kills me to the point I find myself shaking my head and going crazy. (link)
Man, I know how ya feel... I had a crush say she didnt like me... I have a friend who half the time hates me and calls me a retard, half the time calls me his best friend... I have a friend who strangles me on a daily basis... so I can relate.

Why does life suck? Because if it didn't suck then it would only be good. If it's only good, good is normal, because it would have to have an opposite, which wouldn't exist, so therefore, life has to suck!


ok sorry if this is long but its complicated.
So i like this boy in my class and i have since 4th grade. were in 8th grade now. now during the grades up we have fought kind alot and had to go down to the office once ( clals me flat) but others times liek in 4th grade he gave me this valentine thta siad i lvoe you and and kept insiting we were oging out but i was so young i just didn no. So now yesterday i had a pool party
and we totally connected, he wa sso sweet and he kept insinting i was his partner in chicken ! So i went home, went online and he has a girlfriend! I have one more year left and i think aobut him every day and i just wnat him to liek me too!!


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=( This sounds like a tough situation in your case... if he says he loves you that much, but has another girlfriend, he's lying to one of you. Ask him to tell the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.
It seems like he's the one insisting that you're in love all the time. Maybe you should try telling him that you like him, then maybe he'll forget about that other girl!
Hope I helped, and good luck!


Okay my question might be kinda long but there is this guy in my grade and i really like him and we're like best friends.. he tells me that somedays he likes me and other days he doesnt and then one night he kissed me and he told me how much he liked me and now i just cant stop thinking about him and i just really like him but its summer and i dont think he feels the same way as i do anymore but i dont want to ask him like straight up if he still likes me or not but when my friend asked him if he still liked me he said he didnt know. I know that he's interested in other girls right now but it seems like when ever he's around me he really likes me a lot and only me.. I'm really confused and i need advice.. please help! (link)
Au contraire! During the summer, he's not seeing you as much, and he realizes what life is like without you! During the summer, he notices that he needs you, and that without you, there's an emptiness in his life! Don't worry, he definitely loves you more than anyone from camp.


hi my name is jess i met this kid at camp named matt i think i like him and i want to know if he likes me back how is this possible to find out if he likes me back
Thanks jess
ps. please dont delete this it is urgent
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I was in a similar situation, literally two days ago. From waht I learned, there's a few things you could do:

-Hang out, and then casually bring it up in a conversation one day. If it seems non-chalant, he'll think that it's natural, and he'll probably speak the truth.
-Find a trustworthy friend. Get her to ask him if he likes you. Then, let it sit for a while. Once he knows that you have feelings for him, he'll realize that he liked you as well.
-Just ask him! I'm a shy guy, and I asked my girl if she liked me! How? Simple: e-mail. Drop him a call, or e-mail him.

Also, try being creative. But, of course, the worst that could happen is him saying no. Even if he does, you're still friends! But I can sympathize if he says no; that girl I talked about, she likes me as a friend.


This year I wasn't doing so well in school. I failed 2 classes! My mom got sooo mad at me! So she put me in Summer School. Ughhh! I got so mad at her, I failed Summer School on purpose because I was so angry I had to do it. 3 days ago my mom got my Summer School Report Card. I'm grounded for the rest of the summer. I can do stuff still, but no sleepovers. But then I told my mom Summer School was hard for me. So, now I'm not grounded. But now I feel like I'm on the spot.. and I regret what I did. What should I do?? =/



x- Lauren -x


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'Fess up. Your conscience is gonna kill ya. Sure, you'll be grounded for the rest of the year, but otherwise, it's going to seep right into the heart of your guilt and rot your mind out from the inside out!


Alright .. There is this guy and I guess you can say we both like each other. We both have hearts in our AIM profile with kissy faces next to it. We talk on the phone at night and stuff like that. Well one of my friends came up to me and said! You didnt tell me you were going out with him!.. I was just like what? cause technicly we arent going out. Well then I found out that this girl name Alex told my friend I was going out with him (also I forgot he goes to a different school) .. well alexes boyfriend is like bestfriends with him. So my friend thinks that he might have told alexes boyfriend and alexes boyfriend told alex... but im not sure.. We arent officialy going out right? do you think he told people we were? does he even want people to know!?

-please help
-I rate :) (link)
Ah, your title doesn't really fit here. In my opinion, b/f and g/f are people who love each other. Considering the IM profile thing, I'm willing to bet that you like each other, eh? Also, going out could theoretically be anything; one time I dated someone online, we just sat down in a hottub (in the online RPG, of course) and talked for an hour, I bought a pizza for her, that's all. Maybe he thinks the talking on the phone is dating? Besides, there's nothing wrong with having a b/f, it's natural. Everyone gets one eventually, except for the social wrecks, why should you be any different?


okayy well this kid i like nick has asked me out 2 now.. but i kinda keep saying maybe. i say maybe because i wanna get to know him more. we met about 4 months ago.. and we connected on a boy friend girl friend relationship right away. sometimes i wish we were just friends for a while.. and THEN we started liking eachother.. but anyway. ive gotton to know him more.. and i like him so much.. i dunno how to let him know.. do i just come out and say " nick im ready to go out with you! " or just wait around n see if he asks me again? ahh id feel stupid if i just came out n said it.. i know he still likes me.. but i dunno how to get him to ask me again because i think hes afraid im gunna regect him..any ideas or suggestions?? =( (link)
Aye, that one's tough. I think this kid's eight years old, and your name is Stacy, and we met one time online, because this sounds like a story I heard once. Anyway, down to business, just say that you like him, you can't just stay in denial forever! Say you're ready for him, unless you really are Stacy, in which case, dump him =P Just kidding, say that you're ready, no matter what.


Hey i am 13 and i live in australia. So when me and my boyfriend talk, he always looks at my lips and mouth...its kinda weird..i dont reli care about it but its just..weird...> (link)
Two possibilities: either he's deaf and is reading your lips, or he wants to kiss you.


I know its always better to be yourself ive learned that. The problem is i dont know ho wot find out who I am and what to do when being myself. (link)
Hm, I never thought of it that way! But, as I've said to three other people so far, just go with the flow of life. Don't try to be who you think you are; you'll wind up overdoing it. Just do what comes naturally.


ok im 13 years old and a girl and my sister just got me this baby-sitting job. Its for a 8 or 9 year old i dont know if its a boy or girl though she hasnt told me. But i was wondering what i could do to keep them entertained and busy for a the few hours that i'm with them. I mena i really need the money and i dont want to screw this up and end up gettin the job takin anyway. so please help me thanx everyone. (link)
Aye, eight-year-olds are easy! Just show them a few games on the internet, play a game of Checkers with them, and read them a bedtime story! They'll fall right asleep!


i babysit little kids, and i think its really fun, but the ppl i babysit for are moving. and its stinks, i have no business and i really need the money (link)
If you go to any public clubs or something like that, you could just put flyers that have rippable slips of paper with your phone number on them, that way you're sure to get tons of business!
Also tell you friends to tell their friends & family, etc.




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