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be myself?


Question Posted Monday July 18 2005, 11:03 am

I know its always better to be yourself ive learned that. The problem is i dont know ho wot find out who I am and what to do when being myself.

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Dakmor answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 7:43 am:
Hm, I never thought of it that way! But, as I've said to three other people so far, just go with the flow of life. Don't try to be who you think you are; you'll wind up overdoing it. Just do what comes naturally.

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JadedinNowhere answered Monday July 18 2005, 9:21 pm:
Ok, think. Just relax for a second and take a seat.. and think of what you really like. Don't think of what your friends like. What your parents like. What do YOU like. What are YOUR opinions. Just focus your energy on figuring it out. What do YOU like to do. It's hard sometimes to find yourself, and sometimes it takes people years, so don't feel bad. Self discovery is part of growing up, you gotta try out several things before you get it right and find yourself. :) good luck.
Good Luck. Best Wishes. I like eggs.

-Sarah-

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VixenDark answered Monday July 18 2005, 3:14 pm:
Just act however comes naturally.

Think: If no one was around, what would I do? Say? How would I act?

One thing that helped me was talking to people online. Since they don't see you (nor you them) You can act more naturally.

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xoBrowneyes answered Monday July 18 2005, 1:11 pm:
When your alone or at home you usually act like yourself without having to think about it! So just think about somethings you do when you are at home or alone and what you act like! Hope i Helped!

*!Clair!*

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x3say_anythinq answered Monday July 18 2005, 12:13 pm:
finding out who you really are can be tough for alot of people. it was for me. you just finally have to let go and not care what other people think of you, do what makes YOU happy. honestly, throughout elementary,middle, and highschool, you'll end up staying in touch with maybe 10 people if you're lucky. so why should you be unhappy to fit in with everyone else when you could be happy just being you. if your friends don't approve or stop talking to you because of it, they were never true friends in the first place. and once you stop caring what others think, it takes alot of weight off your shoulders. you make new friends, you have alot more fun. you just have to figure out what truly makes you happy. hope i helped =)

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blonde_moments answered Monday July 18 2005, 12:06 pm:
So you dont know who your real self is.
Well first.. dont always listen to your friends.. if you shopping with them then they says that would look great on you. And you dont really like it say nahh...
Or if at school.. the poppular kids have all these new clothes every one loves. you dont have to get them , because if you did every one would count u as one of them. And if someone starts a rumor about them.. which usally happens.. they would include you in it . So do what u like . You dont have to be like every one else

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Real4Christ07 answered Monday July 18 2005, 12:03 pm:
You could try a million diffent things and think you know who you are. But the only way to truly find out who you are is by finding God. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life. He will let you know which way to turn in life, give you the truth about him and the world around you and give you eternal life in Heaven. Christianity isn't a religion it's a relationship and a lifestyle. Start your relationship with Jesus today. If you wanna know how holla at me.
-God Bless
God has a plan 4 u.

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icey0990 answered Monday July 18 2005, 11:46 am:
to find l out who you really are..go with your opinions instead of going with other peoples opinions..after awhile you will know
where you like to shop, the styles you like
what you find funny and what you dont find funny
thee type of boys you like and dont like
the type of music you like
if you want to be weird..be weird! dont worry what others will think, because your just being you!

then when you hang out with friends and they might say "i really love this song.." and if you hate it..you say how you dont like it..and there you go, your being yourself! (sorry if that was a weak example lol)

i hope i helped..! :)

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BeachBum88019 answered Monday July 18 2005, 11:39 am:
I know what you mean. I thought that for a while and realized that was who I am. Just act how you wanna act. Dress how you wanna dress. Date who you wanna date. You can follow the crowd. You can stick out. Just be yourself and do what you want.

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