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ok. im looking into starting a website. just like something for stuff about me, a place for people to leave comments, and all that kinda stuff. does anyone know where i can do that for free? thanks :)

i know 2 places


xanga.com

or

myspace.com

they are awsome places

Hope i helped

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I'm 15 and my sister is 14 and she cuts herself. I just found out like 45 mins ago bc she left me a comment on my xanga saying she has a career she was looking into but she didnt know how much it paid and she wouldnt tell me what it was so I figured that maybe she searched it up on the search bar. When I checked the search bar history I found a bunch of stuff about "I cut myself" and "I cut myself and a friend wants me to stop" and such. Then, since it's late at night and she usually is in the basement at night, I tried to sneak downstairs but she caught me.
Well she started casually talking to me and asking me why I was downstairs and I looked at her arms and saw they were bloody and I almost started crying but then I mentioned how I found the articles and started asking her about it and she just smiled goofily and I looked at her arms and saw all these scars I saw before but never thought of as cutting herself just from cats. And I said "why would you do something so stupid, whos your friend" and she said "dont tell anyone, it doesnt matter, you used to cut yourself" (which I briefly cut my wrists for 3 months last fall, it was a dumb mistake and I even told her that I only did it because I thought it would make my problems go away but it never helped) and she just tried to play it off as a huge joke, and said dont tell anyone, its not a big deal. But it was! These weren't little puny cuts they werent to big but not puny! She said she doesnt tell ppl about them (xcept that friend) but thats why she wears hoodies all yr.

I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO! I want to tell my parents but I dont want her to get mad. I really want to tell my best friend but she's not online and I'm just confused. This is my baby sister and I dont want her hurting herself. I asked her why she was doing this to herself and she didnt have a clearcut response but argh.

Please help. I really need some guidance on this I'm very confused.

omg.. i hate it when people cut their selfs... its grose!.. tell your parents.. i know its ratting her out but .. you dont want her to get hurt.. and she will furgive You in the long run.. or just keep a eye on her..

something

just dont let her cut her self.. if u see her cutting her self.. yell at her.. make sure shes not doing it !

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this year i was in 9th grade and i had to go to summer school because of my grades what suggestions do u have to keep my grades up for next year so this wont happen?


The student

Well summer school sucks big time... ive been there...Well your grades cant be too bad in every class... about once a week.. at night.. study what ever class u need help with.. Or even look up the subjects on the computer

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Hi, I am 14 years old, and I am dating a 16year old male. He is everything that I look for in a man. Everything is goin great. How can I keep it that way and improve it to make it more interesting?

People usally have boyfriends like that.. Well for one .. you might want to watch him.close.. cuz if hes every thing you say.. other girls might be atracted to him. But dont watch him to close.. Plan more dates. tell him you love him. Stuff like that.

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I know its always better to be yourself ive learned that. The problem is i dont know ho wot find out who I am and what to do when being myself.

So you dont know who your real self is.
Well first.. dont always listen to your friends.. if you shopping with them then they says that would look great on you. And you dont really like it say nahh...
Or if at school.. the poppular kids have all these new clothes every one loves. you dont have to get them , because if you did every one would count u as one of them. And if someone starts a rumor about them.. which usally happens.. they would include you in it . So do what u like . You dont have to be like every one else

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