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hey i was wondering if guys prefered a girl who shaves down there when fingering instead of a girl who does not shave (link)
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Well, it actually depends on what the guy prefers. All guys are different and they prefer different things.
But, I have found that guys usually like you to be at least trimmed if not waxed or shaven. This is only because it makes it easier to find everything, and whena girl is unshaven, the hair kind of gets in the way of everything he is looking for.
Hope this helps!
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15/f okay a lil while ago(about 2.5 months)my dads friend came to my house with his son.i had never met either of them before and i was happy because the guy was hot.
we got along great and it wasnt awkward at all until his dad started asking m and him what we thought of eachother.i didnt answer and pretended i didnt hear(i was afraid he wouldnt say it bak)
we were even talking alone for a lil bit and he was being so sweet helping me study because i had exams in two days.his dad and him stayed the whole weekend and at the end when he was just about to leave he asked 4 my number when noone was around!!!i was so happy.(hes two grades ahead of me but hes not pushy and i dont see it as a problem)
anyway i told him to txt me his number as he had to go..i went up to get ready for bed and i got a txt message frm him....weve been txtin on and off since and weve sent kisses after he asked if i had a boyf.he hasnt txted me in 3 weeks but when he did he was calling me babe nd stuff so i no hes into me and im quite smart and people say im pretty but why hasnt he txted in a while?cud it be another girl?please help!
ps i dont live near him..its about 30min drive away so i havent seen him since april.wat shud i do??hes not the cheating type but were not exactly going out.has he lost intrest coz i live too far away? (link)
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It may be that he doesn't want to be in a long distance relationship, or it may be that he doesn't want to be the one to always make the first move (i.e. texting you first).
He may not be sure how you feel about him because he always has to text you first before you will talk to him.
So, to show him that you like him, text him, or even call him.
Hope this helped.
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R There any "stds" of giving head, lyk wut r tha consequences? (link)
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Well, if he has genital herpes, you could get infected. Even if it doesn't look like he has any sores on his genitals, you could still contract it.
Also, if you are prone to cold sores and you happen to have one when you are performing oral sex, you could transfer it to him.
Hope this helped.
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Hey everyone, I need some help.
I've looked up things I wasn't supposed to for a really long time - without feeling guilty because most anyone at that age is normally interested in those types of websites. & I never felt guilty about it. Maybe because I'm growing up, that's what my mom said before. But this time I looked up some erotic type quizzes & became interested in them, then read an erotic story which I don't read very often but when given the chance - It's not uncommon for me to read it. So anyway, I feel really badly about it. Either that or indigestion, lol. That same kind of thing happened before when I didn't do anything wrong that day. I ate a lot today so maybe I'm just having indigestion? If not, can someone please help me on finding a way to tell her that I actually looked up porn and erotic things?
Thanks
Any help is appreciated.
13/f (link)
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You should sit her down and explain to her what exactly you were looking at. It is not uncommon to look at things like this at your age, or any age for that matter. You don't have anything to feel guilty about.
You can tell her that your friends were talking about it and you were just curious as to what all the fuss was about.
Your mother was your age once too, and she understands that you are curious. She knows you have a libido and she knows that you can become aroused at such a young age.
The stronger the relationship between you and your mother, the easier it will be to tell her what you have been looking up. It's okay to tell her that you felt embarassed asking her or any adult the strong questions you want to ask.
I hope this helps!
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I don't understand what your supposed to do with your tongue while kissing. I know, your not supposed to ask this question on here because theres websites for that, but none of them explain it.
Like I understand you can like crcle your tongues around each other, but kissing lasts 5-6 minutes sometimes, so wouldnt that get boring.
Also a lot of people say you "Play" with their tongues, but what does that mean? Like circling would be playing, but surely you can't only do that... (link)
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You can massage their tongue with yours. But, you don't have to French the entire time. You can nibble on each others lips, but don't bite. Trail kisses along his jawline and kind of nip his earlobe. Then go back and start kissing with just your lips before you go back to Frenching again.
Hope this helps!
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I am on birth control. He used a condom. But we did it a different way than we usually do and after he cummed and pulled out, the condom was still inside of me. It didn't break. And I know there's the possibility that some might have leaked out the top but I don't know. I'm looking into getting the morning-after pill. Any other suggestions? (link)
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Well, you don't need to get the morning after pill if you're already on birth control pills.
I read in Cosmo that the percentage of it working depends on your weight. If you have a BMI over 27.3, the birth control may only work about 92% of the time. You should buy this month's Cosmo to get all the facts, it has ten facts that the gyno won't tell you about the pill.
The only thing you would have to worry about is STDs, so if you have any doubt, you should get checked.
Hope this helps!
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ok im 19 and i have been with my man for like, a year and a half. the guy hasn't had sex in almost 2 years and i am still a virgin. he knows and respects that. But recently he has become sexually frustrated b/c we live together and he says it feels like we are already married with out any of ther perks ... meaning sex. im scared and i want to sleep with him i really do, but im afraid of the pain. he told me there are only two options for this situation. 1: I allow him to go and strictly have sex with another woman, just to get rid of the frustration (but he said he doesnt want that cuz he knows it will hurt me) or 2: for me to get over my fear and go through with it.
well, it all boils down to im afraid of both options, and well, i don't face fears very well. what should i do? Any kind of advice is welcome please help me out. (link)
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Well, the options he gave you are pretty stupid for someone who is supposedly so in love with you. He has two hands and he can warm up some baby oil if he's that frustrated.
As for being so afraid of the pain, you shouldn't be. If you're very aroused, and you're comfortable with your boyfriend and not nervous, then you barely even notice it.
If he loves you then he will be okay with a lot of foreplay to be sure he doesn't hurt you. The reason that it hurts so bad for most females is that they're not wet enough and their muscles were tight from nerves.
Even though you're wet, you should use a water based lube. Put some on the condom and some on your labia. It should be very slippery when you touch it.
You can go to this website for additional information about your first time.
http://scarleteen.com/sexuality/readiness.html
It has a few pages and should tell you just about everything you need to know.
Hope it works out.
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What traits do girls look for in guys? What would your ideal guy be like? (link)
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Well, I can't speak for every female alive, but I can tell you what I like.
I like guys
who are kind of shy, but are willing to stand up for themselves and me if need be.
who will tell me what they're actually thinking when I ask them a question, even if they think it might hurt my feelings.
who will let me cry on their shoulder, and they aren't embarassed about crying on mine.
who are up for new things and don't just stick to the same old thing.
who are nice to their female relatives; it shows that he will be sweet to me.
who will try to help me even when they know they can't.
who don't treat me like dirt just because their friends are around. I mean, you don't have to hold my hand and croon in my ear the whole time, but you don't have to treat me like your maid or something when they're around.
who have their own opinions and have no problem telling people what they are.
who will fight for me. I don't mean 'punch that other guy in the nose and kick him in the crotch" kind of fighting. I mean the kind where he never stops trying until I forgive him or he finally wins my heart.
Hope this helps you!
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hi^_^
can you guys please tell me your favorite songs so i can download some new songs?
thaank you:) (link)
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I have too many favorite songs to tell you which ones are the best but I can tell you some bands that rock their entire cd.
French Kicks
Gym Class Heroes
Matisyu
All of My Chemical Romance's cd's
The Kinks
The Who
The Doors
The Stooges
The Velvet Underground
The Romantics
The Ramones
Modest Mouse
Rooney
The Verve
Weezer
I'm not sure what you listen to, but I love rock mostly so that's pretty much what I gave you. Look them up on itunes or wherever you download music from.
Hope you like 'em.
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i realy like this girl but theres 2 things that keep me from asking her out one is that the school year is almost over and i wont see her till school starts and second is that shes kinda rich compared to me im not poor but not that rich ive met her mom she seemed nice also shes full white and im full mexican so im darkskin compared to her but i realy like her and we have gone out twice before but does any of that matter? please tell me (link)
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If you truly like each other then the race issue shouldn't matter. The monetary issue shouldn't matter either. If you guys have things in common and have things to talk about, then that's the only thing that SHOULD matter.
About the school year ending. If the school year wasn't ending and you asked her out, she would expect to go out for dates and to hang out at both of your houses together. Why should the end of the school year change that? You could still see each other. If you can't go out out, then you could always hang out at your house or her house.
I hope it works out and I hope this helps!
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my bf and i hav been dating for 2weeks but we've only hugged 3 times and talked twice THERES SOMETHING WRONG!!
how do i tell him he needs to at least try without being a bitch? (link)
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You're not being a bitch by letting your guy know he's not stepping up for the relationship. If he likes you, he should at least act like he does.
Instead of yelling at him, though, sit him down and tell him how you're feeling and why he's making you feel like the relationship isn't going so well. Yelling will make him defensive and then you won't be able to tell him anything.
Tell him what you want from your relationship and listen to what he wants also. Then go be a happy couple.
Hope this helps!
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Well I have been dating this guy for 4 months. He is SO sweet, like always saying, i love you, your pretty ect. Anyways, his bestfriend told me that my boyfriend told him that he wanted me to hug him sooo badly. I mean really badly. Everyday after school he looks like he wants a hug but instead we go seperate ways (which we have to) and say bye and i love you. and thats it! should i hug him or not? I want to but im realllyyyyyyyyyy shy. i really need help
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If you really do love each other, then this is something you would be comfortable doing. Just go in for a hug. You already knows he wants one. Besides, if you never even hugged the guy you've been going out with for four months, then how are you guys ever going to gather up the courage to kiss? And that's the best part of dating. You know he likes you and he knows you like him, or else you wouldn't have been going out for four months. If you like each other then you should both feel comfortable talking about hugging, kissing, etc, and you should also feel comfortable doing it.
Hope this helps!
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I've had sex before, so don't lecture me. That's not what I'm here for.
The past 2 guys I've had sex with had large penises.
I really like someone & I think we are going to have sex soon, but his penis isn't as big as the guys I've usually had sex with.
What if I seem loose to him? Is there any way possible to get tight again, within like a day or two? Please help. (link)
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Well, there is a vaginal tightening cream that you could use, but it will take two to three weeks to be mailed to you.
But, if you're worried, try kegel exercises. You know the muscle that you use to urinate and stop urinating? Well, squeeze that muscle and loosen it while you're having sex, you can also do it anywhere to get prepped.
Try squeezing them more when he's coming out of you.
Hope this helps!
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Any tips for giving head?
I think I got it down, but once the guy cums..
Is it bad.. to keep pleasuring them?
[I've heard stories.. that it hurts the guy?]
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Well, it just depends on if he's still hard or not. If he ejaculates and is still hard it's perfectly okay to keep pleasuring him.
If after he ejaculates, he goes soft, then it may hurt a little.
Well, not hurt exactly. After a guy has an orgasm, his penis feels kind of tender, just like your clit after you have an orgasm.
But if you wait a few minutes, he should be 'up' for another round if you're willing.
In that few minutes, you could do a number of things that will arouse him again and keep him aroused. Like, kissing, caressing, etc. Or he could go down on you.
Hope this helps!
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I've been giving my boyfriend handjobs and recently a blowjob.
And in those times.. he has stopped pleasuring me. He doesn't really touch me/finger me.
Is it rude to ask if he would do something to me ..?
Is there a good way to ask?
I'm kinda shy haha. (link)
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If you can't get your rocks off every now and again, then he doesn't deserve to have you help him get his off. I mean, he has two hands and I'm sure he can nuke a cantelope.
It is not rude to ask to get something back since you're doing to much work to pleasure him.
I understand that you're shy, but you should be comfortable enough with your boyfriend to just ask him for what you want.
To get what you want before he starts pushing your head lower, you start the action yourself. If you want to be fingered, guide his hand under your skirt and surprise him with no panties. Or if you want him to perform oral on you, lay down on his bed and tell him to come here. Then just tell him to keep going lower until he gets where you want him to be.
Or, the next time he wants you to give him a blowjob, say 'me first' and sprawl out on your or his bed, or wherever you are.
You can also just be straight up and tell him that if he's not even going to try to pleasure you, then he can just go get himself off.
Hope this helps!
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ok i'm 13/f and its summer so i'm about to start babysitting. i wanted to put flyers up in the mail room because i live in an apartment. well the problem is, i dont know what to write on the flyers. can somebody please give me some ideas??
thank you!
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PARENTS: Want to go out but don't know what to do about the kids?
Well, (name) is here to help!
I'm a very responsible 13 yr old girl who you can depend on to keep your kids safe. I've had (number) yrs experience dealing with children.
If you have some place to be and need someone to sit, you can reach me at (phone number).
{the experienc I mentioned can include younger siblings, cousins, etc; use a bright color so it catches the eye, something like neon green, yellow, orange, or pink}
Hope this helps!
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oh god here it goes.
Well me and my boyfreind were just looking up what will happen if he cums in my butt when we have sex. And
1) it told us if you cum really deep in your ass will get bigger casue of the testorioin in his cum.
He tells me like Oh My god your butt is getting bigger i swear. I don't know if were like imagining it getting bigger casue we think thats whats spost to happen or is it acually getting bigger?
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2) We also read that You CAN get pregnant when he does that.. Witch i thought was weired. Is that true? AnD
3) the last time we did it it was on my period but it was still in my butt. It was like my last day on it. but yeah Again we read when your on your period you STILL can get pregnant. Is THAT true?
I don't know someone please help me? (link)
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Okay, I'll answer your questions one at a time.
1. The thing you read about your butt getting larger because of the testosterone in his semen is some misinformation. (I asked my gyno about it and she said it was just a myth.)
2. Yes, you can get pregnant if he ejaculates in your anus. There is only so much room in your anus, so the semen has to find somewhere to go. It leaks out and can come into contact with your vaginal opening, which can cause pregnancy. You should use a condom to be sure it doesn't happen.
3. Yes, it is true. When you have your period, your egg can be released on the first day or the last day or any day in between. If semen got inside you before your egg released, then it is possible that it could have been fertilized.
Hope this helps!
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17/m
I started having sex w/ my gf, but i thik she might be faking her orgasms. how can i tell? (link)
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Generally, your girlfriend could be faking her orgasm if she's moaning and bucking against you but her inner walls aren't contracting. Females tend to moan louder and more often when they are faking, so as not to make you suspicious with less movement and not so excited facial expression.
She will also be very wet, but you can't really count on that because she got wet when she was first aroused and girls can be very aroused without actually having an orgasm.
But, about the inner walls contracting, that can also be faked. You've heard of kegel exercises, I'm sure. She will rhythmically tighten and loosen her kegel muscles(her inner walls) to make you think she's having an orgasm.
She can also fake the shuddering after the fact. So, all in all, you can never really tell for absolute certainty because she could either be having a mind blowing orgasm, or she could be a very good actress.
Hope this helps!
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i really need help!
i need advice from BOTH girls and guys
my nipples are hugee!
like im a size 36D
and my nips take up like 3/4's of my boob!
i have 2 question...
1) Do guys like that!!??
2) im kind of heavy so if i lose a little weight will it shrink along with the boob?? (link)
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The part on your breast that you think are your nipples, are actually your aeroules. Your nipples are in the center and they're only the parts that get hard when you're cold or sexually aroused.
1. Guys like boobs. Simple as that. They'll just be happy that they're seeing boobs. Don't worry about it.
2. Your aeroules won't get smaller, they'll take up as much space on your boob no matter how big or small they are.
Hope this helps!
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ok i ahve been dating this guy for like three weeks and i love him so much but he never calls me i mean we see each other alot but i wish he would call b/c i wonder if he even likes me at times even though he tells all his friends that he does? what sould i do? (link)
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If he tells his friends how much he likes you, he likes you, so don't worry about that.
As for him not calling, why don't you just call him? He might think you don't like him as much becuase you never call him.
Hope this helps
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