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my new bf
my bf and i hav been dating for 2weeks but we've only hugged 3 times and talked twice THERES SOMETHING WRONG!!
how do i tell him he needs to at least try without being a bitch?
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maybe hes shy or somthing
its not being bitchy your saying that you like him and want to spend time wit him
maybe suggest that you hang out over the weekend or after school or somthing
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You're not being a bitch by letting your guy know he's not stepping up for the relationship. If he likes you, he should at least act like he does.
Instead of yelling at him, though, sit him down and tell him how you're feeling and why he's making you feel like the relationship isn't going so well. Yelling will make him defensive and then you won't be able to tell him anything.
Tell him what you want from your relationship and listen to what he wants also. Then go be a happy couple.
Hope this helps!
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Give the guy some time and eventually he will start taking action. Or you could try initiating the action, that works to. He might not want to talk that much or be around you so much because he doesn't want to looked whipped in front of his guy friends. Trust me it happens. If things don't work out you can get rid of him. It's just a boy plenty more out there.
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Get rid of him. I know that sounds pretty harsh, but I girls gotta do what a girls gotta do. It's the hugging part that's not right in the relationship. It's the talking part! You can't have a relationship with no communication! A relationship is something that should be fun. The kind where you don't talk, isn't a relationship at all. It doesn't really seem to me like this guy is a "keeper". So move on. Trust me, it's for the best :]
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You don't tell him, you just start talking to him more. Eventually, he'll adapt and take after it. Hopefully he'll feel more open about his opinions or concerns with you and you'll become closer. So to be fair, you have to try, too. The relationship needs to have some feelings come from both sides, not just one. So if you're making all the effort to be around him, you're not being a bitch. And there's no way you can possibily say, "We need to spend more time together" being a bitch, because it's just telling him you want to get to know him better :]
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well do you go to school together? if not then just tell him you wanna spend more time with him. say "hey maybe we should hang out more. i really like being with you but we hardly talk." you dont have to like yell at him or anything lol. i bet he probably wants to spend more time with you too. =]
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