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girls faking it
17/m
I started having sex w/ my gf, but i thik she might be faking her orgasms. how can i tell?
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Generally, your girlfriend could be faking her orgasm if she's moaning and bucking against you but her inner walls aren't contracting. Females tend to moan louder and more often when they are faking, so as not to make you suspicious with less movement and not so excited facial expression.
She will also be very wet, but you can't really count on that because she got wet when she was first aroused and girls can be very aroused without actually having an orgasm.
But, about the inner walls contracting, that can also be faked. You've heard of kegel exercises, I'm sure. She will rhythmically tighten and loosen her kegel muscles(her inner walls) to make you think she's having an orgasm.
She can also fake the shuddering after the fact. So, all in all, you can never really tell for absolute certainty because she could either be having a mind blowing orgasm, or she could be a very good actress.
Hope this helps!
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well if she is having her orgasm while you are in her, you will feel her vaginal walls pulsing (throbbing). she will also be out of breath, very wet, and kind of shaky afterwards.
hope i helped!
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First, don't pressure her to perform for you. If you have been, then apologize. Real women don't all act like pornstars, who by the way are always acting and very disconnected from their own sexuality and cannot enjoy sex for themselves. It is sad that some women and girls have resorted to faking orgasm to please a guy, give a performance and have stop believing that they can have and are worthy of a real orgasm...multiple for that matter. Not being able to have an orgasm may be about sexual immaturity, and since most girls have sex before they are truly emotionally ready, they will not orgasm for years. It is a mature woman that knows herself, her body, and owns her own sexuality, and is capable of being truthful in every aspect of her life. Many girls have sex to gain acceptance and feelings of being loved and not for their own sexual pleasure as most males do. This does not make orgasm easily attainable. A woman will be much more likely to orgasm when she is in control and has the confidence to have them. Be patient and know that orgasm is achieved for some more easily than others, women are more likely to orgasm during oral sex and being on top during intercourse, but everyone is different, so there may be other methods that are better for her and that is fine and normal, too. Orgasm is uncontrollable and she must be feeling confident and comfortable enough with you to be able to lose her inhibitions without judgement, or pressure. She needs to feel like she can be totally free and unabandoned. This can be helped by your assurances, but ultimately it is up to her. Communicate with her and be patient.
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It is kinda hard to tell, but if she is she is really only cheating herself.
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I'm not sure you can. Just ask her after sex if she enjoyed it & tell her to be honest.
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Look in the mirrow. If you're ugly, then yes she is. :D
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