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Hey! Im Nicole. This is my second advice column. I really ♥ to give advice. I am rated pretty high here too, even though ive only answered about 260 questions. I have pretty much answered every type of question && i can certainly give you some advice. It may not always be what you want to hear, but i'll give you wat you need to hear. Also if your having trouble with finding something on the net, i am really good at that! haha. well please feel free to ask me anything! id be really glad to help you!

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15/F Alright, so I have been dating this guy, ryan, for about 6 months. I can honestly say that I LOVE him. Bu, lately he has been acting distant, strange. I was talking to a girl online and as soon as he found out I was talking to her he made me stop. It's just weird. And This may be a little TMI but the last time we were doing "things" He just stopped and said, "I can't do this." He's never done rhis before, What do you guys think, and any advice on how i may be able to figure out if he is?

It really sounds like he's cheating. You don't want to accuse him without any proof or anything, but try to find out more about this. Maybe you should find out from that girl. If he said that, he is probably cheating & feels a little guilty.
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How long does it usually take to tan? I`m have fairly pale skin and I do burn, but I tan also. If I stay out for about an hour, nothing happens, but if I stay out for much longer I get burned!?

I'm the same way. Going to the beach really helps. You will burn first but it will fade to a tan. I don't suggest tanning beds, but you could do that to get darker. Either use sprays or just lay out for a couple of hours & see what happens. Gradually you will get darker.

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Are energy drinks bad for you? People say after the energy wears off, it all crashes and you feel SOOO tired. And how much energy does it give you? And is Red Bull or Rockstar good brands of them?

I'll rate wicked high.

They are pretty bad for you. Don't think just because it says low fat & calories that its not bad for you either. It has a lot of sugar in it & it's really bad. Everyone is wayy too addicted to them too. I think occasionally its okay, though. Just don't overdue it.

♥ nicole

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My friends want to hang out but we don't know what we want to do. Have any ideas??

Bake Cookies.
Prank Phone Calls.
Pictures.
Parks.
Swimming.
Truth or Dare.
Video Games. [Dance Dance Revolution]
Tan outside.
Make a movie.
Do nails.
Dress up!

I can't think of anything else, really.
Hope that helped.

♥ nicole

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Okay, so I like this guy alot. And I heard he likes me too (he told my friend that i was hot and sent me 6 messages asking me who i liked), so I called him the other day and his sister picked up. So I asked if he was home and she said to me, "He's in the shower. And I dont mean to sound rude but he's not supposed to have girls calling him and he really doesnt like you that way." I got so upset I just said "Okay, I'm sorry, I didnt know." and hung up. Then I just felt sad for a long time. But I still really like this guy! And I dont know if his sister was lying or not. The only thing is if he's not supposed to have girls calling he's probably not supposed to have a girlfriend either. So what should I do in this situation?

Thank you.. I'll rate as high as I can.

This kind of happened to me before. The guy i liked sister pretty much hated me. It was really weird. She said similar stuff like that but it wasn't true. She probably just made it up to get to you. I'd probably ask him. Say: "Your sister said that you weren't allowed to have girls call & that you weren't interested in me, is that true?" It probably takes a lot of guts to ask that, but its a good way to find out. Don't listen to sisters, they can be over protective. And don't let that hurt your feelings too much. If she knows who you are, it means he's been talking about you. Probably in a good way. :]

♥ nicole

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A little more than 25 years ago, I met a guy who became a friend. About three years after we met, he took my car out one night, got drunk and smashed it up. I had to pay to tow the car away, junk it, and for tickets. Cost me over $1,000 at the time. He never offered to pay me for the damages to my car.

He was doing bad financially at that time and I figured that later on, when he was doing well, over time he would find some way to compensate me because we were still "friends."

Fast forward 25 years. This "friend" is single and doing well, owns house, car, good job, etc. Last year I borrowed $300 from him to buy emergency plane tickets, and told him I'd pay him back when I could. About three weeks later, he began to demand repayment in full. He was nasty about it so I reminded him about his car wreck 25 years ago. Nobody made him pay then.

He was still angry; I was stunned. No, I did not ever pay him back. The crisis has passed but I want to know, who's right about this? Should he get his $300 back? And what about people who think the passage of time relieves them of their financial and moral obligations? Your help please....

Neither of you are right. But i do think that he should pay you back just as you should pay him back. Maybe you should just give him the 300 dollars back. But never lend eachother that much money again. I dont think it was right for him to not pay you back, or offer. But you made a promise to him & just because he never gave you the money back, doesn't mean that's an excuse for you to not give him the money back. But he sounds like a pretty mean guy to me.

♥ nicole.

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ok well i love music but i only have like 600 songs on my ipod and i wanna download some more but i dont really know what to get. I like bands like fall out boy, panic at the disco, nickleback, alkaline trio. I dont really like rap, r&b and that stuff.

any suggestions??(spelling?)

the Fray
pearl jam
shine down
jack johnson
system of a down
HIM
yeah yeah yeahs
mudvayne
the killers
taking back sunday
jimmy eat world
franz ferdinand
staind
depeche mode
10 years
the all american rejects
gorillaz
modest mouse
editors
the strokes
jacks mannequin
the acadamy is..
interpol
3 doors down
edge city outlaws
seether
311
papa roach
avenged sevenfold
the offspring
weezer
nine inch nails
evans blue
linkin park
red hot chili peppers
oasis
hawthorne heights
ATP
beauty sleep
ordinary state
thrice
emery
coldplay
yellowcard
story of the year
brand new
simple plan
my american heart
Rise against
Korn
sugarcult
shiny toy guns
daphne loves derby
crossfade
armor for sleep
bloc party
the bravery
cartel
trapt
from autumn to ashes
paramore
gavin degraw
nofx
kill hannah
new found glory
flogging molly
aiden
P.O.D
Journey
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idk if its the right subj, but im sick and ill be out of school tomorrow caz its a half day and my mom doesnt want me in school. im 13/f and i need stuff to do with a computer, tv, and i dont know just somthing to do. thanks

xanga.
write emails.
take pictures.
read a book.
draw a picture.
visit random websites.
magazines.
video games.
make food.
sleep.
watch different shows.
go to grrl.com
paint your nails.
neopets.com
theres a bunch of games there.
idk what else.
you'll come up with something.
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Ok, I have no idea what to say when people ask me out and I don't like them. Everytime I end up saying something nice and i guess I kind of lead them on, but I don't mean to, I just don't want to be mean. So what can I say when I don't want to go out with them?

THANKS =)

Just tell them that your really sorry but you just dont feel the same way. I'm sure they will feel bad at first but they will understand. Just dont lie to them. But dont be too mean, theres no need to make someone feel bad. Just tell them that you'd just rather be friends. And your not interested in going out. It should work fine. =]

♥ nicole

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What are some good love songs? or one that has good lyrics about love? please and thank you !

before your love - kelly clarkson.
beautiful love- the afters
burning love- elvis presley
mostly every celine dion song.
love dont cost a thing- jlo.
all in your mind- mariah carey
seasons of love- rent
faithfully- journey
love for all the seasons- christina aguilera
LOVE- natalie cole
cry- mandy moore
dont stop believin'- journey
i have loved you- jessica simpson
all i ask of you- phantom of the opera
thank god i found you- mariah carey
true love- elton john
Some kind of wonderful- Joss Stone
You set me free- Michelle Branch
Love wouldn't count me out- Brandy
Love makes the world go around- Ashlee Simpson
Love- Keyshia Cole
Love me tender- Elvis Presely
Never tear us apart- INXS
Oh it is love- hellogoodbye

well there is some.
hope you like them.
i'm not sure if they are all good.
or what you are looking for though.

♥ nicole

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i've had the sameeee s/n for a really long time with my name in it & i'm looking for some more ideas. i can't come up with anything that i'll use for awhile.

-i'm tall/long legs
-brunette(but i already had a brunette s/n)
-i like fashion u kno, AE, af, hollister, ripped jeans, pearls, big sunglasses, purses
-i play basketball
-i like having fun
-i love my bf, family, & friends
-im in hs

idk stuff like that

thanks!!

RippedJeansxAE
Fashion x whore
AnF xo moose
x3 rippedjeans
prettyxpearls
fashionxprincess
x o x your name
iheartmyboy
fashion xqueen
tall x prep
sunglassbeautyxo
livelaughlovex3
BrunettesAreHot
hollisterislove
PearlsAre2Die4
AExHeiress
Ripped x Jeans
x [Nickname] x
AFBeautyQueen
NextBigThingx3
Hes xMyLove

Theres a few ideas.

♥ nicole

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Ok, well, this is sort of just asking guys, but girls, if you have a cute idea, i would love to hear it.

christmas...oh man. this is going to be like, the first time ive had a boyfriend on christmas, and i was thinking about doing "build-a-bear" for him, and get him a card. is that too...not good enough? should i get him something more "manlier"? lol. total it would be about $35/40 but im not worried about price. is this a good idea? would a guy actually like it? (guys thats where you come in ;])
if not, what are some good ideas?

if it matters at all, he is 16, and at the time of christmas, we will have only been going out for a little over 5 months.

thanks in advanced, ill rate good answers ♥

i dont know, cuz i'm not a guy. but i sort of think thats childish. i dont know too many guys who would want a build-a-bear. maybe you should do movies and then dinner and buy him or make him something else.

♥ nicole

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On hotmail, when you send and recieve an email it says at the top...
From...
Sent : ...
To : ...
CC :...
Subject : ...

I know what the other things are but i'm not sure what CC means. i recieved an email today and in the CC part was someones email address who i don't know.
can someone tell me please

it means carbon copy. The person that was on the CC part will see that email sent to you.

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what is a good age to babysit and like how much should i charge per hour cause i am babysitting with a friend and we are going to split the money. about how long to the parents stay out for. thanks i rate high

14 or 15 years old is probably a good age to babysit. i'd say.. 4 or 5 bucks an hour. and i dunno how long they stay out for, it probably depends.

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okay see im really mad @ someone and i want to block them will they be able to know if i block them on my buddie list??? thanks!!!

They wont know, but they might think you just offline and they might not know you blocked them.

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i am babysitting with a friend so we have to split the money and the town isnt very rich about how much should i charge 1 kid per hour 2 kids per hour 3 kids per hour and 3 kids per hour

i rate high

1 kid= 4 dollars
2 kids= 7 dollars
3 kids= 10 dollars

i think that sounds good! lol hope it works out.

♥ nicole

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hey, could someone please explain how you put little hearts in your profile? i'll rate.

much thanks.

& hearts ; but it together and you have a heart!

♥ nicole

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hey im a 13/m
what are some jobs i can get to make a little money?
ALL FIVES

babysitting, mowing lawns, cleaning houses, stuff like that.

♥ nicole

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I love my girlfriend she means every thing to me and who would i no if she feels the same about me some 1 plz help me out

Tell her how you feel and if she tells you how she feels, then you'll know! sometimes people have trouble saying their feelings and stuff. but just try to talk to her about it.

♥ nicole

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13/m
There is this girl at school that I have a crush on and I tend to always offer her a seat in my 7th period class {study support} and I offer to help her with math and social studys. I am always talking to her and commenting her.
Am I flirting?

Yeah i think you are.

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