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I think he's cheating.
15/F Alright, so I have been dating this guy, ryan, for about 6 months. I can honestly say that I LOVE him. Bu, lately he has been acting distant, strange. I was talking to a girl online and as soon as he found out I was talking to her he made me stop. It's just weird. And This may be a little TMI but the last time we were doing "things" He just stopped and said, "I can't do this." He's never done rhis before, What do you guys think, and any advice on how i may be able to figure out if he is?
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i dont think hes cheating, at least not physically. the way you describe it, it sounds alot like what happened to me with my last gf. i think he has started to like someone else, but either doesnt know how to tell you, or is unsure in his feelings for you. i would give him a little time and space, and sort of set him free (though not entirely) if he comes back, he will be yours forever, if he doesnt, well then he was never yours to begin with. good luck, hope you end up better off than i did.
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hmmm something is definately up. sounds to me like he may be cheating on you w/ that girl online since he made you stop or shes friends w/ the girl hes cheating with. that sounds really strange that he would just stop and if he keeps being distant and pushing you away, being controling etc. id break it off before things get out of hand. if you have anymore questions w/ this just drop by my column or IM me at gilmoregirl21291
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most likely, he is cheating on you. i guess you've considered this by now, and you really need to talk to him and find out. If you dont want to talk to him about it but still want to know, well go behind his back and find out, just like he went behind your back and cheated[supposedly].
there are plenty of more guys out there SOMEWHERE that you can date... good luck with everythingg
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Sounds to me like he's cheating. I have been in this situation before, and it didn't end well, you need to let him go and find someone who appreciates you and puts you as their first priority. There is no reason to play as someone's second.
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Hey girl. Look the truth of the matter is that a womans gut is always right in some fachion or form. If you think he is cheating then he probably is. As far as the girl on the internet, I would keep talking to her even if it was on the DL. She might know something and she probably doesn't know that he has a girl. You never know you might lose a boyfriend but you might also gain a good friend.(the girl on the net)
THERE IS A LOT OF FISH IN THE SEA, AND THEY ALL BITE THE BAIT, YOU JUST GOTTA KNOW WHICH KIND TO USE
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I know why you think he's cheeting on you.Well about the holl you started talking to a girl on computer and he told you to stop.I would keep talking to her and see why he was so tempermetal about it.And about you trying to do things with him and he told he couln't do it.Respect his choices and ask him if something was wrong.The only thing that i could really push is ask him if hes seeing someone else and really fix yourself to him maybe you can tell if he is lieing or not.
im sorry if you find out he is but its better that your not being lead on my his games.
If hes not he should be able to respect why you asked if he is seeing someone.
I hope everything works out the best as possible.
And when one door closes another one opens.
love..hope i helped
katie
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Dearie, let me tell you one thing: If you think the guy you love is cheating on you, he IS.
If you're wondering why I said that, it's because you wouldn't even suspect that he's cheating if there's NOTHING suspicious. Also, more often than not, our so-called "woman's instinct" is correct.
Hope I helped you a lil' bit.
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It does sound like he's cheating, but I could be wrong. Who exactly is this girl you were talking to? Have you suspected anything between them before? Do they act weird around each other? Has he ever mentioned her before, or her him?
The fact he stopped while you were doing "things" sounds like his conscience got to him. If he's never done that before, there's definitley something wrong here.
I think you need to ask him exactly why he made you stop speaking to this girl. Obviously she knows something he doesn't want you to know. Alternatively, you could speak to this girl again and suss out what she knows. This is kinda going behind his back so I don't fully recommend this.. but it might be the only way to find out. He can't stop you from speaking to whoever you want. If he's trying to hide something, he's not doing a very good job at it. You need to figure out exactly what is going on here. If he doesn't admit it to you when you ask him, find out what this girls knows. Good luck.
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It really sounds like he's cheating. You don't want to accuse him without any proof or anything, but try to find out more about this. Maybe you should find out from that girl. If he said that, he is probably cheating & feels a little guilty.
♥ nicole
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sorry to say,but it sounds like he's cheating on you.how does he act around other girls?flirtatios?you need to talk to him and find out what's going on.
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i had the same problem ok this is how u find out do a little reseacrh i don't mean go and hire some one to go follol him places ask around ask people you have seen him with and ask people he know and probably his is scared of rushing in to doing the 'things'.goodluck!!!!
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sounds like hes cheating
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the same thing happened to me once, my bf told me to stop talking to this girl and actually went on my buddy list and blocked her, i came to found out he was cheating, so maybe he MIGHT be cheating or just not like the girl, you have to sit down and talk to him, and explain how you feel comuacation is the best thing, and also ask around, or maybe start to talk to the girl again and ask her about ryan.. hope i helped.
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i think he might be cheating and if he is, you need to catch him. But the bad part it might take a while. If he has a cell see who has been calling him and see who he has been calling. hope i helped.
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well i really dont want to say this but the way it sound he has done something with this other girl and does not want you to find out ... it might not be that he is cheating on you but it might mean that before you two went out he did something with this girl and he afarid what you would do if you found out but my advice is to sit down and talk about it and ask him if he cheated on you or what is going on just let things out and relex... if he did cheat on you give him another shot to get away from that girl and this might be mean but tell him untill he leaves the other girl your not going to do anything with him and then if he dont leave the other girl that your going to leave him...i hope you get everything worked out GOOD LuCK!!!
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