Me and my boyfriend have been official for a little over 2 weeks, but his ex gf is always calling him. Like everytime I am with him, she calls. she'll call like 92875 times if he doesn't pick up. Then he told me that he told her to stop calling because he has a new gf and she cried, cuz she loves him and they lost their virginity to each other but they broke up in february. soo then i thought she stopped calling, but then the other day when i was with him and his friends and his friend has his cell and told him that she called, and then he's all like, why.. what time.. etc. He was really interested in her call.
i've never met the girl, she goes to a different school.
I feel like i'm just getting in the way of something that they could have again. If you've seen The OC, I feel like I'm Anna and they're Seth and Summer. I wish I knew a way to bring this up to him, but I don't know how and I don't even know what I'd say because I can't even put it into words how I feel. I feel like a fool, but theres more to it.
and then last night we hung out til like 11, and then he called me at 11:15 because he's going on vacation and we won't see each other til next week and i said i had a headache, and he told me to go to bed, and i told him that it wouldn't matter if i went to bed because i'm not tired. at the time i thought he was just trying to give me good advice about my headache, but he was really just trying to get rid of me so he could CALL HIS EX GIRLFRIEND. after the headache thing, he was all like, "im sooo tired, im gonna go to bed." but i believed him at the time. then i logged onto myspace and his ex left him a comment being like, 'thanks for calling me at 11:30 last night! call me tons when your down there!" me and him got off the phone a little before 11:30. so much for GOING TO BED.
i've never mentioned anything about how i feel about him and his ex gf, i just keep it to myself because i don't know how to bring it up. he said he'd call me while he was on vacation, so when he calls I think I'll just be like, "I'll let you go, so you can call [his ex] or something." Idk. Advice?
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