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"His mother is overprotective."
Okay, so I like this guy alot. And I heard he likes me too (he told my friend that i was hot and sent me 6 messages asking me who i liked), so I called him the other day and his sister picked up. So I asked if he was home and she said to me, "He's in the shower. And I dont mean to sound rude but he's not supposed to have girls calling him and he really doesnt like you that way." I got so upset I just said "Okay, I'm sorry, I didnt know." and hung up. Then I just felt sad for a long time. But I still really like this guy! And I dont know if his sister was lying or not. The only thing is if he's not supposed to have girls calling he's probably not supposed to have a girlfriend either. So what should I do in this situation?
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You should ask him in person before you assume anything. If he isn't allowed to have a girlfriend then you'll just have to respect that, but there is also a possibility that his sister is lying. xoxo
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I think you need to find it out from him. His sister could definitley have been lying. Maybe she just felt like being a bitch, or maybe she was just jealous her brother was getting attention from a girl? Who knows what her motives could've been. But you definitley need to find out from him first before you jump to conclusions.
Besides, I highly doubt his sister of all people would know how he felt about you! She could have been right about his parents, but I can almost 100 % guarantee you she doesn't know how he feels about you. If he sent you over 6 messages asking you who you liked, I'd say that's a clear indicator that he does like you.
If his parents are overprotective, there's not really a lot you can do. If something does happen between you two, they might change their mind if they meet you and see that you're trustworthy. Maybe they won't. That's something he needs to sort out with his parents. Usually parents are willing to compromise. My parents were really strict with dating and such, but once I convinced them I was trustworthy and responsible they gave in a bit. I wouldn't worry about it at this stage until you two are actually together though. And first you need to find out if this is indeed the case, and not just what his sister is making up.
Good luck.
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thats wrong of her to say in the first place. i mean, i didnt read ur whole question- but i got the jist of it. i wouldnt believe her for a second. she sounds really overprotective of hm for some reason- butdont let it get to you- talk to HIM about it.
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This kind of happened to me before. The guy i liked sister pretty much hated me. It was really weird. She said similar stuff like that but it wasn't true. She probably just made it up to get to you. I'd probably ask him. Say: "Your sister said that you weren't allowed to have girls call & that you weren't interested in me, is that true?" It probably takes a lot of guts to ask that, but its a good way to find out. Don't listen to sisters, they can be over protective. And don't let that hurt your feelings too much. If she knows who you are, it means he's been talking about you. Probably in a good way. :]
♥ nicole
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If you really like this guy then i suggest you hear it from him whether he's not suppose to have a girlfriend or not.
If he's not allowed to have a girlfriend then you will just have to accept it.
Become really good friends and show that your still interested.
If his parents see how much he likes you then they might reconsider about him having a girlfriend.
Then again, he could just have an evil sister!
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okaayy, well seriously his sisters prolly lying, why would he mention you or anything, but yeah just talk to him about it, and ask if hes alowed to date.. & if he isnt you guys can be good friends ;o)
♥ me
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Well....could you talk to this guy about what his sister said. Just ask him if he isn't supposed to have girls calling.
hope I helped
Sea Breeze
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Its not always a good idea to get parents or family maybe you guys should just pretend to be real good freinds and go to movies and when ur out u could be bf and gf. but dont tell your parents
-devil britt
Maybe you guys should just stick to flirting as freinds i mean he is fun to hang out with
-angle britt
2 opptions one needs to be taken good luck!
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