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Hi, I'm Jasmine, I have been though some hard times in my life, and I'm always here for anyone who needs advice! (: I'm just a message away!
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Hi I need some advice I'm going to lose my virginity to my boyfriend tommorow and I'm really nervous its his first time also he's 16 and I'm 14 so do you have any advice on how to do it?x
Gosh I'm so sorry its taken me soo long to respond. If your 14, its no age to be losing your virginity. dont give it up yet. make him wait for a few more years. if he really loves you, he will wait. the age difference is also kinda weird, so make sure hes not just getting with you to get some. (:
there is this girl who follows me everywhere and i dont really like her but i dont want to hurt her feeelings what should i tell her or say to her because shes allways following me in school
Just say I really appreciate you giving me this attention, and I'm really flattered, but please stop following me around because I can't focus and it's kinda weird
okay so I'm a 13 yearold girl and i know it's normal to have acne and I don't have a lot like some people do but I have some pimples. what some good acne cleaners that actually work? thanks for all your help, I really appreciate it:)
You can always get cleansers with green tea in them! they are natural, and healthy for your skin! they nourish the skin without letting the skin get too oily, but it also gets rid of tough acne!
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Well my friend Is lieing alot to me and asking me for money and say you pay me back never has. She always says that shes going to get some thing like before she said she's getting an ipad and iPhone when she isnt. Im really sick of it. And before she asked me for money so far i have given her about $20;00 or more in the last month and says she'll pay me back but never has. In class she always copies me with worksheets, projects and even the way i dress and do my hair! She copied me in a project and said that she did it first when i did and i had to do it all over again. And she gets all the attention when she copies me me im so sick of it. I know these are really not big problems but im really sick of it! I need help for her not to do it no more. :)
You guys clearly aren't friends! She is using you, and that's not okay. Friends are supposed to treat you better than this, you deserve better! Don't continue letting her use you, and end the friendship while you can.
I am a 21 year old female having no kid,inlove with a 28 yr old guy with 2 kids.we've dating 4 almost abwt a year,and he's also inlove wit the mother of the kids..we r in da sme flat and da mothr is livin in far in anada village while we r in town,but evrytym whn she visit ma bf i always have to be alne no matter she gonna sty 4 a mnth??he dnt cl nor cum 2 see me? And he does'nt even tel me abwt his plnz 4 da future...wts da best way dump or be patient??
Dump him! If hes not making a commitment to you and only you, he's not worth your valuable time and you could find someone much better who will treat you like a princess! Hope I could help!
I have been trying to get my girl friend to admitt she is pretty she is gorgouse and alot of guys hit on her. And tell her she is pretty but still she calls her self ugly and unattractive i tell her how pretty she is everyday. And she is saying i misslead her into believing she is pretty idont know what to do ??????
this girl sounds like she just wants compliments! She knows how gorgeous she is, and girls say this all the time so you or a guy/girl will say "no your gorgeous!" or "you have nothing to worry about!" girls love to hear compliments about themselves ....so she may just be doing this for a compliment!
I am a seveteen year old teenage girl who has been with this guy for about two years. things have been great at first but now..well not so well. we love each other and i know that but we get into arguments every other day. it hurts me emotionally and i try to fix things. but each time i try it just fails. i love this kid but just some things he says can be very hurtful. how can i fix this??? and i tried talking to him how it hurt me also
If he hurts you emotionally, he's not worth your time. And if you feel so strongly about him, like you don't want to let him go, then you guys should try and talk things out. tell him your perspective, and let him give you his side of the story. then you guys talk and work things out from there! If you need anymore help, contact me!
i'm 22 f and my bf is 24 we've been together for 4 months but were friends for 2 years before. resently conversations about the future have been coming up. he says that he would love to marry me and be with me always but wants to be together for longer before he makes that comitment. however when the subject of kids came up he was more excited. i want to have kids with him but i feel that this is more important to him then marriage. which doesn't fly in my books. i'm a little old fashioned that way. is this just me being crazy or should i really worry about it.
Your definitley not crazy, but if the topic of kids comes up, bring up marriage. Tell him that if you want to hanve children, you will have to marry first.
i've hung out with this guy twice, and both times we hooked up (not sex, i'm a virgin and he knows that and i reallly dont want to have sex with him anytime soon...or at all now)
so basically he texts me at like 2:30 in the morning and i was up so i answered and he asked me what i was doing and stuff, but then he told me i should come over so we could cuddle. i told him i was tired but he kept persisting. he wouldnt stop texting me even after i told him that i really dont want to go out tonight. eventually i just stopped texting and pretended i fell asleep but he kept sending me texts and then even called me once. as i'm writing this it is 4:30 in the morning and i have turned off my phone so i don't have to hear it vibrate any more. i have at least 5 unanswered texts from him and a missed call. i really don't even think i like him, i just like hooking up with him (i know it sounds bad but it's the truth).. i don't know if he actually likes me or just wants to try to take my virginity? either way i don't like him and after tonight his neediness/clinginess just completely turned me off and i don't know what to do or say to him now. what should i do?
Block this guy from your phone. If you really dont wanna contact this guy, at all, block him, and you wont hear from him again. If that doesnt work, and you have a stalker on your hands, then you should maybe start looking for a restraining order.
so ive been dating this guy for about two weeks now but weve been talking for a month or two before we got together. I dont trust him at all and i dont know if im just paranoid or i should follow my gut.he wont check his phone when im around even when someone is blowing it up. and sometimes it will take him a few hours to text me back. the other day i looked at his phone while he was sleeping, now i didnt go through the messages i just wanted to see who had been texting him and three or four of them were girls none of which i knew..he says he wouldnt cheat on me cuz hes been cheated on but ive heard from peoplee that hes a man whore. should i trust him? orr what?
Give him up. You cant ever change a player like that. Give it up, he doesnt deserve you! You deserve someone who will always be there for you, through the good times and the bad, you need a guy who will always tell you the truth no matter what, and be straight with you, and love you, for you, and not cheat on you. He doesnt deserve you. Dump him.
See at the moment I really like this guy Ryan we've known each other since last summer and someone told me he liked him which I could tell he did the only thing we did that summer was talk and just have the best time togther how we met is this group thing in the summer where we all met up everyday now that it's over I've liked him but now I can tell he doesn't like me anymore but I see him every day in some classes which I'm a freshman and he's a sophmore we like never talk anymore which makes me really sad now another girl from the summer group likes him but she goes to a diffrent school. And we talk sour him which at the moment the girl and Ryan keep talking through text and calls so after yesterday which I was crying I decided I let him go or a while then maybe later in the year bci think we have French togther next half so I'm having hope that one day we will talk again and it won't be awkward do you think he'll ever talk to me like he use to and like me again??
It depends on the guy. Be his friend, and see where it goes from there! I'm sure he'll like you. Just dont get into fights with him, or get jealous, and dont be to clingy. Guys like their space. (: But give it some time, and I'm sure he'll like you! (:
ok i need to find an 8th grade graduation dress QUICK!!!! i have a normal figure an normal butt and normal boobs plz help me!!!
You can always go to Macy's Or Belks. Belks has some insanely gorgeous dresses (:
Is there a way to easily, less painfully remove a Plantar wart from my skin and not have to pay a small fortune to accomplish that?
Please help me if you can or if you know somebody who could help me fix this problem I have asked them to advise me.
Thank you!
This method is PAIN FREE!!! (: You can get duct tape and put it around your foot. Two weeks later, take it off! (:
Soo I'm back from some R&R anyway.
I'm going out with a guy who's younger than I am by one year (I'm a sophmore& he's a freshman) recently I told my mom this cause I really like kwami, and she deserved to know. She knows what he looks like and started making funny of me for dating someone so dark he was "purple"; no she's not racist but I love my mom. And I'd really like it for them to get along. What should I do to make it work ??
Oh..and kwami (his name) wants it too wirk too.
Thanks!! (i'm 15/f he's 14/m)
You should start off by telling your mom how much you like Kwami. Tell her that this is a serious relationship, and that you want her to accept him for who he is. (:
What does wake and bake mean?? This guy allways says it( not to me) but just aloud it's really annoying whatever itmeans please tell me
Wake and bake means waking up then getting high.
I cheated on my boyfriend in the summer twice with my ex. Because he made me feel so insecure about our relationship. He never gave me a lot of attention, he never called me. He didn't text me very fast. My ex gave me a lot of attention and made me feel loved. And my boyfriend never gets jealous about other guys except my ex because we went out for 2 years. Also I get really jealous if my boyfriend talks to other girls or hangs out with them. My ex kept coming back to me even when I was going out with him. I keep cheating on my boyfriend with him though. Now I stopped. I feel guilty about it because I think my boyfriend has never cheated on me. I just don't trust him. Because he talks to a lot of girls and never gives me a lot of attention. All he does is buy me gifts and its always jewlery. But i feel guilty that I cheated. My best friend told me he deserved it. My boyfriend still doesnt know i cheated on him. On our anniversary last month my ex texted me. And my boyfriend responded to his text. And my ex's answer was "were more than just friends" and he got so mad. And his mom asked me if I was being unfaithful and I said no and lied. What should i do? Ive never cheated on a guy EVER. I've been cheated on before. Guys have left me for other people. How can I deal with this relationship? I need help from someone :(
Well, like the other Advicenator had said, it doesnt seem like you like your boyfriend very much. You should take some time off from him, and take time to think about who you really like. And your boyfriend doesnt need to even know that you cheated on him, all you need to do id just break up with him. If you decide to go out with your ex later on, thats up to you. It seems like you would be happier with your ex than with your current boyfriend. Hope I could Help! (:
I put in a tampon on the last day of my period and kind of forgot about it. I know, I know. Weird. Anyway, I didn't really mess with myself down there and so I ended up wearing a tampon for 2 days straight. Last night, when the tampon was still inside me, I started to not feel good. Today I ended up starting the flu virus and been throwing up, running a fever, etc. So, I was thinking...if you leave a tampon in too long then it obviously can make you get things like flus. And people have been known to die of the flu. So, can you actually die from leaving a tampon in too long?
PS I did take the tampon out like an hour ago when I realized it.
You'll probably be fine, but always remember to take it out, if you leave it in too long, you could have toxic syndrome I believe so good luck, but I think you'll be fine (:
I like this girl and she finally gave me her phone number. We talked twice on the phone this week already. My brother (older) said not to call her too much if I'm interested because then she'll play hard to get and things will get too complicated. I don't want her to play hard to get? So how much is too much? Do I call her like once a week or is that too much too?
Your brother is right. Thank him for not giving you the wrong advice(: It's true she will try to play hard to get, and then it will take longer for you to get her.... which isnt good if you want her now. Call her about once a week, but when you guys start going out, (hopefully you will), try to call her everyday, and talk to her for at least 5 minutes, but dont become too clingy. Hope I could help! (:
Does guys prefer hot sexy girls or cute girls? What about clumsy girls? Smart or stupid? Any additional information can be added :)) Also what kind of girls do you think is hot and what kind is cute?
Different guys like different girls. Some guys like girls that play sports, some find its a turn off. But take an intrest in the things that guys like, for example, most guys like a girl who can hang with guys, or watch football, play call of duty... etc. (:
Okay, so I had sex last night with my boyfriend, and we didn't use any kind of protection. I'm usually on the pill, but missed a couple at the beginning of the month so I decided to take a break from it and start taking it when the next package starts, so that I won't get too off track. My question is, could it be very likely that I would get pregnant? I'm supposed to start my period in two days, which means I had sex after my ovulation days. And if I am pregnant, would I still miss my next period? I feel like two days would be too soon to tell and I'd start my period anyway. But I am completely confused.
It is possible that you are pregnant. If you dont want your parents to know, then go to planned parenthood. You can also contact your doctor, which I would strongly reccommend.