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a girl is following me
there is this girl who follows me everywhere and i dont really like her but i dont want to hurt her feeelings what should i tell her or say to her because shes allways following me in school
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Just say I really appreciate you giving me this attention, and I'm really flattered, but please stop following me around because I can't focus and it's kinda weird
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Suggest to her a better-looking guy for her to follow around. Seriously. Talking to her "nicely" wont help and telling her that you dont like her in that way wont help either. You have to make her NOT like you.
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If someone is following you and you do not like them, Just comfort her but be nice about it.
She's probably following you around because she likes you, You can just ask her "Why she follows you around" Although it is pretty obvious to why just see what she has to say.
You could write her a letter if you feel uncomfortable approaching her, Just say you didn't want to hurt her feelings but you don't see her that way and it makes you uncomfortable when she follows you around. That is pretty straight to the point and not too harsh.
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I had this guy follow me around, constantly ask me to hang out, text me, etc., it was really annoying and I didn't want to hurt his feelings either. But finally, I just said "hey, I just want to let you know, I'm interested in someone else, and I hope I never gave you the wrong impression" and just be nice. Obviously, you dot want to be mean but it's not fair to you or her to have this happening.
Don't lie either, like make an excuse you have a girlfriend. I've tried to this, thinking it'd be a nicer way to let him down, but he still didn't give up. That's why you just have to be honest and nice and tell her the truth.
I hope it goes ok! :)
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You have to talk to her about it as SOON as POSSIBLE. Have you told her you don't like her? I know you don't want to hurt her feelings, but if you tell her how you feel, then at least she'll know the truth. Just TELL HER EXACTLY how you feel about her. Trust me. I'm a girl, and I like a guy at my school that probably doesn't like me back. But he didn't tell me if he did or not. If he hurt my feelings, at least he would tell me the truth about it. You know? Seriously, talk to her about it. I mean like, NOW. And even if you don't like her, at least try to be friends. Eventually she'll get over you and find someone else, just like I'll get over my guy. I know you don't want to hurt her, but if you don't tell her how you feel, it'll end up hurting her more. Like I said, trust me. I know how girls feel about this stuff. Just tell her in school or maybe on Facebook if you guys talk on there or anything. I really hope this helps, inbox me if you have anymore questions :)
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