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Im so sick of her


Question Posted Friday June 10 2011, 3:01 am

HI
Well my friend Is lieing alot to me and asking me for money and say you pay me back never has. She always says that shes going to get some thing like before she said she's getting an ipad and iPhone when she isnt. Im really sick of it. And before she asked me for money so far i have given her about $20;00 or more in the last month and says she'll pay me back but never has. In class she always copies me with worksheets, projects and even the way i dress and do my hair! She copied me in a project and said that she did it first when i did and i had to do it all over again. And she gets all the attention when she copies me me im so sick of it. I know these are really not big problems but im really sick of it! I need help for her not to do it no more. :)


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jazzyvanscoy answered Saturday June 11 2011, 12:58 pm:
You guys clearly aren't friends! She is using you, and that's not okay. Friends are supposed to treat you better than this, you deserve better! Don't continue letting her use you, and end the friendship while you can.

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dearcandore answered Friday June 10 2011, 8:46 pm:
She is wrong to use you like that, but you LET her use you. You can't change her, you can only change yourself. Stop lending her money and letting her copy your work. End of story. If you can't do that, maybe you need to spend some time thinking about why you let yourself be such a pushover.

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Xui answered Friday June 10 2011, 5:20 pm:
Confront her,



Let her know that you are tired of giving her money, Let her know that you will not lend her anymore. You don't have to be bitchy about it just tell her no the next time she ask. If she begs, Keep telling her no and that you don't have any money.

Tell her what you told us, You are sick of it

If she gets all bitchy about it then it is her problem, Let her know that you feel she is using you.

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