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I love smone but having caste problem
I'm alisha 21 yrs. For last one year v r in love with each other, and he's caste-class iz greater than mine. And his fly is against this so he is nt ready 2 marry me.
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Alisha sweetheart, read closely what I am going to write here:
Caste systems are totally counterproductive. As human beings, only we can live our own lives, nobody else. Therefore, to be prevented from associating, loving or marrying someone due to an artificial construct such as race, caste, economic class or ethnicity, is an impediment to one's personal happiness. So if you guys are truly in love I say get married. If you or he is a doctor or has some other job that we can use here in the states or some other foreign country (England? Canada?) I recommend that you emigrate.
Look, there are all kinds of social organizations, but we must be rational. Caste systems are basically rolling human rights violations and for good reason. Please, please please, be adventurous in your life and don't let anything hold you back.
Also, read "Escape from Freedom" by Erich Fromme. There are some tremendous lessons in there about how people sabotage themselves by giving in to the herd thanks to their own insecurities. Please check it out and it may help you get past what you are experiencing now.
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