I am a seveteen year old teenage girl who has been with this guy for about two years. things have been great at first but now..well not so well. we love each other and i know that but we get into arguments every other day. it hurts me emotionally and i try to fix things. but each time i try it just fails. i love this kid but just some things he says can be very hurtful. how can i fix this??? and i tried talking to him how it hurt me also
Xui answered Friday June 10 2011, 11:22 am: The only way to fix it is to talk it out together, If he isn't willing to sit down and work it out then you will never get anywhere. Communication is the biggest thing in relationships and if you don't have that then your relationship is doomed to fail. If your boyfriend isn't willing to listen and talk things out then your boyfriend doesn't want to put in enough effort to be in a relationship and it may be time to let him go. You can't force someone to listen and you can't force someone to talk. [ Xui's advice column | Ask Xui A Question ]
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