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hi, im nicki n im 15. i used 2 be registered as angel05, but i changed it lol. anyways, things im into urm.....rugby, lads, shopping (like every over girl!!), going out with my mates and music, things like usher, britney, twista, greenday, killers (some songs)and destinys child.
i love to give advice to people and im always online so if you leave me a question i will reply asap!!
love ya all
♥ nicki xx
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Ok me & my friend are 15 & we are still virgins & we havent
even had our first kiss yet! We dont know what to do! Is it a bad thing
all of our other friends have done it all! We dont know if we should do it
now or wait we dont want to wait to long! But we dont want to end up being
pregnant at a young age! But we think its stupid that we havent even had
our first kiss! & we have gone out with tons of guys! tell us what you
think we should do we really need someones help!.

hi im 15 and havent had my first kiss or even had a bf yet, so dont worry. its normal, the right time will come for you guys.
luv nicki xxxxx

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omg..everytime i ask this question, people are like i dont get it..it's so easy...okay let me explain more...i have a windows XP so sometimes when im on my screenname i leave an away message!(if u dont get that than stop reading this) anyways so i leave an away message and switch users however when i go to check my away message and its a has been a long period of time the computer some how returned me from away and like some how signed me on...so i have all these conversations of people who are like hello are you there.?....what should i do

ill rate high for a good answer that works..and if you dont get it dont bother

hi, you could always appear offline, if it ses that.
luv nicki xxxxx

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ok..here it goes.

my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and 3 months...and dont get me wrong he is amazing and sweet and everything. but lately ive noticed that im looking at other guys more. like thinking they are cute or checking them out or whatever i never make a move on them tho. is this a sign that im losing interest or what??

im 13/f

hi. i dont mean 2 be mean here, but your 13 and uve had a bf 4 over a year! corse its alryt to be looking at other guys, your young!!!

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im gonna have a presentation in front of class.. im kinda shy and i was wondering what i can do to overcume my shyness and not be so afraid

hi, dont worry. im shy and had to do a presentation infront of my whole class and it went really well. i didnt want to do it at first, but once you get up there you just get used to it and forget all about your shyness and it will be over and done with really quick.
hope i helped and good luck with your presentation.
luv nicki xxxxxxxx ♥

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Hi,
I have a problem with this guy i like. i don't know if he likes me but my friend told him i like him. i never said anything. i did find out that they do im each other and talk about me. she said he will ask me out but i don't know. then he finally asked me out. i said yes. the next day i found him making out with my sister. i walked over to him and i said excuse me? then he ran away. we havn't spoken for 3 days. what should i do? i am 15 and a female. please help me.

i no this may sound stupid but he might have only gone out wif you cos he liked your sis and that he could see her more!
luv nicki xxx ♥

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i know the law of the difference of age in dating is but morally what should be the biggest gapin age of a relationship--a serious one

hi
if ya truly love someone, it doesnt matter what the age gap is.
luv nickixxxxxx ♥
ps please rate!!

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what does getting your cherry popped mean??

hi, it means having sex witj someone!
luv nicki xxxxx ♥

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Okay, well i started dating this gurl about 2 weeks ago and she is my 1st gurlfriend. We were at her house and she wanted to make out but i have never done it before and hse has amny times before. I did it anyways but then she kept on wanting to make out and i just went with it but i didnt "feel" anyhthing. I dont know if I just have to get used to it or i just dont like her anymore.... but today i took her to my aunts house for a graduation party for my cousin and i didnt feel comfortable around her AT ALL and i kinda avioded her and didnt talk much to her and i think she notcied i was acting strange but i dont know weather i should break up with her or not..... and now i get these stomach aches when ever i think about us making out and it makes me "sick" kinda and i dont want to hang out with her that much anymore cause i think all she wants to do is make out and I dont want to btu its hard to avoid her much cause we talk on the phone every night(since we were realyl good friends before the dating) and i ahve a lot of calsses with her and now our graduation dance is coming up and i dont really want to dance with her anymore..... what shoudl i do cause i dont want ot break up with her reight before the dance....=( ill feel too bad

tell her that there is more things in a relationship than making out. tell her all the fun things you could do.
hope i helped luv nicki xxxxx ♥

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Alrighty. I like a guy named Dylan. He's not cute. I don't know him. Yet, I still like him. I can't sleep at night because of him, and I feel it isn't fair. I want to do something about it. I want to ask him out. But I have never asked anyone out yet or had a boyfriend, but I think I am now ready and mature enough. My best friend told him that I liked him, and he replied, "I know." Now what? I mean, I want to get to know him, but we are both shy people. How do I get to know him? Then, how do I ask him out? What do I do?

if he knowz that you like him then ask him out girl! go 4 it and if it dont work then you've always got other people aint ya?!
luv nicki xxxx

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ive known kev since elementrty school and now we are in 10th grade and we started hooking up in january and we could talk about anything and he was the first guy ive ever been with and sexualy active with and he agreed to take it slow. but now he just thinks that because i love him im willing to do stuff all the time. i know this is gunna sound wrong but you need to help me with sumthin other then breakin up, i lovee him. well a few weeks ago his parents went away for the whole weekend, so i went over friday and i was gunna go home at 1 am (my parents were ok with it) and we were hookin up and did more than usualy, but in his bed and he ate me out , when i was gunna leave he told me no and held my hands on my bed and told me to tell my mom i was stayin at my friends, so i did (he looked angry and got mad when i was gunna) so i gave him head and everything that night and he was saying her loved me and stuff and wouldnt really let me go. the weekend after his friend georgie drove us around with his gf and they went in burger king to eat but we stayed in the car and we were kissing and he pushed my head to give him head but i was like isnt this weird and he said just do it, its not a big deal and i kind of cried doin it and he felt bad so he walked me home and held me close the whole time and kissed my forhead..now yesterday we went to his friends hotel party and we could stay there cuz everyone left and he kind of embarrsed me by sayin i give the best head and stuff.. but we had to sleep on the floor and the whole time he kept his hand on my ass or down my pants.. but today he was fine and we just madeout and stuff.. wut shood i say

tell him to take it slow.....HE SAID IT HIMSELF.
lu nicki xxxxx

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hello im a 13 year old girl and my boyfriend is 15 and a half well ill be 14 soon but any ways.. he wants to have kids i want to but i still think im too young if i wasnt in school then i think im for it b ut i dont know i need some advice.

your far too young, try talking to him and say that you want kids but later on in life cuz its a big responsibility
luv nicki xx

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OK, well, my BEST friend has a boy friend and I am absolutley in LOVE w/ this boy. PLUS, my bf, doesn't at all treat him good at all. She doesn't talk to him, whenever he looks or goes to hug her she is just like "GO AWAY" or "DON'T LOOK AT ME"
But, we flirt a lot, and she doesn't care, but I don't want to ruin their relationship if he starts to like me. TO TOP IT OFF: my OTHER best friend just admited to me that she has liked him for a long time. And I know he likes me, even a little bit
WHAT CAN I DO TO GET THE GUY, BUT KEEP THE FRIENDS?!
*STRESED AND CONFUSED*

if she dont care about u likeing him then you have a chance so get the opportunity and GO 4 IT!!
luv nicki xxxx

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I've liked this guy for over a year now, and he's had mutiple girlfriends. I'm really shy and haven't asked him out yet, nor plan on ever asking him out. He knows I like him, but prefers to reacll to us as "just friends" I don't know what to do.

if you want to keep it as friends then just do that. and if he feels the same then thats great!!
luv nicki xxxx

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My best friend has a really bad headlice problem. At school you can see them all in her hair! and the problem is i dont like hugging her because i feel shes going to pass them onto me. What can i do please help?? Shes had them for ages since ive known her mabe even before that.
rate high thanks

tell her about it! she may not know.
luv nicki xxxx

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okay well there is this guy that has liked me all year long and he tells me all the time that he always thinks about me and he dreams about me and it really didnt bug me because i just ignored him when he told me stuff like that. But then all of the sudden he put something in his xanga that scared me and has haunted me ever since. It said that he would take a bullet for me thats how bad he wants me. And i have been scared that he will do anything just to get me. I dont know if i should talk to the police or a counselor but if someone could please help. He stalks me all the time and he knows everything about me like where i live, what my mom's car looks like and the sticker on the back of the car. To me that is very scary. If someone could please help i am afraid for my life here... i feel like one day he will bring a gun to school and shoot me thats how bad he really wants me and if i say no to him then that makes him really mad. Please help ASAP! ITS URGENT!
thank you

i think you should tell someone b/c if not it will get worse and you might get scared even more
luv nicki xxxx ♥

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Do yOU find anything wrong with A white girl and a Black guy being in-love dating, and wanting to get married?

please, share your oppinion, and support it!
I am open to hear both sides!

theres nothing wrong with someone being in love if they are a diff colour! anyone can be n love with anyone (unless there is a massive age gap).
so dont worry
luv nicki xxxx ♥

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(sry,didn't know where to put this)
I got my period on halloween. I am the first of my friends to have gotten it. I know that it probably won't come back for a while, but it has already been just under 6 months. I have all the symptoms(irritablity, discharge, cramping) but I have been feeling like this for a week and it hasn't come. Any advice or help? I'll rate high!
~?

if its your first time on your period then it takes a while to get into a pattern so ur 1st period might be halloween and then next one might be the halloween after and the one after that might be 6 months later until it gets into a normal regular pattern.
hope i helped
luv nicki xxxxx ♥

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ok so my boyfriend and me have been going out for about a month and a half or so.. he goes to a different school and hes 16, im 13.. i loved him sooo much! last night i was talking to him online and i asked if he was gonna come and meet me at the ice skating rink (where i always meet him) and he said "maybe, i might go to the mall with some friends instead but if we dont go then ill come see you." i felt kind of offended by this that he wanted to go see his friends instead of me. i can only see him on friday nights so if he didnt come i wouldnt see him till next friday (if he decided to come) and so i was like oh, alright i guess. then later that night i was talking to one of his friends... (not a very good friend tho) i only met him last weekend when my boyfriend wasnt at the ice skating rink... we talked for like 5 minutes... then when we were talking online last night he asked if i was goin ice skating.. i said probably not, he asked why and i told him about me being kinda mad about john not going. so then i ask what jake has said about me to him. chris, (the guy im talkin to online) says he wont tell me what john said about me because he doesnt want to hurt me. i finally get him to tell me what jake does on the nights when he doesnt go to the rink with me. he tells me that john has been seeing another girl and goes to hook up with her and only comes and sees me if shes not availiable. im so upset when i hear this... but i think his friend likes me so i dont know if hes telling the truth... but john never tells me where he goes when he doesnt come.. it all makes sence... both stories do... i dont know what to do...

if hes seeing another gurl then dump him
luv nicki xxx ♥

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i'm 13 and i'm a Christian i'm really big on holding grudges and not forgiving people. i know i know its bad but i'm praying about it and working on it!! bible verses help me alot but lately i cant find any!! i need help on finding bible verses about forgiving..know any?? please help!!

look on google.
luv nicki xxxx ♥

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My breasts have been hurting a lot lately. I havent done anything major, I didnt fall or injure them at all.. no new medications, and my period isnt coming untill the middle of next month. What's wrong with me and what should I do?

there will be growing. dont worry
luv nicki xxx ♥

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