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Ok me & my friend are 15 & we are still virgins & we havent
even had our first kiss yet! We dont know what to do! Is it a bad thing
all of our other friends have done it all! We dont know if we should do it
now or wait we dont want to wait to long! But we dont want to end up being
pregnant at a young age! But we think its stupid that we havent even had
our first kiss! & we have gone out with tons of guys! tell us what you
think we should do we really need someones help!.
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The only way to make sure that you won't regret any decisions you make is to wait until the time is right. If you were to kiss someone now, just for the sake of kissing, you might be sorry that your first kiss wasn't meaningful.
Plenty of people haven't kissed by the time they're 15. Plenty of people have. Everyone is different, and that should be recognized even beyond the huge pressure society places on people to start being sexual...and the pressure people place on themselves.
What will a kiss for a kiss' sake give you? A chance to say that you've been kissed. That's all.
I will point out that kissing does not necessarily lead to sex, or pregnancy.
Whatever you decide, make sure you make the decision you are happiest with. And your best friend should do the same. It's great you have each other to talk to - and as proof that not everyone's kissed - but these choices are personal.
Your choice is basically waiting for the right time, or kissing for the sake of it. And nothing ever feels as nice when it's not special.
Best of luck.
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Well you at least have to kiss by the time your 15. Its ok if your a late bloomer. But you're right on the sex. Wait untill you're older, you don't want to end up pregnant at a young age. You have the right mindset for sex. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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I'm 14 and I haven't had my first kiss either -- yes I mean sometimes I feel really weird cause some of my friends have been kissed already and stuff, but then again, some of my friends haven't.. so I feel normal. I mean I don't want to waste my first kiss on something stupid like making out iwth a guy I don't even know or like or something. So whenever it happens ; it'll happen. You just gotta do it with someone you like alot because it's a very special thing you'll always remember ( god that sounds sappy lmao ) but anyways, it's completley normal, there's actually a bunch of girls who haven't been kissed either, so you are not alone! =D I hope I helped!
Love,
MELii
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hi im 15 and havent had my first kiss or even had a bf yet, so dont worry. its normal, the right time will come for you guys.
luv nicki xxxxx
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You are two of the smartest girls i have ever met!! I am exactly the same way! Its not stupid at all, to save yourself, for the right person. I'm fifteen, and i still have my first kiss, and i love it. It makes guys want you more, and then when you say no, its fuuun....anyway!!! Lol, ummm...YOU GO GIRLS!! *random* Keep going the way you are, and i promise you, you wont regret it!
~Melissa~
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Hey
Ok. Stay virgins. There is really no reason to rush that. But as far as
kissing, that's different. And you know what? Everyone is nervous
about kissing at first. But it's really not that hard. All you do
is go with the flow. It's not rocket science. It's more of
what you feel like doing. It's only so many variations that you can
do. Kiss the lips, put your tongue in his mouth and roll it around.
Kinda feel him out to see what he's doing and then just mimick
that. The only real advice I can say is don't use too much spit and
make sure that your breath is fresh.
The more you do it the better
you'll get and sooner or later you will develop your own technique.
Have fun and keep it sweet.
♥ maria ♥
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