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in 2013 Adult Swim added Rick and Morty a sci fi cartoon that people are calling the smartest tv show and mostly when you type something in that show constantly gets suggested and most of it's fan pay too much attention to it saying you need to have high iqs to understand the jokes but i think that is ridiculous so how can you ignore Rick and Morty i just don't like seeing those characters everywhere i look. (link)
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Things you don't like will always be around. Just because you don't like something doesn't doesnt mean you can cut any visual of them out.
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My wife and I have a great marriage. She and I have another male/female couple that we have regualr sex with. I currently make love to my male friend about four times a month. My wife and my male lover's wife would like us guys to have sex more often, they mentioned having sex about 15-20 nights per month. Is is a good idea? (link)
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I think fron your wording that you are having concerns. Which is perfectly normal. It is one thing to agree to have casual sex with other couples. But i feel like when it starts happening too often it might not be a good thing.
I would suggest talking with your partber about your concerns. 15-20times a month is almost the whole time. Maybe make sure that the feelings are platonic. If your partner starts a physical emotional connection to the other couples partner it might start a bad thing.
So i would suggest being very careful with how often this happens in the end you wany your partner to ve commited fully to you. And not be drifting to other partners. But if you are fully okay with a open relationship then thats okay but definetly sit down and talk to your partner about any concerns you may have before agreeing to more times a month
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OK so I am a lesbian and consider myself out of the closet, as in my friends and family all know and I am comfortable telling people. This one girl isn't homophobic she's just really annoying about it. Like she keeps thinking I have a crush on her even though she is really fat and ugly...she also always has to say she is straight. Like if I say "my hair is not straight, just like me." She'll have to chime in with "my hair is straight just like me." and it's really fucking irritating. She also has to constantly point out my sexuality whenever rainbows are involved, for example, my other friend had made phone cases for a scene in the play (we are all in drama club) and asked her to pick one. One of them had a rainbow design so she was all like "I'm going to pick this one in honor of *insert my name*" then for the next hour was like "do you get it...do you get why I picked it in honor of you" I'm not ashamed of being gay but holy shit I don't need to be reminded every 2 seconds. And if someone says faggot or something she'll start screaming, then be like "OMG we have a GAY person in the room!!!!" While pointing at me, or she *always* has to tell off homophobic people *because of me.* Standing up to homophobes isn't the problem, it's just that I don't like being singled out and othered all the damn time and even if you didn't have a single gay friend you still should be against homophobia...and if something even slightly good happens to the LGBT community she goes way over the top excited (more excited than any community member I've ever met and I've met plenty.) Of course she pins her excitement on me. Tbh I feel like she's gay or bi herself and doesn't accept herself, or her parents are against it, or something and is trying to live it out through me. In which case she sounds like cringey 12-14 year old LGBT emo kid who admins an LGBT Instagram page. A big reason I feel this way is how she behaves towards a mutual friend of ours. Lets call her N. N is an absolute sweetheart, a very likeable, terribly nice girl and I don't think she has a drop of hate inside her but honestly the way she acts towards N is so weird. Like she's developed this creepy Asian fetish after meeting her (N is Japanese) and is constantly hugging and grabbing her, and if anyone else tries to high five her or something she'll get insanely jealous and start death staring you before pulling her away and claiming she belongs to her. Any time she is absent from school we can't mention her name without her wailing at the top of her lungs,"*insert her name* CHAAAAN." Aside from that she acts like an overprotective white suburban mom. It's beyond the friendship thing, and I think N is too nice to say it but she doesn't like it. If she did have a crush on her whatever, but even if you did that's really creepy...if I acted like that to my crushes, I would be considered a predator and get a restraining order put on me. How do I get this girl to chill tf out? (link)
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I would maybe talk to this girl about how this kind of behavour is actually really offensive. and that you do not need people to mention every 5 minutes about your sexuality. if she is not okay with it then she has to be open with how she is feeling about the situation.
It could be that herself is a gay person and just doesn't know how to express herself in that way. If that is the case she needs to learn to deal with the idea of it instead of proclaiming her expressions through you,
It sounds like this girl has created a fantasy addiction to this girl, in her mind she thinks that these actions will eventually make N like her. and I think she needs to come to the realization that these actions are inappropriate and could potentially be ruining her friendship with N. , but even if you did that's really creepy...
Remember to be super honest and tell her that she needs to just relax and take it easy.
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I live on campus during the year and for the last two years I haven't had to go home for an extended period of time. I did go home for a short period during winter break and spring break and brought my cat with me both times and she was fine with it and loved having him around. She even cried about losing him when I had to take him back with me to college. Well this year there's a 50% chance that I'll have to go home for the summer.
I interviewed for a summer position so I could stay on campus again over the summer like last time, but my friend told me that all the positions are already filled from what she's overheard.
Now my mom is saying I can't bring the cat with me if I come home over the summer and won't budge. I also can't afford to pay for summer housing because it's 2k. I don't know what to do! I love my cat so much and don't want to give him up. I also don't want to home him temporarily with somebody else because I feel like 3 months is a really long time for my cat to be away from me and that he'll form new attachments to whoever I home him with. My kitty sleeps with me every night and I'm allowed to have him at college because he's my medical support animal for a heart condition I have.
I need to find a way to come up with 2k for the summer housing in less than three weeks and I don't know if that's even possible. My parents don't have the money to lend to me and I don't want to borrow it from other people.
I have about $500 I could spare at most, but not 2k. :( (link)
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So, first thing, your friend over heard. so she did not hear from the source that the positions are full. So be optimistic. you could still receive a position.
Is it possible for you to do a loan, or get a summer job by your parents?
what about doing spare jobs in the evening to earn extra cash. Or finding a way to earn other cash. Is there a friend that your cat could stay with in the time being? It won't get too attached that it won't want to be with you once you come back to live with the cat.
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I've been a "sugar baby" on and off for three years since I was 19. I've had two "sugar daddies" and gone on dates with other potentials, but they didn't work out for one reason or another.
I don't necessarily like doing it, but the financial and materialistic aspect of it always lures me back in. I always worry about my safety and the fear of being raped or worse because there's really 0 way to protect yourself once you're alone with him.
I haven't had that happen though and my experiences have been really good so far. I was able to make four times what I make at my normal job in a month and finally able to start paying off some of my bills last time, but I had to put a stop to it because he started becoming too demanding of my time and my family started wondering how I was getting so much extra money.
Now I'm really missing it because I've had to go back to the life of a normal worker. I'm starting to see my bank account dwindle back into the triple digits and it's really getting to me because when I was a SB I always had at least a couple thousand extra. Since then I've had my computer crash, and broke a phone so I had to replace those and paid for them outright so I wouldn't have to finance them and I had a car repair as well as Christmas. I also of course had my normal month to month bills.
This is going to sound super selfish, but I also really miss eating out at high end places where the bill would be over $300 at times and I didn't have to worry about it because the SD paid. I was able to buy healthy organic groceries and foods from special markets. The food was so amazing and so delicious and now I'm back to frozen dinners and chain restaurants. I get really sad comparing my life then to now...
So now I'm thinking about going back, but the hunt for a good SD is really long and terrible. There's so many slimy men who will try to trick you and who pray on younger girls like me. There's also a lot of men who are just straight up cruel and will try to belittle you into sleeping with them for small amounts of money.
I'm also getting a new roommate in three weeks because my old one is moving home so I don't now what she would think if she saw me leave and come back at odd hours.
It's so hard living like this again though...I think about it every day. What I could have compared to what I do.
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Making a ton of money is fabulous. especially at a young age. you can experience those life thrills. But you also have to look at your self respect as well..
You are pretty much selling yourself as a date. I mean some people enjoy it a lot. and that's fine. but I do agree with the previous advicer.
If you go to college you will be able to acquire a job that pays well in your field. You are still very young so you can be anything you want.
However, if being a sb is what you are really wanting to do, I do suggest cam ladies. because like the previous person said it is safer..
One other thing to think about is that one day you may want to start a family, and you will have a significant other, will they accept your life style or would they strive you to be something better than you are leading your self to be
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I am a nineteen year old female I'm 100 pounds and I'm 5'2''. I'm naturally thin and always have been. My diet is kind of all over the place I basically can eat whatever I want and not gain any weight ever. I'm skinny but I have a butt and boobs and recently I started working out again (I walk a few times a week and do yoga every day, usually I do yoga first then go running/walking) I had this problem last year when I did the same thing I immideately started to notice that my bobs were getting smaller and they're not that big to begin with (32B) if anything I'd want them to be a little bigger not get smaller. I'm already skinny but I just want to be more lean and toned and just have a little bit more muscle in general. last year i cut out all red meat and only ate grilled chicken and fish, only had whole wheat bread not white, only drank almond milk not regular, and lots of fruits and veggies in conjunction with this workout regimen. Is there something I'm doing wrong as far as my diet is concerned or are my boobs just going to get smaller regardless? Im currently following this workout regimen but want to know if I should follow my old diet or a new one so I dont lose too much weight. (link)
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You will find that your boobs actually carry a lot of fat weight. so when you start working out more and trying to be more lean and be more toned you will probably lose a bit of size in your boobs.
I agree with the previous advicer as well genetics to play a part. and if your family females have smaller boobs the chances are yours will stay smaller. But that is definitely not a bad thing.
As for fitness. I recommend toneitup.com they are great trainers. They have a daily online work out regiment that you can follow. They also have nutrition recipes as well as other work out videos that you can do. Their success rate it phenomenal!! I would start there :)
Jasmine :)
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I sacrificed my life for my daughter. Her father who I divorced because he,was,abusive, physically and emotionally. I moved away when the divorce was final and concentrated on my new job who gave me the opportunity for a good life to support my child because her father never helped. To this day he has never admitted what he did and I minimized what he did. So my daughter visits him like he was the one who sacrificed for her. I left my family, friends a familiar place now many years have past. Daughter got married to a multi degrees ass. He doesn't respect me and she goes along with him but acts like that's not the case. A mother knows. I tried to remarry, he died 14 months after we wed. Put me in financial turmoil. I'm crawling out but so tired. You are nothing without support. Nothing without family. I was there for my daughter but wasn't rich enough to pay for all her college degrees. She has three degrees and student loAns that she blames me for. I paid what I could trying to keep a home for her to come home to on breaks. She went to best schools. He got yet another degree but can't put her in the same life style she grew up in, I grew up in. The other day I got fed up and told him whAt I thought. I can't stand him. He lunged at me once before , he did it agAin. And he is a Professor. He is a piece of suit. His family are ghetto snakes. I look around me I have nothing to live for . I'm sure he continues to turn my grandson against me. The pain is too much . This is my last entry. Anonymous so no cry for help.looking for how to leave here without pain. Ill miss the Lord's blue skies. (link)
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First, please don't give up on yourself. you are a strong amazing person. you were strong enough to leave your ex husband and get a divorce.
You did what you thought was best to raise your daughter in the best circumstances that you could.
You have so much to live for. your grand children. You are a strong amazing person and have been so strong! you worked hard to get a great job!
Life has so many adventures waiting for you still :) Maybe take this time to talk to a therapist. They can help you get your light back :)
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well i been heartbroken over this guy named josiah for 4-5 years, we were close and almost dated. he led me on and used me til didnt need me anymore, and is my first love, kiss who lost virginity to etc. we ent from talking alot flirting etc to all sudden it stopped. idk why still, and foundout from someone that is married now. i tried sending a friend request on facebook, playing it off as dont have these feelings still, but denied request but didnt block. want talk to him so badly, as did have a miscarriage of his child and never griefed properly as kept it from my family cause they lecture me about having feelings for him tho thats not something i can help , tried everything i could think of to move on, and now in a relationship with lance, who treats me like queen do care for just not as much as do josiah. he knows had thing for him in past, as told him how he hurted me badly emotionally dont think it was intentional tho cuase he's best guy i ever knew before lance. what should i do? and want make my current relationship work though im just settling for lance since cannot have josiah like we were... (link)
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First off, I know what it's like to have a first love haunt you for years. You keep thinking about the good memories, the plans you had and your good experiences. Those are good to remember.. But you must also think about all the bad times.. the times he made you feel crappy. Or the times he didn't treat you very well. The times he made you feel like you weren't worth it. And then you can look back on your relationship correctly. It is true that you will always remember your first love. But at some point we all have to come to realizing that sometimes first, second, orthird loves just don't work. It is not based on anything you or he/she may have done, other than it's just not meant to be.
I think Lance is a great catch! And it's not that your settling. Because your not. It could be that you need to heal your past wounds first. If Lance makes u have butterlies in your stomach; And if you get excited to talk to Lance or see him than that's a great sign! But you may be feeling not ready to put yourself 100% into the relationship then maybe work yourself a bit..
I found a program online that has helped me several times. Its called healmybrokenheart.com. I have never paid for the service but have used the online resources/materials and email subscriptions. I recommend you trying it out.
And just remember.. It does get easier. And you can Be happy. You are worth it.
Jasmine**
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Hello, this is kind of an awkward question. So me and my friend are in the 9th grade and we were doing homework in my room and she fell asleep on the bed. But her feet were sticking out, so her feet were on top of the desk and they happened to be right on my notebook. I didn't want to wake her up so I just kept working with her feet in my face lol, but her toes kept wiggling a lot so I got distracted and started playing around with them.
for example I pushed her toes a few times and they would start wiggling by themselves. Then I would hold her toes still to make them stop wiggling. so I did this whenever I wanted her toes to start wiggling lol. Then I turned on the radio to see what happens, and when I pushed her toes they start wiggling to the beat of the song. I thought it was really cute, so I made them follow my voice instructions too, for example I whispered "wiggle faster" while her toes were wiggling, and suddenly they started wiggling faster. and when I whispered "point your toes", she makes the tippy-toes like a ballet dancer. I think she was dreaming about dancing coz we both like to dance :P
Is it a normal thing for me to think her feet are cute, and to play with them this way? I haven't told her about this yet, coz I think it might sound awkward telling her that I kept her toes wiggling like nonstop while she was asleep. Thanx (link)
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Yes, That is definitely a weird thing to do. I would advise not telling her, because she maybe not so happy about it.
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How much bleach would it take to kill a 5'4" 115 LB Female? (link)
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First off. I just want to ssy that i am truly here for you:) I know life can be hard and super challenging at times, and we want nothing more to let it win and m stop fighting.
I dobt know you.. But i know this much. Yoy are a beautiful young woman with whole life agead if her. Filled with unique talents and a personality like no other! Struggles suck. And somedays it seems like life will never get better. But it does. One step at a time.
Im here to help :) is there a particular reason or event that has happend that has put you towards this type of thinking?
Cant wait to hear from you!
Jasmine
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Okay, so how it all started.
A close friend has a tendency to ignore me when he gets upset. I hate being ignored, it hurts. He always has excuses to ignore me for days!
So the last time he did it I don't know what got into me but I just decided to cut. To my surprise, it actually helps! Not the pain but the blood. I don't know but seeing the blood makes me feel way better. I feel less bad. So after that I cut every time I get angry, frustrated or when I just feel bad. Well, my life isn't exactly great, I have other better reasons for cutting besides my dumbass friend.
I do not cut deep so I do not think its any dangerous but should I still stop? I cut my thighs and hips not my wrists so no one finds out. If I have to stop how do I stop? Its really addicting. (link)
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So its good that you want to quit and are aware that this might not be the healthest thing to be doing. Everyones life has hickups and problems in them. Even if it doesnt seem like it. But when we come accross these road blocks or challenging moments. We need to figure out a way to deal with them and get through them in a healthy way.
Here is a website that I think will be very helpful.
https://www.thehopeline.com/resisting-the-urge-to-cut.
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So I pretty much want to forget about my dad he hurt me a lot and I even searched the internet for help but nothing helped me My dad was abusive and he cheated on my mom a lot. He also sexually assaulted me when I was little. Pretty much my mother had me at a young age around 15. And my 'father' was fine and all as I can recall. But when my mother left to work he would bring me with him and he would pick up a woman and bring them over to our house and well you know have sex with them. What was worse is that I had to be in the room with them when they were doing that, I remember when he did that and he turned all the lights off cuz u suppose he didn't want me to see I dont know and when he did I would cry silenty. He left me when I was 5 and I never knew he was abusive towards my mother till the day he hit her in front of me and my brother and I tried defending her and when she called the police he left and I heard he is in mexico now I always try forgetting him but its hard and he pretty much affected my life. Please give me some advice...... (link)
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I am so sorry for your experiences growing up. It is unfair that you had to experience such tragedies. I would advise maybe talking to a counselor. They have ways to help talk you through your past and making you excited for the future.
I believe that medical therapy would help in this situation. Best of luck :)
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im girl 17,i told my classmate(boy) who is also my crush in the concrete i gave him a note, saying i like him..two days later, i asked him to talk about it bc he didnt give any respond and i wanted to how he feels ,during school,i asked him if we could go and talk somewhere private , he said it is nice that i told him about my feelings for him,he also told me that he know how hard it must´ve been for me to hide my feelings from him.then he said he doesnt have time for relationship bc he has activites besides school (he plays guitar, he dances)and also he told me he firstly wants to develop more spiritually..(if that makes sense) bc we go to catholic church ,and then he hugged me saying that we should continue to be friends and then i deleted him from my friends on fb during summer holidays bc i was always checking if he is online.now is new school year and he found out i removed him from my friends on fb, and he texted me why i did that, and if he did something wrong he is sorry , i told him i did it bc it hurts me and that i dont want to be friends, and he said it´s ok, i thought it would hurt less, but it hurts me more ,now i ignore him bc i dont know how to act to him..he sent me friend request on fb but i didnt accept it yet..he was good friend to me before i told him about my feelings..please help me should i be his friend again or not? if yes what should i tell him,why i suddenly accepted his friend request on fb,and also today is his birthday, should i wish him happy birthday even i removed him from my friends??..thanks for help :) (link)
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Liking someone is very difficult. And it is difficult to express feelings to someone. So props on that. I do think he is trying to be your friend at least so I would add him back. It's better to be friends then nothing at all.
Him wanting to find himself spiritually is completely normal at this age. And you should sup port him in his process. It's nice to hear a happy birthday from friends I haven't talked to in a while
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My boyfriend just went to Mexico for 10 days to visit family. He said it will be hard to contact me with his cell service not working out there. We knew we werent going to talk to each other for 10 days. So he leaves and I see location activity on Facebook which basically tells me he is not in Mexico to my understanding. Now him and his dad own a business so maybe be left his phone with the dad. The thing I don't understand is active FB activity. Why would anyone else be on his FB? He contacted me mid trip on FB messenger to say hi. Telling me it was hard to get on wifi because it was slow. I wanna believe him but his traveling mobile activity on FB is making me very questionable. Why should he go out of his way to lie to me? Maybe I am overacting? What do you think? I don't know how to feel right now. Freaking out over FB seems silly but I don't know. :(
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First off... get off face book. Facebook is ruining your relationship. And unfortunately it ruins a lot of relationships! there is no reason for you not to trust him. he is in mexico with his family. end of story. Facebook could be glitching for all you know.
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26/F
He's 33
He and I started talking on Facebook in 2013. We lived across the country from one another, and kept it going for almost 2 1/2 years. It was basically a long distance relationship without the actual title. Phone sex, FaceTime sex, sexting, nude photos, etc. We were both busy with our lives and couldn't seem to make a visit happen either way. We had talked about me moving there to be with him and we had exchanged "I love you's" for over a year. I began making plans to move there, but didn't tell him because I wanted it to be a surprise. Right before I was going to tell him and follow through with the move, he admitted he began seeing someone there. I backed off immediately, but still moved anyway because I had already set everything up to move; I didn't want my money and efforts to go to waste. He could've said "you're coming here? I choose you" but he didn't.
I've been here a few months now, and he suddenly reached out to me yesterday. He knows I ended up coming here. But he's still with that woman he chose over me. Why is he reaching out when he's still with her? I don't get it. Is he trying to be friends? Is he testing the waters to see if I still want him because his relationship isn't working out? I haven't said anything to him. I left his text unanswered. If he wasn't with anyone I might consider responding, but since he is still with her I feel like that's not appropriate.
Can someone, a man preferably, explain why men do this? We're not friends on Facebook anymore, but he liked a couple of my posts right before the text happened. Which means he looks at my profile. One of the posts he liked was one where I talked about how I made the best of the move and it's worked out for me so far, and that I feel really happy. Could it be that he realizes I'm moving on and doing fine here in a city I came to specifically for him? It's just confusing to me. I wish I understood how the male brain works. (link)
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I believe he is reaching out to you, so he can try and get the best of both worlds. I congratulate you on not responding and realizing that it is inappropriate. a lot of other people would not see that. what ever his case is. he has moved on and is coming back into your life, making it impossible for you to move one.
I think he misses you and there fore wants to hold on to what ever part he can of you. But that is not fair to you at all.
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Heey..! Sometimes i feel scared to just open myself to some random stranger but it feels really good and usually i get really great advice so for that Thank you darlig.. ♥♥
Now my problem. So i have this one boy i really like we used to text a lot like every night and he was so sweet. Our messages were like i won because u wish me good look (thats what he sent me) or he used ro pretend that he was mad at me and then said how he can never be mad at me and he was generally so sweet. He is actually really shy but he opened to me, he talks about his family,music his problems and we gossip a little heh.. And all my freinds say you are really cute together he likes you 100% hes just to shy to ask you out. But i cant trust that if he doesnt say that he eloves me. If those words dont come out of his mouth. My main problem right here is that these past maybe week he's been quit cold toward me and i think thats all because of his friens. When he is with his friend he acts all stong and something gets in his head, Thats just not the person i know and that not the person im in love with. So i got mad at him and he knows that im mad and he told me just to call him when im not mad anymore.. and it hurt me that he didnt do anything so i would be not mad at him and it showed me that he doesnt care that much about me as i though. And im stuck right here. I really love him and i used to be happy all the time ournd him but right now i feel really miserable.I can tell him about his friends because he wont trust me and we will be in much more of fight.. I dont know what to do.. please help. Should i stop loving him somehow? What should i do? (link)
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Friends may say that someone likes you just because it seems like it to them. Now if he hasn't said he loves you and you two are actually dating. just be aware that you do not need to say I love you, to know that they love you. it is also in their actions. how they speak to you. how they treat you.
Guys are always showing off to their friends. they do not want to come off as wiped or a pussy. so they show off to their friends as strong and silent. I would not take this personally. He may act a little bit different when it is just you two because he cares for you in a different way then he cares for his friends.
I think you are just being a tad silly for being mad at him for acting a little different in front of his friends then how he acts when it's just you two.
Ask your self what is it that you are unhappy with? has something changed in your relationship that is different from when you first started going out?
I'm not quite sure what you mean about tell him about his friends?
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So my frined... let's say her name is Sally. Sally dated this guy and then they broke up. While they dated, Sally introduced me to him and we became sort of friends, kind of.
We talk a little bit sometimes. It's never casual though, we only text each other if one of us has a question for the other. When him and Sally broke up, they remained to be best friends.
Anyway, all three of us are in a group chat. The other day I posted a Facebook pic and he asked me a question about it in the chat. I realized that he didn't like the pic, but saw it, so I told him to like it. When he did, he said "Like it just for u" and my friend was liek "Omg betrayed (link)
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Since it is still very fresh and new since your the best guy friend and best girl friend broke up. I would be very cautious. it is very normal for her to be jealous, as she still probably has feelings for said guy.
I would be very careful because yes, as the previous advisor said,. he could be just being very nice. but I think it also could be more. and you don't want a guy to come between you two girls as a friendship.
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Good morning,
I'll start off by telling you that I'm 25/f. I work in a university in an office, 8:30-5:00. Seems like a pretty regular work schedule. But, for some reason, it's really taking a toll on me. I'll elaborate. There are three of us in the office and we all take lunch at separate times, with the exception of the manager. He is not included in the three people I just mentioned, so he takes lunch whenever he wants. Because I was the last person to be hired in the office, I take the latest lunch, which is from 1:30pm-2:30pm. This has posed a few problems for me. I am hypoglycemic, which means that my blood sugar drops and can get very low. In order to avoid this, I typically eat about every 3 hours. But, when I have a full meal, I can extend it a little bit longer. The problem is that if I'm eating snacks all day, that's not very satisfying. By the time that it's lunch time, one of two things has happened:
1. I've eaten way too much throughout the day. I've had to be eating snacks continuously to avoid my sugar dropping and at 1:30, I'm not even hungry, but I still have to eat... because I'm not gonna get another chance to eat until 5.
2. I haven't eaten enough and I'm starving. I have a glazed look in my eye. My hands are shaking. Basically all the symptoms of a hypoglycemic person.
If I were able to switch my time to a more descent time, like 12 or 12:30, it would be a lot easier for me!
When I leave at 5, the food is typically still heavy in my tummy because it's only been about 2 hours since I ate last. It makes it difficult to feel energetic after the work and get things done, like going to the gym and running errands. I am trying to get my lunch switched, but it seems like my supervisor isn't budging.
I know that I need to find a new job soon because they are not being at all sensitive to any accommodations I have requested. I requested a day off in April because it's a Jewish holiday and I was denied the request because it's a "blocked off day." However, I think religious observation is a pretty legitimate exception. I think that switching my lunch time due to a medical condition is also a legitimate exception. But, still, no one budges. So, I am looking for a new job. In the meantime, can anyone offer me some advice on what to do?
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If your anything like me, change is scary! And the thought of looking for a new job is just as scary. however, you should be able to go to management and have them be open you your medical condition. Because they don't this may also be a workers labour board concern,. and might be something to look into as well.
Because of the fact that is for a medical condition and could make you ill if you do not eat in the right amount of time, it could also be life threatening. i would advise maybe talking to your doctor. also start looking for a new job asap.
Your life is way too short to be stuck in a job that they wont take your medical health seriously.
hope this helps!
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Okay, here's the quick version: I have a crush, my friend has the same crush, and I'm getting mixed signals from him. Crush knows that friend likes him, seemed to not care when I asked him about it. Doesn't know that I like himn though, but he's had many people like him in the past, including some of my other friends. We're only in 6th grade, and I tend to overthink EVERYTHING. So, what do I do? (link)
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First off, you need to have a very open conversation with your friend. Two girls whom like the same guy can turn out very very badly. and sometimes can ruin a great friendship.
You two are very very young. so you have to consider.. is this boy worth ruining your friendship with this girl over?
I would advice you both not pursue this because you don't want to hurt each other.
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My friend told my crush that I like him. What should i do? (link)
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Be confident and excited. Now that he knows, the opportunity to get to know him and maybe turn things into more than friend. Be exactly who you are. if he likes you,. you want him to like you for you. You are worth it.
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