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Does he like me?
So my frined... let's say her name is Sally. Sally dated this guy and then they broke up. While they dated, Sally introduced me to him and we became sort of friends, kind of.
We talk a little bit sometimes. It's never casual though, we only text each other if one of us has a question for the other. When him and Sally broke up, they remained to be best friends.
Anyway, all three of us are in a group chat. The other day I posted a Facebook pic and he asked me a question about it in the chat. I realized that he didn't like the pic, but saw it, so I told him to like it. When he did, he said "Like it just for u" and my friend was liek "Omg betrayed <\3".
Later on, I was leaving somewhere. Before I left, he texted into the group chat "Sally, call me" and my friend was like "One sec" and he was like "Wait let's have a group call. Can we pleasee". I said I have to leave and he asked for how long and I said hour and he said "Aite we'll wait 4 u" and Sally was like "We're gonna wait an hour to call?" and he was like "Yea until she gets back."
While I was gone, they had a brief conversation and he said "When I earn my first million, I'll take us all out to a nice restaurant."
When I came back, we called each other and whatnot and he talked to both of us at a time. I'm very obsessed with Korea and the language and he happens to be Korean so he asked me at the end "Can you read Korean like Sally can?" and I'm like "Yea" and he was like "Wow really? That's really..." & Sally was like "You sound so impressed." & he was like "I am impressed when someone takes the time to..." and blah blah then he was like "Are you learning Korean?" and I''m like "Yes" and he's like "I can teach you."
After, I texted Sally "Wow you guys have an interesting relationship" because they were literally arguing the whole time and she sounded so pissed. She confessed to me that she was jealous and annoyed and she's scared that he'll like me more than her. She said she wishes that me and him never talked and she never liked the idea of us talking.
But I don't see how he likes me? Does he like me? I honestly think he was just trying to be nice since I don't know him that well... what do you think?
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Since it is still very fresh and new since your the best guy friend and best girl friend broke up. I would be very cautious. it is very normal for her to be jealous, as she still probably has feelings for said guy.
I would be very careful because yes, as the previous advisor said,. he could be just being very nice. but I think it also could be more. and you don't want a guy to come between you two girls as a friendship.
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No you shouldn't worry too much about it because it does sound like he was just being nice. Not that he likes you.
Guys tend to be more blunt. Typically, if they like you.. it doesn't take long for them to let you know that. Their hints aren't quite as subtle as girls usually.
Flirting isn't always the case, sometimes people just like to be nice. And sometimes people just enjoy conversations. I have a fiance but I still enjoy having conversations with people.
Keep it cool and assure your friend that everything is fine! Your friends feelings matter in this scenario. Chicks before.... yeah.
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