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Is this normal or OK?
Hello, this is kind of an awkward question. So me and my friend are in the 9th grade and we were doing homework in my room and she fell asleep on the bed. But her feet were sticking out, so her feet were on top of the desk and they happened to be right on my notebook. I didn't want to wake her up so I just kept working with her feet in my face lol, but her toes kept wiggling a lot so I got distracted and started playing around with them.
for example I pushed her toes a few times and they would start wiggling by themselves. Then I would hold her toes still to make them stop wiggling. so I did this whenever I wanted her toes to start wiggling lol. Then I turned on the radio to see what happens, and when I pushed her toes they start wiggling to the beat of the song. I thought it was really cute, so I made them follow my voice instructions too, for example I whispered "wiggle faster" while her toes were wiggling, and suddenly they started wiggling faster. and when I whispered "point your toes", she makes the tippy-toes like a ballet dancer. I think she was dreaming about dancing coz we both like to dance :P
Is it a normal thing for me to think her feet are cute, and to play with them this way? I haven't told her about this yet, coz I think it might sound awkward telling her that I kept her toes wiggling like nonstop while she was asleep. Thanx <3
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No, there's nothing weird or worrying going on here. It might be a little awkward telling her you think her feet are cute as it might imply an attraction to her that she might not be completely comfortable about. You know her well, so you choose. The thing about commanding her feet while she was asleep would, I think be a really cool and fun and interesting thing to tell her. There are conflicting opinions about how receptive we are to conversation when asleep, and in the different phases (we 'sleep' on different levels it would seem, our brain activity varies, in some phases we are more inclined to dream etc). Some claim that listenning to conversational recordings of a foreign language really helps them to learn it fluently. Some doubt this theory. How about trying again? Or how about her instructing your toes while you sleep? It can be difficult to fall asleep 'to order' as it were, but there may be good opportunities. Can you both do it? Was it a 'one-off'? And so on. Personally, I'm fascinated by your question. It's one of those things I would love to have seen.
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Messing with sleeping is tons of fun.
Just don't wake them up suddenly, that is not cool
Tell your friend you are a toe whisperer, You have the power to control toes!!!
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It's not abnormal, just that this is a situation which doesn't happen often to people, such an opportunity and mix of perhaps boredom with the homework. I can easily see myself doing the same thing, even though I do not have a foot fetish.
Now if you are wondering how this is possible that she responded in sleep as she did, that would be due to her subconscious mind. Perhaps she is a light sleeper or even in a deeper sleep, her subconscious still picks up on some things going on around her or can hear suggestions or commands and decide whether to follow them. My busband has fallen asleep while watching a movie that he really wanted to see or after asking me to talk about my day, he's fallen asleep. WHen I wake him, I say he was asleep and missing out. Yet curiously he can remember about half of what was said. With a movie, he was able to tell me some of what happened. I think your friend is very comfortable around you and trusts you to begin with. If it were about hypnosis, she might be the type who easily falls under the hypnotists suggestion. Not all people can. Some prefer to stay in control of all their actions, like me. LOL. If she has a great sense of humor and enjoying laughing at funny stories and jokes, then she may appreciate having you tell this story. I just wouldn't ever share it with others and leave it up to her to decide whether she will share this story or not.
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Your fine ! She was probably messing around with you too! You guys sound like a good pair of friends. I wouldn't say anything since it has been a couple days since it happened but if something happens you could totally bring it up if you think about it. Don't over think it :) xoxo
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Lol, that's a cute story. What you are describing is silly, but not abnormal. People do all sorts of silly things!
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Yes, That is definitely a weird thing to do. I would advise not telling her, because she maybe not so happy about it.
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yeah totally, just wouldnt tell her tho he may think its weird, and have nice day
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Dear awkward questioner:
It might be normal for you or it might be just normal 9th grade curiosity.
If you find sensual pleasure in the activity it may become a fetish. Some notable foot fetishers are Giacomo Casanova, George du Maurier,
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe, Thomas Hardy,
Elvis Presley, Andy Warhol, Pharrell Williams
Quentin Tarantino, Jack Black. Marilyn Manson,
Brooke Burke, Rosie Perez, Cara Delevingne
Enrique Iglesias. -- It's nothing to feel bad about. [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)
I'll bet that you're an amazing and intelligent person who's going to live a great life. Have fun and don't be too serious about anything but school.
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