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Hey! mi name is kerri. i luv to danceand im in track. i have brown hair and brown eyes.im gonna b a freshman in highskool.
Gender: Female
Location: Wisconsin
Age: 14
AIM: KiwiTheDancer08
Member Since: November 2, 2004
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Okay, I'm 13 and i'm 5'0 (yeah im small!) and i weigh about, lets see 60-70 pounds. And I'm very concerned about it. Do you think I'm TERRIBALLY under-weight, or just little low?

And also, I HATE milk, so I dont drink that.
I eat alot of meat.. probally 3 times a week.
I eat ALOT of junk foods... i'd suspect to be fat by now.
I drink alot of soda, if that helps. And water also.

Last time I had a check-up, I was 12, and I weighed about 58 pounds.
And everyone is jellous for some reason that I'm that weight.

So, can I have your advice on how to gain about 10 pounds? I'm really into your advice, I'll read it thougly, completly untill im 100% okay with it and rate it what it deserves!

Please help :)

xOx Laura (link)
you might be that weight because you probably have a fast metabolism so you shouldn't be worried unless the doctor tells you to worry. if you really want to gain weight though, gain it from healthier foods. eat foods like cheese and other food that has more fat in it. hope i helped a little. ~Kerri~


I'm 13 and i'm looking for a way to earn some cash, and babysitting seems the best way, trouble is i dont really know anyone i could babysit! does anyone have any ideas on how i could find some customers?? (link)
make flyers and put them all around your town


does anyone know how to get a babysitting job.
need a babysitting job.
plz help me. (link)
send out fliers around your neighborhood or the whole town you live in. put the days your available to baby-sit. i did that and i got tons of jobs. ~Kerri~


okay so i have this friend (im 13/f-hes 13/m.)he always seems depressed about everything. he says he really depressed and ive tried everythign to help him.he says he knows cutters and im worried that he cuts.he got out of this REALLY deep relationship with my best friend and he was soo happy with her but without her he seems empty and more depressed. he likes a new girl now and that helps...but im not sure how to help him get outta his "I hate life. It's not worth living." mode.and hes not suicidal-just any ideas? thanks a bunch!!! i rate extremely high!!! (link)
To make him happy and get him out of his "I hate life. It's not worth living" mode, I think that you should take him places like the movies, a fair or carnival (if there is one by where you live), out for pizza, or just to a party or to hang out, and try to make him laugh. after awhile it might help him get out of that mode because he will see how fun life is and that he can have fun without your best friend. (no offense to her). hope i helped. ~Kerri~


does anyone know any shampoos/conditioners that make your hair like really silky??? i use pantene but my hair like got used to it and it doesnt work very well anymore... 5 for good answers... (link)
garnier fructise works really good! my cousin uses it and here hair is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo silky! hope i helped. ~Kerri~


well i need some advice because i've been wearin a thong for about a year now and i've kept it a secret from mi mom but yesterday she found 1 ov them and she didnt really care and wen she asked if it waz mine i said it was my friends. and my problem is i really don't wanna tell her tha truth... :( ( sould i stop wearin them??) i don't know wat 2 do if she brings up tha subject again? thanx ur advice would mean a lot to me.... (link)
if she brings it up again just tell her that you wear them. i don't think she should be mad or anything because thongs are just underwear. its nothing bad. but if she doesn't bring it up again then don't tell her if you don't want to. ~Kerri~


Im wondering if my period should be coming soon. I've done some reading and I found out that I have most of the "signals" *Pubic hair, boobs are growing, growth spurt, underarm hair, discharge etc.* But its been this way for almost a month and nothing coming? Should it be coming soon? *Btw im 13* (link)
yup its probably going to come soon. you might want to start carrying pads with you just in case. ~Kerri~


dose any one know the name of this song ( a guy raps part of it and a girl sings the chorus)

...cant really explain it but im so into you

thats a line from it

plzz help (link)
so into you by fabolous featuring tamia


people say im really pretty and nice but it doesn't seem like anybody wants to be my friend. should i be like hyper and wild? cuz i have noticed that people like hyper and wild friends. idk what do i do? (link)
i think that you should just be yourself but maybe be a little more outgoing if you are not already doing that. you shouldn't have to change for people to like you. people should want to be your friends for who you are. ~Kerri~


I think my parents are gonna get a divorce? What do i stop or help to prevent that?
(link)
sit down and talk to them about it first and let them hear why you don't want them to get a divorce. it might help a little bit. i'm not sure that you can stop them from getting a divorce though because if they are not happy living together then maybe its for the best. but i would still try to talk to them! ~Kerri~


does anyone no any good tanning products or any good ways to get tan??

thankz

i rate high :) (link)
if you want self tanner neutragena is good from what i've heard. otherwise just lay outside and get a natural tan but if you don't have time for either or you just don't want to do either of those go to a tanning bed or get a spray tan done professionally.


i have to go to a graduation party tomorrow and theres a swimming pool and everyones gunna be swimming! well i just got my period for the first time thursday night ( graduation party's sunday) should i swim? and if i do do i wear a tampon? please help what do i do? (link)
if you wear a tampon then yes go swimming but if you don't then i would still go even if i couldn't swim. just say you forgot your swimming suit or sumthing. don't let your period ruin your fun! ~Kerri~


i like this guy but he lives far away. Everyone keeps telling me that he is going 2 ask me out. But it will be hard cuz were so far away. What should i do? (link)
do wat you think is right


i was in my friends pool all day today and after a while, it hurt when i wiped my eyes so i stayed in for like a half hour longer and went home. now my whole face is red and hurts really bad. how can i treat this right now and without having to go to the store because i have no one to drive me there (link)
just use lotion or if you have it use aloe cuz it really helps sunburn.


i got my period for the first time thursday night and today is saturday.. it was like kinda heavy up until friday night..is that supposed to happen? cuz like now its like i didn't even have my period because its barely coming out..someone please help me and tell me if this is normal (link)
yup its normal. if its slowing down it probably means that it is going to stop soon. ~Kerri~


♥ hey.
i have a Question. At night I exfoliate and use moisturizer and i sue stridex pads. Should I use my stridex pads after i moisturize? or will that be to much? and i also have a cleanser and Do u think i should use an exfoliater then cleanse? Im so confused because I want to do all of that but it might be too much for my face. what do you think? -THANKSS-xoxo I RATE HIGH! And also if I should ue all of that..then in what order? (link)
i use stridex before i moisterize because it dries out my skin so then the moisterizer helps it alot. ~Kerri~


My bro is in iraq and its hard to deal with cause one of his friends was killed and the other one shot last week. how should i deal with it? (link)
try looking for an online support group or a support group in your area. i'm not sure if they have them but if they do it might help you. if you can't find any groups just try talking to someone you can trust with your feelings. or get a journal and write down your feelings. it helps. ~Kerri~


ok, i want to get into really good shape for the upcoming school year because i plan on working out hard over the course of the year. im trying to get my stomach to get really flat and its not working. i do sit ups every single day and i do a total of at least 4500 in a week. i stretch everyday too and i go on walks as often as possible, probably a few times a week. i swim twice or three times a week too but nothing seems to have any affect on my body. any advice? plz help! i rate high for any reasonable answer (link)
try running because its good cardio and from expierence it works. also try to eat at least three dairy things a day because recent studies show that having dairy in your diet can help reduce stomach fat. hope i helped. ~Kerri~


when i open google, there is a drop down list of things i have in teh past searched and i need to know if there is a way to delete some or all or not havea drop down list. i hae already deletd ym history.. i neeeed help. (link)
go to tools and then options and then under saved information unclick the litte box next to where it says "save information i enter in web page forms and search bars". thats what I did and it worked. i hope it helps you. ~Kerri~


im 15 years old.. and my best friend is a guy named mike.. and me and him have always had something for eachother and been together hooking up off and on for about 2 years.. and he has been the BIGGEST part of my life and my heart for longer than that.. and just recently he started dating this girl that i absolutly do not get along with and never have.. and the first day they staretd going out i got into a fight with him over something i said to her. and he chose to defend her and be on her side over me. and that hurt me more than imaginable. but hes hurt me in similar ways to this and made me hysterical to many times to count.. and every time he does we fight and i try so hard to walk away from him but i never can.. and i always end up going bak to him as soon as he tells me he loves me and hes sorry. and i just dont know how to be without him anymore and that i need him and am not whole without him.. can you please tell me what to do because ireally cant take this pain anymore my hearts in so many pieces it just hurts to even breathe.. (link)
i think that the next time he does it you should walk away because you don't deserve to be treated like that. even if its hard to walk away it might be for the best and you never know he could change and then you might be friends with him again.




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