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Brother


Question Posted Sunday July 3 2005, 1:49 am

My bro is in iraq and its hard to deal with cause one of his friends was killed and the other one shot last week. how should i deal with it?

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xOtWiXi answered Monday July 4 2005, 1:23 am:
It must be so hard to be going through this right now. I honestly can`t imagine what you`re going through. There is no exact way to get over it and deal with it, but you have to talk about it, don`t keep it bottled up. Confide in a family member or very close friend, and if you can`t express your emotions through them, get a journal online or for you to write in for just your eyes. Talking about it won`t make it go away, but you`ll feel soo much better. If you ever need to talk - feel free to message. Hope I`ve Helped - and I hope you`re brother stays safe ♥

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twistedteen25 answered Sunday July 3 2005, 10:31 pm:
just live everyday with laughter inside even though you'll be worried because you don't wanna lose your bro. my friends older bro is also in Iraq just try to have fun and think positive always
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x0xbarbiegirlx0x answered Sunday July 3 2005, 8:48 pm:
you should comfort your brother as much as you can then you should tell him that he is lucky it wasnt him!

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DancingKiwi123 answered Sunday July 3 2005, 7:20 pm:
try looking for an online support group or a support group in your area. i'm not sure if they have them but if they do it might help you. if you can't find any groups just try talking to someone you can trust with your feelings. or get a journal and write down your feelings. it helps. ~Kerri~

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deathwillcome answered Sunday July 3 2005, 5:50 pm:
I kind of know how you feel, a lot of my close family are in Iraq, and I understand what you are going through. What I would do is think about other things. Go to a lot of places with your friends and get on the comp. a lot more. that's all I can say, because I don't know what your relasionship with your brother is. The only other thing I can say is hold your head up and always have hope. If you have any other questions just look me up.

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Shelly_x answered Sunday July 3 2005, 5:13 pm:
My cousin is in Iraq jsut try to think posative and concentrate on him coming home. talk to your parents about it. They probably feel the same way as you do.

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CAPTAINKJ618 answered Sunday July 3 2005, 12:48 pm:
Well God is a lifechanger...i know praying isnt what you want to hear but he changes lives.. He can help you through this situation.....he cares about you

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icey0990 answered Sunday July 3 2005, 10:31 am:
remain proud for your brave brother and maybe try to find a chatroom for famillies of brothers,uncles,dads,etc who are fighting in iraq..i think talking to other people in your situation would help a lot.

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sunshine1232 answered Sunday July 3 2005, 6:42 am:
just think your brother is doing something good for our country just like the rest of the soliders down in iraq they all are protecting our country from any danger and keeping you and the rest of the world safe try not to think about him being down in iraq so much do some fun things to keep your mind off it~ like hang out with your friends,play outside,read books you could write your feelings out on paper that way all the anger you have inside you goes onto the paper that way nobody elese hears it or sees it but you.

everything will be ok :)

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Mackenzie answered Sunday July 3 2005, 2:56 am:
Awww.. I'm soRRie to heaR this!!! That's teRRible news!! Just keep telling youRself that youR bRotheR.. and his beloved fRiends.. and thousands of otheR gReat AmeRican people aRe out theRe putting theiR lives on the line to pRotect ouR wondeRful land -- they'Re ALL tRue HeRo's... ♥

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