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ok im 17 female....I have a really good friend Bianca and we met through this guy Rey who played us at the same time...anyways i broke up with him and she stayed with him...the thing is me and him have been doing things behind her back because he is really in love with me and i amm still sooo very in love with him...He told me he would brake up with her just to be with me...Question WHAT THE HELL DO I DO?? I mean she loves him soo much and she would never talk to me again if i went out with him and he broke up with her for me...But i dont know who to pick over who he makes me so happy and he is like the love of my life.. What do i doo??She asks me every day if i have talked to him and i have to lie t her every day soo i dont know NEED ADVICE thnx i will rate high is answers are decent and i will give u my feedback wel thanx whoever wants to help please be atleast 15 or older thnx buh bye
Dominican Grl~ (link)
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ok...how do you know that he is going to break up with her for you? how do you know that he REALLY loves you? you could wind up wasting a good relationship with your friend for some asshole that is playin you.....
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I want to buy birth control, but the thing is im kind of young and my parents can't know. If i buy it alone at like the CVS or Walmart, is it possible thatthe sales clerk will stop me from buying it? (link)
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you can go to a planned parenthood and get them for free and your parents never have to know....I did that. it's free for a year or two (maybe) (im not sure about the 2nd year, but I know that the first yr is free)
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Okay me and my boyfriend have sex but the thing is we have never used a condom and I'm not on birth control. I talked to him about it before and we agreed to start using them. But that never happened...I really wish we would but I dont want to say something about it again.....what should i do? (link)
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Well,you SHOULD say something to him...he's not that one that has a chance of getting prenant....it should understand...if he doesn't then...apparently he doesn't about what happens....
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I'm scared, i dont know what to do. Should i involve myself into sexual intercourse? Theres this boy, and i've known him for four years.. He has been t here for me through everything. I recently dropped the highschool scene and went for cyberschool.. It was all because of some friends that wern'et being so friendly... And out of all people he dumped his girlfriend because of me and took my side on it. My bestfriend was his girlfriend. I sorta felt bad about it... But then he told me all the stuff she did to him and how she hurt him. She had cheated on him... and she admitted it to us. He has been there through everyhting... We talk all the time and we are each others best friend. We want to take that further but not sex... When it does come up though... Whhich could be at any given time... How should i react? Should i just give it up? I'm scared because i wouldn't know how to telll my mom... Me and her are sooo open with eachother and i tell her EVERYTHING. but what happens when i lose my virginity and need to go to the gyno? We're gonna hangout at his place this Thursday and i get to meet his family... They are soo nice to me on the phone... hope they are in person to... wish me luck...
Please help.
[«3] Just Me (link)
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Well, the best thing is to just tell your mom...and she will probly take you to the gyno and everything...which is really what you are sposed to do before you have sex anyways...!!! Just tell her how you feel, same with him...if you dont want to, dont be afraid to tell him that..and *from experience* dont do it for him...you WILL regret it! but have fun and good luck!!
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My boyfriend and I had sex a few weeks ago and I was due to get my period today. I still haven't gotten it. We didn't use a condom, but we didn't finish either. He was only in me for a few seconds, not even a minute. Is there any chance that I could be pregnant? I'm showing all my regular signs of PMS, but still no period. (link)
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Even if you didnt finish and he was only in there for a few mintues, there is still a chance you can get pregnant...its called something like pre-ejaculation or something...it tells you on the condom instructions...LOL. But, you could just be late....if you have any more questions...feel free to ask
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ok me and my bf are planning to have sex the thing is we are both virgins and i was wondering wat it was like the first you have sex... mostly on the girls part.. like does it hurt and all that i want to no bc i want to be sure im really ready we already have everything else planned out and all but i still wanna be sure ne good advice and no loser advice is apreciated ill rate good laters (link)
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Yes, it will hurt...VERY BADLY!! It may hurt the first few times you do it...make sure that you are well lubed up...that will make it easier too!!
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When i was seven years old my mom [lets call her tina] and her friend [lets call her jenn]went away and i was left with *jenns daughter shauna at *jenns sisters house [lets call her jamie] well *jamie has a son john who was 14 at the time. Shauna was asleep and john had his friend jeff over, also 15. john made me do it with him and go to third with him and he said if i didnt then he would kill me.. is this rape? i am asking this years later because it still bothers me=/ (link)
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Yes, that is definitely rape. Have you told anyone? (besides us)
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Hi all I need help My wife and I have been married for 28 years have a good relationship but we have a few problems. one is when I play softball in the summer she does not like it when all the guys get together and drink beer or go back to the bar for a beer, I have to tell you that I am not that fond of beer but it is fun to get together after, I find myself just leaving after the game just to avoid a fight with her is it a major thing that I would like to stay for a quick beer and just hang around I personally do not see anything wrong but she hates it.. what should I do thanks... (link)
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Just try talking to her, tell her what you just told the Advicenators poepl..(how much it means to you to stay after....not being that fond of beer..etc) Also, maybe she is worried that you might get drunk and hurt yourself, or another person...or that you will just do something plain stupid. You could always try to take her with you so that she can see for herself what really goes on?? I hope that I helped!
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HOW do i become more outgoing?! I want to get more friends and be funny,instead of a shy good girl!! can anyone help? thnx! (link)
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well, I am a Really outgoing person..all I do is talk to people for no apparent reason, Like if someone is new just walk up to them and introduce yourself etc. I also tend to tell jokes, whether they are funny or not...most of my friends/people that know and like me like this...that is all that I can think of....I hope I helped!!
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This is going to sound gross at first and I apologize. I'm going to try to word it as maturely as possible. Okay, I was talking to this boy that I sort of like, well, that I'm "attracted" to & he had a "boner" or whatever term you want to use. This happened right in the middle of lunch when we were chatting. People found out and started say that means I "arroused" him and that he must have some sort of attraction to me. I'm kind of confused on whether this is what it means because this happened. Thanks.
Btw, I'm 14/f
*jEsS* (link)
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Well, sometimes guys get boners at wrong times...some of my guy friends get them like that too...don't worry about it...shit happens!!! lol!
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this is embarassing to ask... but i really want to know
is using tampons like a guy fingering you? or will it loosen you up? and does it pop your cherry?
i will rate 5s because i really want to know... (link)
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No, It should not...It shouldn't hurt either...and (honestly) I don't think it will loosen you up to the point of being loose..lol if that made sense. It might make it not soo tight..do u get what Im saying?
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ok well i have a boyfriend and we barley get to see each other and the only way we can tlak is on the phone or the computer so we can't reallie do much together so when we start to on the computer im fine but then i dont kno wat to type becuz i dont consider this becuz i juss do it in real not over the computer and my hands start to freeze up and i dont kno what to type that would you kno make him enjoy it more. (link)
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man, im really not tryin to be rude...but speak english...I dont understand what u are trying to say?
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Im 14, female, and i have this really great bf that goes to my school i eat lunch with and is in one of my classes. on the other hand we've been going out for 5 months and i feel like we do the same thing all the time and like hes getting bored or sumthing. Then i have a really good other guy friend that i havent known for that long, which i met through my bf, and i think i like him, and i know he likes me, please help im so lost and confused~ (link)
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Well, do what your heart tells you to...if yu like your boyfriend more, then stay with him but if not then go with the other guy....but dont wait to long to do that or else it might get harder to do...I hope I have answered what you were looking for...if you need more, you can email me at hallwayfiesta44@ev1.net or IM me on donutbandit 00
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I'm a 14-year-old girl. As I was leaving school the other day, I was walking with a casual male friend. As we were talking, he developed a
very large, very obvious erection. I was so embarrassed for him! I pretended not to notice, and didn't say anything, but he seemed
mortified, and left in a hurry. What should I have done? (link)
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All guysget boners...and some of them come at unwanted times..and sometime for noe reason at all...all of my guy friends have had that happen...just pretend you didnt notice it and it would probly make him feel alot better about it.
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Hey I realized my friend sorta WANTS to have sex and she is only 13, shes not going to have it, its just she wants to. I was on her computer and saw alot of porn websites, is this normal for a 13 year old??
I rate high! (link)
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Seeing as to how she is 13 and a teenager..yes...tell her that you want her to talk to you BEFORE she decides to have sex...or atleast talk with another adult..so that she can atleast get protection..because if she gets restricted..she is more than likely to do it anyways and unsafe..trust me, i did it too!
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ok me and my boyfriend hve been together a while. and we hve done most everything but, sex. alot of my friends hve already had sex. i know some people might say im too young but me and my boyfriend love each other and i know we are both physically and emotionally ready. well he comes over often but everytime im on my period [ kinda wierd? ] but we both hve tlked about this.. and sometimes i want to and others im jus like idk.. but i think i am ready but im so scared i might get pregnant but most people i know of hve had sex and used a condom and hve not got pregnant. seriously what are the chances. do you think im ready? and how would i let him know while we are together that i want to..? PLEASE DONT SAY IM NASTY OR NETHING IM REALLY NOT! please answer asap (link)
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Well, first off, (im REALLY not trying to be rude or anything!!!!) BUt, sweeti, WE CANT TELL you whether or not you are ready...only you can decide...but anyways...no, you are not nasty..i had sex whenever i was 12..soo...I used a condom..and i didnt get pregnant...and we also pulled out...and MAKE sure that you ARE ready...and not doing it JUST FOR HIM!!! WHy dont you just start off simple like making out and proceed on..until he gets the hint...ya know? if he doesnt take it them be like...do u wanna...and about the period thing...call him over whenever you ARENT on it!!! good luck and have fun!
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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female (link)
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WEll, try and talk to him about it..when you get him alone tell him about your feelings for him...I cant really say that he POSITIVELY likes you...but im thinkin yes (the signs are obvious)!!!! So, after you find out how he feels about you...then go for it, and maybe ASK HIM OUT??
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A year or two ago i went out w/ this girl. i liked her, she liked me. i dumped her ,because i relized that she wasn't that actractive, and she hated me. she wouldn't talk to me look at me etc. now i see her in the halls and at dismissle. now she really actractive. i don't want to go out w/ her or anything, i just want to be her friend again.what should i do?
p.s. she has a boy-friend now (link)
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WEll, TRY to talk to her or something. Stop her in the halls and ask her to talk with her...no catch. Then ya'll could go somewhere and maybe talk?
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i dated this guy but the timming wasn't right .. anyways we have been talking and we are going out on friday.. actually i'm going over to his house .. my question is even though we have been through that and we have done stuff physically ..its like our 1st date since like 6 months ..are we supposed to catch up were we left of or start again? i mean physically (link)
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Well, it depends on what you and him both want...if you want to "catch up", and so does he...go for it...but if neither of you do then start over?
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Most of my friends are gettin pregnat and getting herpes it is scaring me ... All my friends I thought were so much smarter than me are stupid and having sex already . I know you want to but you need to hold back .... I am scared that in a way I am gonna be forced into it .... Can you help ? (link)
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Well, BE THE SMART ONE (no offense to your friends) and DON'T have sex!!! And if you are afraid that you are going to be forced into it...try and stay away from it...stay away from people that you feel uncomfortable around....and if somebody does anything to you that you don't want...TELL SOMEBODY!!!! DO NOT BE AFRAID...THE LONGER YOU WAIT....THE MORE IT WILL HAPPEN...!!! I hope I helped!
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