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Im such a bad friend :(


Question Posted Monday April 10 2006, 7:45 pm

ok im 17 female....I have a really good friend Bianca and we met through this guy Rey who played us at the same time...anyways i broke up with him and she stayed with him...the thing is me and him have been doing things behind her back because he is really in love with me and i amm still sooo very in love with him...He told me he would brake up with her just to be with me...Question WHAT THE HELL DO I DO?? I mean she loves him soo much and she would never talk to me again if i went out with him and he broke up with her for me...But i dont know who to pick over who he makes me so happy and he is like the love of my life.. What do i doo??She asks me every day if i have talked to him and i have to lie t her every day soo i dont know NEED ADVICE thnx i will rate high is answers are decent and i will give u my feedback wel thanx whoever wants to help please be atleast 15 or older thnx buh bye

Dominican Grl~


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beckss answered Tuesday April 11 2006, 1:30 pm:
Ok well this guy Rey sounds like hes playing you again. By telling you all these things, "ill brake up with her for you"? He played you once, hes probaly playing you again. Dont risk your friendship with this guy who might be playing you again. How do you know he really loves you? How do you know hes telling you the truth? You dont. Its hard for someone to change, and this guy doesnt sound like he did. Hes already cheating on his girlfriend for you, if you went out with him, hed probaly do the same to you and youd lose your really good friend. Dont take that risk, its not worth it. good luck ;)
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bandgeeksunite answered Monday April 10 2006, 9:12 pm:
Have you ever heard stories about how girls date married men who promise they'll get a divorce, but never do? It happens a lot. Guys can be @ssholes sometimes. Both of you shouldnt be involved with a guy that would do that to both of you anyway. If he's cheating on her, who says he wouldnt cheat on you? I know, you're probably thinking, "This is not the kind of advice i wanted," but it's the truth. Sorry..

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honu22 answered Monday April 10 2006, 9:08 pm:
You and your friend should not be involved with him. How can you love him when he is cheating all the time? Think about it, he keeps switching between you 2. I don't want to explain it any further because it's complicated. You should be able to know how much trust in involved in love. You aren't a bad friend, he's a bad boyfriend.

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CoUnTrYgUrL77 answered Monday April 10 2006, 8:55 pm:
ok...how do you know that he is going to break up with her for you? how do you know that he REALLY loves you? you could wind up wasting a good relationship with your friend for some asshole that is playin you.....

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karenR answered Monday April 10 2006, 8:10 pm:
I hate to say this but you didn't learn the first time. :(

He is still playing you. I doubt he is going to break up with your friend. He's getting two for the price of one.

Ideally you would tell your friend and you would both dump him in the nearest ditch, but he has you over a barrel. You tell her and most likely your friendship is over.

You should really find yourself a guy who wants only you. You don't deserve to be strung along by this guy. The happy moments if you really think about it are probably very few.

You will, of course do what you want to. I just think you need to rethink this relationship. I doubt it is going to go very far.

Good luck. :)

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